A week to dress

[Sallee]

Well I spent the last week getting a lot of girl time in and it sure was fun. Today was the last time probably until the new year and I was ready for it to end, I even had to push myself to dress today. I got out went to some clubs hit the mall a bunch of times I visited a MAC and got a new foundation Although I did that in drab, next time Sallee will go. I wanted to hit a casino but that didn't happen. Every time I get an extended period of Sallee time I realize that I have no desire to transition I do like the cloths and the makeup, etc and it sure is fun, but by the end of my Sallee time I realize I am who I am regardless of how I am dressed and I still have to do the chores that need to be done and no one really cares or so it seems. It just gets to be to much trouble to get the boobs out do the makeup, be sure it is perfect before walking out, get the padding in place, put the wig on, etc. I think I probably pass ok only had 1 or 2 looks even with interaction that gave a sign of a possible read and I wore skirts a bunch. So I guess what this says it is cding is kind of like a hobby and that real girls are just like me only better looking and don't have to work at getting the padding right or the make up perfect. But thats maybe why I enjoy it. I know I will keep cross dressing at least I hope so Its kind of like skiing only a little cheaper and you don't need snow but I still get that silly grin after a few days of it.
Pictures to come

[alwayshave]

Sallee, I as well am a crossdresser who just enjoys my occasional chance to dress and do makeup and feel pretty.

[Usulsjourney]

Sallee
I feel similar in a lot of ways. I do not venture out but I have accepted that this is a part of me and not all of me. I call it a hobby or a fetish or whatever fits at the moment. Once I got past the concern of "is this a problem?" and accepted dressing as a part of who I am, life became much simpler. Like everything else I try to roll with the ebbs and flows of desire to dress and the opportunities presented.

[JanePeterson]

I've been at it for about a week now also, and I have no desire to slow down yet!!

[Beverley Sims]

Sallee,
Dressing and skiing done together works for me. :-)

[Georgina]

I dress every night, and usually all day Sunday, as I love how the clothes look and feel. I seldom do full make up as the time taken would spoil it for me. I never loose interest as a result.

[Candice June Lee]

I fear that if the opportunity to dress daily for a week, I would not want to go back to drab. Heck I underdress every day and keep body hair minimal always.

[Sallee]

both great fun but I don't think I could do them together but it might be interesting. With goggles and a face mask you wouldn't have to worry about make up

[Julie Denier]

I would love to have one full uninterrupted day to dress, let alone a week ;)

[Sallee]

what a grin that would be But I think I would forget about what I was wearing and be focused on getting down the hill

[Helen_Highwater]

Sallee,

I'm with you entirely. Perhaps once a year I get the chance to dress 24 hrs a day for 5-7 days. Towards the end it becomes ever more difficult to stay focused. " I even had to push myself to dress today.". I've had the opportunity to go out but chosen to spend time sat on the sofa dressed and watched TV for the evening. I can totally understand those who long for a day fully dressed. The first time is a complete revelation. Sleeping enfemme to wake up the next day knowing you can carry on dressing is just wonderful. The issue is, and this is where I'm totally in tune with you, it soon becomes routine. I'm not going to stay indoors. If I have this opportunity I'm out the door (every rule is there to be broken, see above). This takes commitment. Shaving, makeup, dressing to blend. It takes effort. Finding somewhere to go that doesn't involve clothes shopping. You can't do that 7 days a week. No GG does.

I know from this experience that transition isn't for me. What i do love is interacting with other CD/Trans folks. Sharing stories and experiences. Solo enfemme I've dined in restaurants, been to the cinema, shopped, all sorts of normal interaction. But it's a lonely existence. I've been fortunate on occasion to share some these things with others from this site and that makes a huge difference. But 24/7/365, not for me.

[Sallee]

Helen you are absolutely correct at least for me I do go out, I do interact, but when it becomes routine the thrill is gone so why bother because it is a bother, shaving, makeup, even the clothing in the dress to blend become routine a shirt and jeans with sneakers just like 90% of the women out there on a regular day
It nice to see I am not alone in those thoughts

[Karen RHT]

My objective is to wear what I want, when I want, where I want. The freedom to wear my clothes when and where I please. No schedules, no full time one way or the other, just the freedom to choose.


Karen