summer swimming

[antonyio]

I was just hoping I could get some idea,summer is here in nz and the daugthers want to swim in public with me,they suspect but I haven't fullt told them as yet(hoping to this week)I have just started hrt and my breast are just forming,do I wear a bikini which I am comfortable with or one piece or male togs till the girls are full comfortable with it,also which change rooms do I use or do I apoarch the staff at the desk and ask.254797of course I wouldn't have a wig on now as my hair is now shourlder length

[arbon]

That is quite a leap from having not even told them to going out swimming in a bikini with them. Good luck.

[Jessica EnFemme]

Yea... like arbon says, it's going to be a shock to your daughters if you try that. I'd stick with a T-shirt on top at least until your breasts are obvious, and use the men's changing room until you're post-op. Or just arrive and leave in your swimwear without involving anyone else.

[docrobbysherry]

I know things r less Puritanical Down Under. But, I would definitely NOT show up in public in girls togs with with them!:doh:

Wait until you've had a completely private, sit down, question and explanation session with them first!:thumbsup:

[Kate T]

I really don't like telling people what to wear but the following is for your benefit and that of your daughters.

1. You know it is not a good idea to go swimming with them in a Bikini when you haven't actually told them yet.
2. I'm not sure why you posted the photo but now you have then here is a bit of advice. You might be comfortable in a Bikini but I'm afraid it is not particularly flattering for you. Leave the Bikini for private wear or Tweenagers. Try a nice 2 piece with a tank top. Until you are out completely and very comfortable in yourself I would also suggest getting a rash top, they are great for covering all kinds of lumps and bumps from chest through to unwanted belly rolls.