If not the same team, at least in the same league

[kimdl93]

i suppose this merits a new thread. Last night, as I noted in another thread, ironically on the topic of not being on the same team, I came out to as transsexual to the members of my board of directors. This morning, I had coffee with the vice chairman, as myself, as a woman, for the first time.

Let me state emphatically that this was not an impulsive act. After 35 months of pondering and weighing the pros and cons, the time had simply come. This was a necessary step and I feel good about it.

[stefan37]

I offer my condolences

[Katey888]

Congratz Kim...!!! :cheer: Woo Hoo!

What a phenomenal step to take and you have my very best wishes that all goes well... I can't help but think your rational and balanced approach to everything should be a hefty factor in your further acceptance, and - of course - everything that has gone on media-wise in the past 6 months to bring trans issues to broader (if not better) understanding.

Perhaps now there would be few important folk for you to be out to (I hope I'm right there) we might actually get a pic of the real Kim and be able to put a face to the person...? :) C'mon - you know how visually oriented us CDers are... :devil:

Really pleased for you and wishing you very much success... :hugs:

Katey x

[becky77]

So common, how did it go?

Was it awkward, ok? How did you feel and how do you think the vice chairman dealt with it?

[kimdl93]

That is me, Katey...I confess, I am a multi wing experimental aircraft. For the longest time I've been taxing back and forth, testing the controls and reviewing my checklists. So, I finally soloed. Now to bring this baby back in for a safe landing.

Bex, it was surprisingly easy, both the conversation last night and the reveal this morning. Two hours later, when I left their house, we hugged and really it was great. I can't say how the other board members felt. Time,of course,will tell.

My vice chair, his partner and many board members are gay, which may seem unusual but it's related to the nature of our mission. I think now they understand that my commitment to the organization is rooted in things beyond professional or financial interests.

Stef, it's not an occasion for condolences;). Will I face challenges? Such is life. But I doubt that anything ahead will come as a surprise.

[Nikkilovesdresses]

Well if they'd objected you could always have fired them...

Happy landings ace!

[Badtranny]

congratulations.

Welcome to the team?

Be strong.

[Kimberly Kael]

Congratulations on this pivotal day for you! May things proceed relatively smoothly thanks to all your careful planning and preparation. I'm sure there will be occasional bumps in the road, but that's what we're here for.

[STACY B]

Just takes some of us a lot Longer than others and sometimes more than one Try,,,lol,,,, Welcome Home Kid,,,

[LeaP]

Looks like Misty is handing you one of the blue team shirts. Now, are you in the same league??? :D

[Dana44]

Kim, that is awesome and congratulations. I'm sure it took nerve and it seemed that you did well.

[kimdl93]

thanks for jersey....but i need a size sixteen!

[GretchenJ]

Hey Kim,

Am really glad that your coming out party went very well for you !

Congrats
Gretch

[Suzanne F]

Kim
Congratulations!!!! I know how hard this day is. I applaud you and hope everything goes well.
Suzanne

[I Am Paula]

Kim, I'm very proud of you. You've taken a huge step that I know you've agonized over. You must be feeling a lot of relief. Welcome.:hugs:

[Adelaide]

This is awesome. I'm so happy for you!

[Rogina B]

I offer my condolences

We are not all the same here.

[PretzelGirl]

Kim, I know this is a well thought out event for you. I am ecstatic that it seems all is well. Authenticity is its own reward.

[Persephone]

:cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

Wow, Kim! So excited and pleased for you!!!

I must admit, you caught me by total surprise (as you evidently caught a few other folks!). I had no idea that you were ready to jump out of the plane!

You are one of the folks I regard most highly around here. I wish you every bit of success in your future journey. So happy for you.

Hugs,
Persephone.

[Eringirl]

Wee haw!! Way to go Kim !! So happy for you. I must admit that I was also a bit surprised. No clue this was on your radar at all! But glad it went well and that you had the courage to carry it out. Welcome aboard!

Erin

[kimdl93]

I'll acknowledge that I tend to keep my own counsel. I do listen, sometimes hear, and occasionally learn from those around me.

All the talk of teams and tribes aside, I try to plan and act in a manner that advances my personal needs while accommodating my other responsibilities and the people in my life to the extent I can. We shall see.

[Barbara Ella]

So happy for you Kim. Glad it went so well with your board. I know you will be so much happier.

hugs, Barbara

[michelleddg]

Yo Kimsters, congratulations, that is so awesome!! Hugs, Michelle

[jules]

Now it's my turn to say WOW. :)
Congratulations Kim.
I am really impressed to say the least. I kind or knew it was only a matter of time. :D

Hugs
Julie