Shelby11
01-09-2016, 07:55 AM
In 2013 I was with my wife for xmas 230lbs in guy size 42s so unhappy and hated what I saw. I knew I had to do something and things had to change. I started to see a gender specialist and new I had dysphoria , I changed my diet started to bike ride and slowly the weight was falling off, 6 months later I was in women size 4s , today I am moving into 2s, I told my wife I was going on hormones and three days later she left July 2014, Sept 2014 we were divorced, Oct 1 started hormones, by March 2015 I posted on my guy facebook pg of me transitioning people thought I was hacked, no this is the truth, then I shut that pg down and started a girl pg, yes I lost a few friends and my wife but I gained so much more my happiness, and self respect and learned to love my self, I wish every day my wife would of stayed, but it was her choice to leave not mine. Today I live happy, employed, and just living my life, I go on radio shows to help other Trans people and volunteer at a local LGBT community center to help people do there name change in the courts , seeing them smile and so full of excitement about doing there name change is all the payment I need, pay it forward!