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ashleyjane15
12-11-2015, 09:22 PM
I must have the coolest mom ever.

I was out Christmas shopping with my mom today. And I had been dancing around the "issue" of my cding for a few weeks trying to work up the courage to tell her.
We were at the food court of a nearby mall and I just tell her.
She told me that she kinda figured since she had found various undergarments in my laundry. She then told me her standard philosophy on my life. "As long as you're happy and it's not illegal, I don't care."
I don't know why I was so anxious about telling her. She has always just wanted to see me happy. My main concern now is that her boyfriend is somewhat conservative. So I may just have to stay hidden to him. I don't want my life to affect theirs.
Moral of the story: The second biggest hurdle in my life is over. My s/o knows and my mom knows. That's good enough for me.

Lots of love,
Ashley

Tracii G
12-11-2015, 10:15 PM
Mom's are awesome!!!!
Just play it by ear on the BF.
I'm conservative and I dress so all is not lost LOL

kittie60
12-11-2015, 10:49 PM
Sounds like your mom is one of.those "one in a million moms". And soon is your so is to.best of luck to you.

DanaR
12-12-2015, 01:25 AM
Very cool, thanks for sharing!

emma-louise
12-12-2015, 04:37 AM
what an awesome mum you have x

Michelle 78
12-12-2015, 05:57 AM
I wish I could say the same for mine:sad:

Never mind, so pleased for you, thanks for sharing!:)

bridget thronton
12-12-2015, 10:29 AM
You have a great mom

Beverley Sims
12-12-2015, 10:48 AM
Ashley,
It is likely that your mom will share the informtion with her boyfriend, and I think he would just have to accept it anyway.

All the best with your new found freedom.

I Am Paula
12-12-2015, 11:06 AM
The way parents ought to be. You've got a great mom there.

EllieMayxxx
12-12-2015, 11:09 AM
I hope when I come out my parents are like this.

MissDanielle
12-12-2015, 06:11 PM
That's great about your mom. I have a feeling my therapist will have to help my folks...

Tami Joy
12-13-2015, 06:12 AM
Hey Ashley moms always knows about everything even If you think they don't.

Jennie2
12-13-2015, 06:24 AM
Wow your mum sound really cool and quite rightly so. I am sure now you will have an even better relationship with her.

Marcelle
12-13-2015, 06:31 AM
Hi Ashley,

What a great mom . . . thanks for sharing your joy.

Cheers

Marcelle

Angie G
12-13-2015, 09:54 AM
Great MOM Ashley.:hugs:
Angie

Sarah-RT
12-13-2015, 10:13 AM
Congrats ashley!

I told my mom in the summer and things have been great since, when the homefield is in order life is much better.
If you live at home with the two of them ask your mom about what she thinks with regard to her boyfriend, my moms philosophy is ''if your family cant love you no one can'' so she should stick by you.

Sarah

TrishaTX
12-13-2015, 10:18 AM
Great mom! you have to love your child no matter what

Jamie390
12-13-2015, 05:53 PM
Funny thing is, my wife is strictly DODT with me. But if one of my son's were into CDing, I am willing to bet she would be 100% supportive.:brolleyes:

Danielle_cder
12-13-2015, 06:16 PM
Rock on girl friend!!

It's interesting how moms kinda know....my mom knew, then I told her and she was the same didn't care. We are watching broncos right now, I'm dressed. Have faith in those who are your true friends and they will stand by you how ever you present.


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Suzanne F
12-13-2015, 07:31 PM
That is so sweet! Being honest about who we are is priceless!
Suzanne

Invisible Emily
12-13-2015, 10:06 PM
That's awesome!!! I hope my mom wouldn't care either since she doesn't say anything about me painting my nails. My dad on the other hand......

ashleyjane15
12-13-2015, 11:11 PM
Ashley,
It is likely that your mom will share the informtion with her boyfriend, and I think he would just have to accept it anyway.

All the best with your new found freedom.
My mom's not really like that. She told me that she wouldn't say anything because it's not her secret to tell.