Katrina26cd
01-29-2016, 07:16 PM
I started counseling this month today was my second session. I explained to her how after the last time I saw her I felt resentment toward my wife for not letting me wear more feminine things in public. I tried to change the subject a few times and she did very little talking but she basically spent the session telling me I need to tell my wife who is 7 months pregnant that I am trans so I can begin transitioning. Even if I decide to start hormones after she can write a letter to an endocronligst she is not helping me with other issues and I feel like seeing her for 4-6 months would be a waste of money and time.
I brought up during the first visit that maybe I'm gender fluid or have transvestic fetishism those were not even explored and she basically is telling me I need to come out as trans and come up with a plan for transitioning.
She also just sits there and doesn't make much of a response to things I say and wont discuss what hrt would do for me and how to cope with my feelings and I told her I had been getting support from this forum and watching you tube videos of trans people and how they found out and what it was like for them and she said you have to be careful with that because you wont have the same experience
Maybe she is not telling me what I want to hear but if I am going to see someone for several months I want more out of counseling
right now it feels like ok your trans you need to come out and give me money to see you every two weeks for several months so you can get HRT
I brought up during the first visit that maybe I'm gender fluid or have transvestic fetishism those were not even explored and she basically is telling me I need to come out as trans and come up with a plan for transitioning.
She also just sits there and doesn't make much of a response to things I say and wont discuss what hrt would do for me and how to cope with my feelings and I told her I had been getting support from this forum and watching you tube videos of trans people and how they found out and what it was like for them and she said you have to be careful with that because you wont have the same experience
Maybe she is not telling me what I want to hear but if I am going to see someone for several months I want more out of counseling
right now it feels like ok your trans you need to come out and give me money to see you every two weeks for several months so you can get HRT