Dominant Cd?! Possible,,?

[Ayadooo]

Is it possible for a Crossdresser to have a dominant side,, Like dominating others for pleasure in bdsm, role-playing or having there own sex slaves?
Could it pleasure a CD to have thier foot worshipped?
I always get this thoughts so i decided to ask this question,,
Thanx for reading :)

[Tracii G]

I don't have any fetishes so I really don't know.
Sex has nothing to do with my crossdressing.

[Ayadooo]

Good to know :)

[Dana44]

I would say yes, we are men are we? Men can do a lot and have a slave in sex from fem or male. I had a slave female chase me for years, she was absolutely beautiful and I had to answer her as master and she always answered as slave. I just could not see that come to fruition as I look for more in a relationship.

[Shelly Preston]

I suppose anything is possible since no two people are the same.

[mechamoose]

Absolutely!

In the same way some of us want our women to hold us down and take pleasure in us.

Who you are and what you like have -nothing- to do with who is giving that to you!

My girl treats me like a lady a lot of the time! Other times she is making her beast give her what she wants.

It is about love & intimacy, not about roles in that regard. You either like watching their toes curl or you don't!

- MM

- MM

[Pat]

I know the answer to this: yes! Not because we are men, but because we are human. We can be dominant, we can be submissive, if there's something else we can be that too. I generally prefer to be submissive but there are times and conditions when I am dominant. It really has nothing to do with crossdressing or not.

[Jorja]

Why not? Why does everyone think just because you are CD/TG/TS you are submissive? People really need to get a grip on reality and get out of fantasy land.

[Tina_gm]

Your not kidding Jorja, it baffles me to no end the perception of what a woman is or should be so many CDers have. You would think that just about all CDers would have a better understanding of women then cisgender people, but definitely not the case at all...

[ShriekCassandra]

Gives the ones who think that the chance to play the role of the bottom for once I guess. :/

[Robin414]

I think so for sure, not a sexual thing for me but I've always been a dominant alpha type and like to think I still am as a 'girl'. I'm a woman Jim, not a sissy! 😠

[Mink]

I would say all CDers are a bit submissive or "Sissy" by nature...

esp. in the bedroom!

some just would never admit it!

[MelanieAnne]

I had a slave female chase me for years, she was absolutely beautiful and I had to answer her as master and she always answered as slave. I just could not see that come to fruition as I look for more in a relationship.

Ummm, could I have her number? :D

[Adriana Moretti]

yes totally......have you met my girlfriend?? LOL........but yeah there are quite a few out there for sure, you just gotta know where to look

[Jenniferathome]

I would say all CDers are a bit submissive or "Sissy" by nature...

esp. in the bedroom!

some just would never admit it!

Projecting yourself on others is a common form of rationalization but it's never correct. Objectivity is your friend, try to find it.

[MelanieAnne]

but yeah there are quite a few out there for sure, you just gotta know where to look

Ummm, gimme a hint.

[Melissa Rose]

What does cross dressing have anything to do with being dominant or submissive? Many MTF cross dressers "behave" submissive while dressed thinking it is part of being a woman or feminine and this thinking is misguided. Dominants and submissives comes in all shapes and sizes, and being a cross dresser does not automatically relegate you to one category or another.


I would say all CDers are a bit submissive or "Sissy" by nature...
Really? All? I know a few who are strongly dominant and ooze alpha male even when dressed. They are definitely dudes in a dress. Nothing about them could be considered sissy.

[Elli87]

there sure can be I happen to know one very well, me

[Katey888]

Possible...?

Of course - both or either...

For some of us, totally unrelated to the CDing - for others, maybe very related... :thinking:

Would it be pleasurable to have my foot worshipped...? Hmmm.... Don't see why not... just be sure to be very obedient and do exactly as you're told when you're on the pointy end of my nicest sandals... :battingeyelashes:

Now, where did I leave my sjambok...? :eek:

Katey x

[Jorja]

Katey knows wayyyyy to much about all of this! :)

[Jazzy Jaz]

There are countless dominatrixes and male slaves that serve them, why couldnt there be dominant cders? I too dont get why people cling to stereotypes. Even IF most women or cders were submissive that still wouldnt mean ALL are that way, everyone is unique and i know many tough women. When dressed I would enjoy being submissive however, just cause.

[Ayadooo]

there sure can be I happen to know one very well, me

I definitely would like to see a dominant Cd in action <3


Possible...?

Of course - both or either...

For some of us, totally unrelated to the CDing - for others, maybe very related... :thinking:

Would it be pleasurable to have my foot worshipped...? Hmmm.... Don't see why not... just be sure to be very obedient and do exactly as you're told when you're on the pointy end of my nicest sandals... :battingeyelashes:

Now, where did I leave my sjambok...? :eek:

Katey x

That was sexy somehow :o :o
U know a lot for sure katey :*

[MissTee]

I definitely would like to see a dominant Cd in action <3

Um, that sounds very troll like. Especially with only 4 posts. Myself I'm not into BDSM or the like.

[Mink]

sticks and stones will break some bones but words can excite you!

[Ayadooo]

Not trolling MissTee i would really love to watch this,, maybe being part of it

[docrobbysherry]

The whole BDsm thing seems like middle school kids games to me. That may sound funny coming from someone who posts lots of silly story photos here. And, many cheesy, kinky photo stories else where.

However, since mine only involve Sherry and I? There's no compromising rules and arbitrary limits. No one is ever really hurt, embarrassed, dissappointed, or offended. Which, I think, easily happens in real life BDsm.:eek:

I have plenty of fantasies and fetishes based on dressing and bondage. But, real life control or being controlled, isn't one of them!:straightface:

[Fi-Fi LeFemme]

I know I am. Once dressed I feel more confident and as I do have a fetishistic side as well, it does go go together quite well.
On other sites, I have posted some of my pics dressed as a domme and they have had quite a response! X

[Lily Catherine]

Absolutely. I would want to be one.

On the other hand I do suspect the notion of the submissive CD has a direct link with the rampant cliché of forced feminization / sissification as part of BDSM to begin with, the feminized party being unavoidably submissive to begin with.

[mikeyp]

Absolutely. I would want to be one.

On the other hand I do suspect the notion of the submissive CD has a direct link with the rampant cliché of forced feminization / sissification as part of BDSM to begin with, the feminized party being unavoidably submissive to begin with.Right. Some people would say that forced feminization has everything to do with the person's subconscious mind telling them that it isn't okay to dress like a woman on your own terms, so if someone forces you to do it, you had no choice.

I see it as the ultimate form of emasculation, you're literally becoming the "weaker" sex because society tells us that you can't be submissive AND be a man, so your brain tells you that you that becoming feminine is the only way to actually become submissive during sex. Yet, women can still be dominant AND be sexy. If you asked your gf/wife/etc to humiliate you, spank you, blah blah blah, it's a turn off to MOST women.

Society honestly sucks for men. We've tried to keep traditional "manly" roles around for far too long. Things need to change soon.

[Alice_2014_B]

I can be dom or sub.
Not into foot worship though.
:)

[CarlaWestin]

Sure. Sometimes I'm dressing to be a female but, often there's a theme. Role playing is part of the fun sometimes.

[Ayadooo]

role playing is the best thing ever exist

[Katey888]

That was sexy somehow :o :o


It's a knack dear... :battingeyelashes: like just knowing where to prod those heels for maximum effect with minimum bruising... :eek:

A lot of people don't understand how much of this is in one's mind - which given the enthusiasm that a lot of folks will put into fantasising about celebrities, super-heroes, pink pills and music videos I find a little surprising and amusing... Fantasies are good for you - and if they have a little sexual frisson thrown in for good measure there's nothing wrong with that between consenting adults, and if many of us are not role playing here when we're expressing our femme persona then I'm curious as to what is coming out...

There are plenty of other places that cover the BDSM sort of thing aplenty, so back on track... :)

Katey x

[Ayadooo]

There are plenty of other places that cover the BDSM sort of thing aplenty, so back on track... :)


places like what ? i may make a visit ,,
and dose "back on track" means "you'r in the wrong place" ? :daydreaming:

[Katey888]

Places..?? Just spend some time on Google... :)

Back on track...?? Just a reminder for me to get my mind back on 'normal' things and stop daydreaming - so no, you're not necessarily in the wrong place, but this is just more a CD discussion forum whereas other sites major more in fetish with a touch of CD... or so I believe... :D

It doesn't get discussed much here as it's not 'mainstream' amongst this CD community - but look on other sites and you can see that there is a lot more that goes on - here, we're just a bit more highbrow and sophisticated... aren't we ladies...??? :brolleyes:

Katey x

[Ayadooo]

Thanx for the explanation
You r so sweet and lovely katey :*

[Beverley Sims]

I think so any thing is possible in today's world.

[MelanieAnne]

I could play either role, very well! But skip the foot worship.