Trying to guess if someone is a crossdresser...

[Luciana]

Did you already catch yourself looking at a stranger man and wondering if he would be a crossdresser?

I have done it a lot lately when I go outside and see dudes in bank row, post office, walking on the street, etc... I really have some fun imagining the more improbable ones being a lady just like I am!

:devil:

[pamela7]

yes, its like buying a new car and then noticing all the other ones of the same type, whereas before you did not notice.

I reckon we're far less noticed/visible to the normals than we think, because we are sensitised to clocking CD signals, most people are not.

[Launa]

Yeah I do especially for the guys that can have the long hair and wear it a little on the girlish side. I say Hmmmm are you one of the gang??

[Teri Ray]

I think we need a special crossdresser handshake.

[deebra]

And do you wish you were one of them girly boys that could dress and pass?

[Tina_gm]

Generally I don't try to watch for the may be CDers. I will only do so if something catches my attention, like waxed or tweezed eyebrows, long nails, shaved legs or other body areas. Not a definite, but a high probability.

[Kate Simmons]

Not really unless I happen to see him en femme at the club. :)

[Jane G]

Never gien it much thought to be honest. They"re such a straight cut lot in the dockyard. Some times I think I work in a Dickens novel.

[Krisi]

Looking at men dressed as men and wondering if they are crossdressers? Nope, it never occurred to me. I may occasionally see what appears to be a woman and wonder if she is a male crossdresser, but that's pretty rare where I live. They are either really good at it or they stay home and out of sight.

[Adriana Moretti]

never looked at a stranger and wondered...but i have seen signs ( i have them too) eyebrows are a bit too neat, no facial hair etc

[avant1465]

Teri: That's a great idea!!!! NOW, you have to invent it (that handshake)!!!!!

[audreyinalbany]

only in the most general way. like at an event I'll sometimes think, "if two percent of men are crossdressers, there must be at least a couple others here"

[Saikotsu]

I sometimes pick up on subtle hints that there's more to the people around me than I think, but I haven't ever wondered if a person is a crossdresser. I've found myself wondering about peoples gender identity or sexuality, but not whether or not they're a crossdresser.

However, in my experience, I find a lot of my friends and acquaintances don't fit into a cisgender or strictly heterosexual mold. I'm not sure if that's by coincidence or if I'm naturally drawn to such people.

[Robin414]

I find I do lately!

[Eryn]

I think we need a special crossdresser handshake.

Problem is, none of us wants to be recognized!

We're the most secret secret society, one in which we don't even acknowledge each other!

[Robin414]

So true Eryn, sooo true!

[stacifox13]

I took a walk through philly down town area and tried to guess. I could not tell not to good at this. now i am thinking what was i really doing down there. i am trying to get honest with myself. still a lot of self denial.

[CynthiaD]

I once encountered a guy with a full beard wearing a bridesmaid dress. I'm pretty sure he was a crossdresser. But other than that, I really have no idea.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Luciana, When I'm in Home Depot I look at all of the other macho guys like myself
and just wonder how many are under dressing Crossdressers .:daydreaming:

[BillieAnneJean]

OK Gals, we do need an official handshake. How about this?

Fold your pinky (little) finger and ring finger in and make it a gentle girly handshake. To be used only when you are certain the other person is a CDer.

[JennykBailey]

I so rarely get to dress up these days I often see the man in the mirror and wonder if he really is a Crossdresser :)