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Flowergirl
10-27-2015, 06:20 PM
So I know for the most part, when it comes to Adult Halloween costumes, pretty much anything goes. I have an idea, but I'm not sure if it is disrespectful to our community, so I though I would try to get some opinions from here!

My thought was to wear a dress and present as well as possible, but not to worry about my hairy arms or "man-hands" (I usually wear long sleeves or a jacket). The costume part would be to get one of the "Hello my name is" stickers and write Bruce Jenner, and then cross out the Bruce and write Caitlyn above it. I'm not sure how it would be received by the general public(and don't really care), but I would care if it would be considered offensive by a sister. Any thoughts?

Miranda

docrobbysherry
10-27-2015, 06:38 PM
What r u hoping to accomplish? Crossdress, or wear a more socially acceptable look? Sounds like you're mixing apples and oranges, FG.

Vanillas that dress as females on Halloween usually do the comedic look. With a $3 wig, beard and stash, balloon boobs, etc.

While first time out dressers often go for a polished, regular female look.

Personally, I go for a, female in a costume look. Because I sometimes can pass that way. I can do comedy looks at home, in private, the other 364 days a year!:heehee:

Erica Marie
10-27-2015, 10:14 PM
Im not sure of this idea, sounds like some people will take it wrong and make it a mockery. Im thinking doc made a good point. I would either go full blown drag queen and have fun with it, or run the risk that someone will catch on that you have a bit too much experience in finding a female persona. I would keep the name tag out of it though. Just my opinion so please lets hear from others.

Robin414
10-27-2015, 10:36 PM
IMHO, go as an amazing looking woman, but 'act' like a dude!

Jenniferathome
10-27-2015, 11:07 PM
A "woman" is not a costume.

Lorileah
10-27-2015, 11:16 PM
personally, I think it would be insulting. Just dress up and use that as a costume. You may think it's a tribute (I don't quite get how you take it but the statement of man hands and hairy arms tells me you don't "Get" the transsexual group) but it will be seen as a joke. But I'm not at your party so...

Rachelakld
10-28-2015, 02:36 AM
I wouldn't touch it either.
I've done a few years as the standard "witch", mostly adult parties (almost lost a boob when everyone wanted to feel and try on my breasts).
This year the party is a daytime party at a 2 year olds, so hopefully wifes wedding dress and angle wings (or as the Ice Queen or similar)

CarlaWestin
10-28-2015, 06:54 AM
A "woman" is not a costume.

I totally agree. And, well, you know, Ms. Jenner seriously deserves every bit of respect that we can offer.

Princess Chantal
10-28-2015, 08:14 AM
:)If I were to do a Caitlyn Jenner costume it would be as feminine as possible with a female olympian outfit or with a glamour dress accessorized with gold medals. No sash or signs to explain who I am trying to portray

AnnieMac
10-28-2015, 08:26 AM
"A "woman" is not a costume." You nailed it Jennifer. That's exactly what the problem is using Halloween as an excuse to cross dress in public and think people won't think anything of it. They'll know you are a cross dresser now. Not a big deal if you are out, but a big deal if you are not.

Krisi
10-28-2015, 08:30 AM
It wouldn't offend me but this seems to be the year of the "offended" so I'm sure it would offend someone, somewhere. I think it's a pretty good idea, personally. Try to find an outfit that looks like the one Jenner posed in for the magazine cover.

Why not trim your hairy arms with a "man's groomer"? You will still have hair but it won't be so obvious.

Edit: I see you have already offended some people and you haven't even left your home. Halloween costumes often imitate or make fun of public figures. I remember JFK and Richard Nixon masks from the past. You can be sure you won't be the only one wearing a Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner costume this year.

See this:
http://www.papermag.com/2015/10/in_garbage_world_news_caitlyn.php

Yoshisaur
10-28-2015, 09:01 AM
Some people might laugh, some might blow it off, and some will upset upset. That costume would offend someone no doubt about that.

NicoleScott
10-28-2015, 03:05 PM
A woman is not a costume? Oh, please. How many of us dressed as a woman - no particular woman - for Halloween? Furthermore, Caitlyn is a celebrity, and fair game. I like the idea, and think it's clever and funny. But then, I don't wake up every day looking for something to offend me like some do. Do it, have fun on Halloween, and when it's over it's over, and the offended can get over it.

Pat
10-28-2015, 03:45 PM
The concept behind Halloween costumes is disguise, so all the cross-cultural angst on display this time of year seems a little misplaced. If your costume is designed to disrespect someone/some culture then it's wrong. If it's meant to disguise you so the evil spirits combing the world on All Hallow's Eve won't be able to recognize you and give you your just comeuppance, then it's fair.

Your proposed costume could be sly social commentary or it could be disrespectful to Transgender people everywhere -- you have to ask yourself why you're wearing it. If you're satisfied that your heart is pure, then go for it.

Flowergirl
10-28-2015, 09:10 PM
Thanks for the responses. As it turns out, I won't even have to make the decision...the party that I was hoping to attend was cancelled! So I guess that this is life's way of saying that I shouldn't.