"How will I spot you?"

[Jenniferathome]

Comedy and cross dressing go together like peanut butter and jelly.

I was looking for possible things to do in San Jose and stumbled into meeting a fellow cross dresser via the site we both were searching. We seemed to have similar taste and perspectives, both married, kids, etc., so rather than meet at a CD specific event, we decided to meet one on one and compare notes on the whole cross dressing life we lead.

Now Chris can't meet dressed due to work and time but I will be dressed (he's seen my profile pict). We were talking about where to meet, and then he says,"Sounds like a good place! Lets go with that option. Let me know how we can spot each other when we both get there."

I had to laugh. My answer was, "How?!?! I'll be the cross dresser." Too funny.

[Sometimes Steffi]

I usually wear a (faux) flower in my hair.

It could be pretty embarrassing (to everyone) to mistake a GG for a CD (man in a dress).

[1958Candi]

You better hope Sandra Bullock isn't there. He won't know which one to approach!

[Robin414]

LMAO, OMG, she's so hot but sooo could be 😂😂

[docrobbysherry]

And, folks wonder why I wear masks. How many others in the coffee shop will be wearing one!?:devil:

[IamWren]

OMG! Jennifer's avatar does look like Sandra Bullock.
Loved her in Miss Congeniality and Hope Floats. She was hot in those movies.

[Jenniferathome]

...It could be pretty embarrassing (to everyone) to mistake a GG for a CD (man in a dress).

No chance off THAT happening


You better hope Sandra Bullock isn't there. He won't know which one to approach!

Anyone making that mistake would be walking toward me with a white cane ;-)


OMG! Jennifer's avatar does look like Sandra Bullock...

Well, not Sandra, but maybe her older, uglier brother in a dress.

[Pat]

And, folks How many others in the coffee shop will be wearing one!?:devil:

Just the guys who are there to rob the place. ;)

[1958Candi]

Sorry, but I would prefer you to Sandra Bullock. I know it sounds strange but I think you are crazy hot!

[TaraGrace]

Yeah I'll second Candi on that one ;)

[Ceera]

The line I used today for a meetup happening tomorrow was, "Look for a very tall girl with long, honey-blonde hair...", and then described the outfit I plan to wear.

[heatherdress]

Maybe wear a name tag.

[Jenniferathome]

Heather, you hit the nail on the head!

[Ozark]

how about carrying a book? I always liked that idea.

[Krisi]

That was a problem in the old days. Now people just call each other on their cell phones and ask "Where are you?"

[Amy Lynn3]

Jennifer, I have found that Mall Food Court are a great place for a first meeting. I am 100 per cent sure you will know Chris, out of a 100 or more guys there. He will know you to, just by first sight. It just seems like magnets draw one another. Good luck !

[Carmen]

Jennifer I was reminded of a meetup I had several years ago. Same kind of situation...the other party was coming from work so for her it was the dreaded drabbe wear.
We were to meet at a bar in a popular casino. I was on a fulltime weekend so I wore a nice 1-piece dress, heels and all the rest. I felt really good entering the casino.
The bar was on the other side so it was a long amd casual stroll for me.

I spotted my friend sitting at the bar. she was looking in my direction and for a moment I was certain that she had spotted me...however she was looking right past me!
I smiled broadly as I passed by...she returned the smile as I kept on walking!
I paused at the end of the bar, then turned around and sat next to her, I said hello (his male name), she turned around and looked me over as I introduced myself. Talk about a jaw dropping moment!

As we sat there she said she absolutely did not recognise me, thought I was a completely different lady as I walked past him.
I was flattered beyond recognition, we had a good laugh over that. Now whenever we are going to meet, she is on the lookout for me.