reb.femme
12-30-2015, 07:27 PM
I try to talk to my wife about my CD life, but sometimes she finds it hard to put into words, what she is really feeling or thinking. Today, we were getting ready to take back some boots that I ordered online and were too tight, to a local shop in Croydon. Out of the blue and with tears in her eyes, she said she wanted more days with her husband that included no women’s clothing or female trappings such as painted nails, etc. etc. I underdress every day and nails are painted 50% of the time.
Naturally, I’ve had to take that on board and give her words the consideration they deserved, so I’ve reined in my activities, cleaned my toes and began wearing man undies (eek!) but this is not without positives. She said that she is supportive of me and is happy to go girl shopping with me in exchange for a revision of the boundaries of my proclivities. After much kissing and cuddling, I certainly know that she still loves me, which lifts a major concern of mine, if I’m truthful.
So as if to reiterate what she had said, she agreed for me to have my ears pierced today and then we went clothes shopping. Went to Evans, New Look and BHS, where she actively sought out my size knee-high boots, which we found in Evans. I tried them on in two shops with her sitting there, found some correct size bangles to go over my ‘bunch of bananas’ hands too. I then got a lovely pink jumper in BHS, to go over a couple of white blouses in my girl wardrobe.
So lines of communications have reopened and I will keep my side of the bargain. I just wish she could have vocalised this earlier, but we have been together for many years now and this is not out of the norm really. We weather such storms together no matter what and for that, I’m grateful.
So what seemed like a duff start to the day, ended with a reaffirmation of our relationship this evening that I will not go into here.
Becky
Naturally, I’ve had to take that on board and give her words the consideration they deserved, so I’ve reined in my activities, cleaned my toes and began wearing man undies (eek!) but this is not without positives. She said that she is supportive of me and is happy to go girl shopping with me in exchange for a revision of the boundaries of my proclivities. After much kissing and cuddling, I certainly know that she still loves me, which lifts a major concern of mine, if I’m truthful.
So as if to reiterate what she had said, she agreed for me to have my ears pierced today and then we went clothes shopping. Went to Evans, New Look and BHS, where she actively sought out my size knee-high boots, which we found in Evans. I tried them on in two shops with her sitting there, found some correct size bangles to go over my ‘bunch of bananas’ hands too. I then got a lovely pink jumper in BHS, to go over a couple of white blouses in my girl wardrobe.
So lines of communications have reopened and I will keep my side of the bargain. I just wish she could have vocalised this earlier, but we have been together for many years now and this is not out of the norm really. We weather such storms together no matter what and for that, I’m grateful.
So what seemed like a duff start to the day, ended with a reaffirmation of our relationship this evening that I will not go into here.
Becky