cdrandi
02-02-2016, 02:29 AM
Hello Ladies,
I typically just lurk here and read through all the posts, and rarely post anything. In this case I kind of felt like it was time. First off...I have been dating an amazing lady who just accepted me...all of me...for about 8 months. She occasionally will show her level of acceptance and ask me to dress up when we have dinner at my place. In the past she has asked if I wanted to go out to a club fully dressed, and has encouraged me to just be who I wish to be without any judgement. This past weekend we finally had a ladies night out to a local LGBT club. I had so much fun playing pool, learning how to deal with how boobs throw off your stick follow through. Trying to keep my hair out of my face, navigating how to get low enough to aim wearing 4" stiletto heels, and of course trying to modestly keep my butt covered wearing a short skirt.
I obviously am not passable, and got read several times...but no one in the club cared. So for those of you out there who really want to try getting outside those four walls...find a place like that where the patrons are a mix of humanity...and go have fun. The only downside to the night...my poor feet were killing me towards the end of the night. My lady was laughing so hard when I told her about it...her comment..."Now you know what we deal with" LOL
This was a huge confidence booster...and we are already planning another outing to the city to give me an opportunity to walk around in public between different clubs.
I typically just lurk here and read through all the posts, and rarely post anything. In this case I kind of felt like it was time. First off...I have been dating an amazing lady who just accepted me...all of me...for about 8 months. She occasionally will show her level of acceptance and ask me to dress up when we have dinner at my place. In the past she has asked if I wanted to go out to a club fully dressed, and has encouraged me to just be who I wish to be without any judgement. This past weekend we finally had a ladies night out to a local LGBT club. I had so much fun playing pool, learning how to deal with how boobs throw off your stick follow through. Trying to keep my hair out of my face, navigating how to get low enough to aim wearing 4" stiletto heels, and of course trying to modestly keep my butt covered wearing a short skirt.
I obviously am not passable, and got read several times...but no one in the club cared. So for those of you out there who really want to try getting outside those four walls...find a place like that where the patrons are a mix of humanity...and go have fun. The only downside to the night...my poor feet were killing me towards the end of the night. My lady was laughing so hard when I told her about it...her comment..."Now you know what we deal with" LOL
This was a huge confidence booster...and we are already planning another outing to the city to give me an opportunity to walk around in public between different clubs.