MonicaJean
02-10-2016, 08:11 AM
Hard to believe that 6 years ago I joined this site! To me it was the stake-in-the-ground moment, a time where I said to myself "I don't understand but I need to reach out". I was searching, wondering why all-things-gender were surrounding me back then. I didn't know why, or even understand much of it back then.
Back then, hormones were icky to me. So was the thought of putting on female attire. And transitioning to female? Not a chance!
What a difference time makes in the equation!
As a result of logging on here, I have learned a lot here and downstream elsewhere. And I met my best friend because of this site! :D
But here's what being free looks like...free of a lifetime of depression, emotional numbness, intense anxiety, constant spinning thoughts in my head, nerve twitches that were there for years but went away on day 1 of HRT....
Free to smile, finally. Free to be.
I never realized how important the phrase "love yourself" is.... it really means respect yourself. If you can't respect yourself, who will? If you can't take care of yourself, who will? If you can't be your own advocate in your transition, who will?
You will.
You can do this. It's hard, make no other assumptions that it isn't difficult, this is a grueling process at times, but it's worth it!!!
Back then, hormones were icky to me. So was the thought of putting on female attire. And transitioning to female? Not a chance!
What a difference time makes in the equation!
As a result of logging on here, I have learned a lot here and downstream elsewhere. And I met my best friend because of this site! :D
But here's what being free looks like...free of a lifetime of depression, emotional numbness, intense anxiety, constant spinning thoughts in my head, nerve twitches that were there for years but went away on day 1 of HRT....
Free to smile, finally. Free to be.
I never realized how important the phrase "love yourself" is.... it really means respect yourself. If you can't respect yourself, who will? If you can't take care of yourself, who will? If you can't be your own advocate in your transition, who will?
You will.
You can do this. It's hard, make no other assumptions that it isn't difficult, this is a grueling process at times, but it's worth it!!!