seeking others

[soccer1986]

Well I have been here for a couple months now and I do enjoy reading about other and what they are going through. You learn a lot from other experience.
One thing that I would like to know is for those that seek people on the internet, doesn't matter what they are, how difficult is it to actually get to know them? I am single and this part of me i have not shared with anyone. I would really love to find a girl that was ok with this part of me and maybe have friends that i can talk to about this.
I have gone to events and bars but the people there seem to be more into the hooking up with someone and girls are really hard to find.
Dressing for me is not as important as finding someone i can connect with, i really enjoy it but i really enjoy being my guy self.

[Crystal Beth]

There are groups like Tri Ess that are a bit of a support group, so I am not sure if that will help. I was on TSdate.com years back and did meet some people that I had really nice conversations with. When I was hitting the clubs (dressed), I did manage to meet some very nice women and became good friends with them. It is possible, but takes time. Sometimes the more casual gay bars are better than gay nightclubs. I have found that women will go to the casual bars because they feel they will not be swarmed upon by a pack of wolves

[reb.femme]

I'm assuming that you are in the States rather than the UK? Assumption based on your name of Soccer1986.

You definitely need to look up a group in your area, so that you get to meet people on a non hook-up basis and build a friendship over time. I met a fantastic person a couple of months back at our group meet in south London and ended up going clubbing that very night. It can be well worth the effort.

Rebecca