First Night Out!

[Tonya Fox]

I ventured out into the public for the first time last night. I was so nervous. It wasn't something I had planned on, but I had gotten my first pair of heels and I was all dressed up. So what the hell, I decided to head over to the lesbian bar half a block from my house. I was by myself feeling kinda sad and pathetic, but the bartender was nice and some really sweet girls sat down next to me and I spent the nite chitchating with them. The owner played an acoustic mash up of Britney Spears and R.E.M. that was really good. I had a great time and the best part was making some new friends as the new me!

[TrishaTX]

you look great ...enjoy yourself the next time!

[Gina Torres]

Congrats. You look nice! I've yet to venture into a bar. I have too much fun shopping. Bar would prolly be cheaper.

[kittie60]

Glad your first night out was enjoyable. It will get easier every time you go out. You do look very pretty in that outfit. Keep it up Tony. Hugs

[EllieMayxxx]

That sounds like it was a good time. You look really good in that outfit!

[TaraGrace]

Great to hear you had a good night, good for you :)

I'm still assembling all I need to make that step, so thanks for the motivation!

ps, you look great on that photo!

[Jenniferathome]

Always a bigger thing in your head than in reality, right? Good for you. Don't feel you have to limit your venues, you can go anywhere.

[SHY KIM]

so happy for you! the first steps are the hardest.

[CourtneyJamieson]

Hi Tonya, GOOD for you !! I am so happy for you on your recent adventure. We have corresponded before and it sounds like we are both in about the same place. But it appears you just leaped ahead of me big time. Your pictures look great and I am sure everyone at the club just thought you were a good-looking chick. I know I did ! Now I know it will lead to more frequent and more fun outings for you. Like you, I have been out shopping and eating in Fem and I have felt very comfortable but I have yet to venture out into a social setting like a club. I am trying to muster my courage to meet up with Samantha Rogers and other girls for the Detroit Invasion in 2 weeks. But that would allow me the safety of going out to clubs, restaurants, and casino in the safety of a group. What you did was truly outstanding to head out on your own. You have given me inspiration to try to do the same. Thanks Tonya. And I am glad to hear you had fun and had no issues. You Go Girl !!

[raeleen]

So glad you had a good time getting out, Tonya! You're braver than me, girl! I never had the courage to go out alone. You go!

Looking forward to hearing many more stories about your adventures and the new friends you make as your truest self. :)

[Marcelle]

Hi Tonya,

Congrats on getting out and enjoying yourself . . . onwards and upwards :).

Cheers

Marcelle

[AmyB]

Congratulations.

You look great

[Claire Cook]

Yes, a big first step and it won't be the last! You looked great and I'm sure that it felt great.

[Tonya Fox]

I had an amazing weekend too! Went back to the bar with my SO, had a great time. Then Sunday we hit the mall and she helped me find some new clothes, since we're so close in size she tried them on for me. Got a gorgeous skirt (wine red lace) white blouse with black lace. Very nice floral print dress. And my very own panties! I have such an incredible woman whom I love dearly!!!

[EllieMayxxx]

That is awesome!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Tonya:hugs:, You are out there now there will be no holding you back anymore. ~~...:daydreaming:...

[TaraGrace]

.. I have such an incredible woman whom I love dearly!!!

As I know my SO loves to hear if someone pays a compliment on her.. here's especially for your SO: my deepest respect and gratitude on being absolutely fabulous for Tonya :)

[Jamie Christopher]

It just gets better Tonya! Glad you had fun,

Jamie

[Krististeph]

Sounds awesome Tanya- That's all we really want- just a few friendly faces and someone to talk to. Heck- there are a lot of people who would be quite envious of that! More power to you, and to your new friends too! The dress in your avatar picture looks great, and with new heels, I'l bet it looked great. Any chance of a picture of the heels, either empty or modeled?

Congrats and good for you. The sometimes the universe (or friends) just get behind you and it works...

[jenniferinsf]

good for you....sounds like an excellent first nite adventure