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Sweet Jonie
02-15-2016, 03:57 PM
I took a shower, shaved my beard off, put on a really pretty pair of panties with black leggings, cowboy boots, a pretty pink sweater my, wig and of course make up. I went to Food Lion to buy groceries.
A really nice looking gentleman actually tried to pick me up I think. YES I am so thrilled right now. 
I was so scared at first so I drank some wine to relax me.
KrissyP
02-15-2016, 03:59 PM
Yippee!  You can do it.  The fun is just beginning.  Good for you Jonie!
Allisa
02-15-2016, 04:03 PM
I'm happy for you, getting out is nerve racking at first but after time it becomes quite normal and fun.
Abbey11
02-15-2016, 04:20 PM
Fabulous, go Girl! Really happy for you x
missjoann
02-15-2016, 04:38 PM
Great...good for you...it will only get better each time now
Tara Rushing
02-15-2016, 04:40 PM
Yay!!!  So happy for you!!
Ressie
02-15-2016, 04:50 PM
Congrats! Sounds like good therapy! Are you gonna keep your beard shaved or was this a one time outing?
Diversity
02-15-2016, 04:54 PM
Congratulations!!!!
You took a big step forward - one I expect to take in the future. 
I am glad you had a good time, and wish you many more to come.
Di
TrinaB
02-15-2016, 05:00 PM
Congratulations! I hope an excursion like that is in my immediate future.
Sweet Jonie
02-15-2016, 05:09 PM
Congrats! Sounds like good therapy! Are you gonna keep your beard shaved or was this a one time outing?
Definitely shaved. Today was a big step for me. I feel wonderful right now.
Julie Denier
02-15-2016, 06:11 PM
Good for you! ;)
Alice Torn
02-15-2016, 07:05 PM
Exciting!  I have not been out since last summer, and it feel like it did when i first did it! I understand the nerves.
Mandy Faye
02-15-2016, 07:19 PM
WOW ... U go girl !!  Congrats !! That must be such an awesome feeling !!  I have never been out in public, But dream of the day ... Thanks for sharing !
rachelatshop
02-15-2016, 10:19 PM
Congrats Jonie, The first time must be the hardest, but each time that is positive for you, will build your confidence,and a confident girl becomes less likely to out herself. best always
heatherdress
02-15-2016, 11:25 PM
Good for you, Jonie. Glad you had fun.
chelyann
02-15-2016, 11:46 PM
way to go GIRL, have fun and do it again and take some pictures to document your progress.
Beverley Sims
02-16-2016, 02:32 AM
Yes shaving off the beard helps a lot. :-)
Glad to see it was a good outing.
~Katelyn~
02-16-2016, 02:51 AM
After you shave you can still see where the beard is in my case. I found that if you buy beard consealer it hides it well. You just need to buy the right tone for your skin.
summerbunny
02-16-2016, 03:46 AM
Was the guy a Granny chaser?
I am glad you got out and enjoyed yourself.
Krisi
02-16-2016, 07:52 AM
At my age, going out dressed as a "girl is not possible.  The best I can try for is "woman".
Glad you had fun. Next, get some proper women's shoes and breast forms.
deebra
02-16-2016, 07:55 AM
Jonie, you didn't mention breast forms or a skirt over the leggings, the best way to pass or blend is all out or not at all.  If you dress androgynous and you are seen as a male the more female items you add brings more attention.  Try all out.
SamanthaSometimes
02-16-2016, 08:02 AM
After having a well trimmed beard most of my life, finally shaving it off was the start of Samantha getting out in public. It was a liberating and defining moment.
Ressie
02-16-2016, 08:32 AM
I've never gone out dressed in my home town. That will be a big step for me - if I ever take it!
Samantha981
02-16-2016, 08:37 AM
So happy for you Jonie that it went well!  Going out the first time is pretty nerve wracking!  Like your destination I have not been to a grocery yet.
Closeted Kat
02-16-2016, 09:15 PM
congratulations. I too was like you in that I started out with a beard. I'm beardless and I've gone out a few times. I know how wonderful it feels having recently been there. It just feels better every time for me so far. Hope the same happens for you!
HollyGreene
02-17-2016, 06:11 AM
Way to go!
Funny thing about the beard.  I had a beard for about 25 years, and a couple of years ago when big beards suddenly became fashionable, I shaved mine off.  I told my family that I didn't want to look like everyone else, so I was shaving it off.  Once free of that thing, I was able to go out, too, and the feeling is wonderful.
Tracii G
02-17-2016, 12:06 PM
Good going,glad you had a fun time.
BillieAnneJean
02-17-2016, 12:32 PM
I did not see anything like a skirt to go below that sweater.  HA!  Perhaps this is why a guy tried to "pick you up"?
But seriously, I am glad you had a good time.  Use good judgement and practice the same safety as a woman would and you will have many more happy times.
I took a shower, shaved my beard off, put on a really pretty pair of panties with black leggings, cowboy boots, a pretty pink sweater my, wig and of course make up. I went to Food Lion to buy groceries.
A really nice looking gentleman actually tried to pick me up I think. YES I am so thrilled right now. 
I was so scared at first so I drank some wine to relax me.
Melissa in SE Tn
02-17-2016, 01:51 PM
Wow... You had a great day!!!
Alice_2014_B
02-17-2016, 01:59 PM
Congratulations Jonie!
Even something simple as the grocery story is so exciting to go to. 
:)
Debra Russell
02-17-2016, 02:33 PM
It never gets old - you just want to go out more :devil:
S. Lisa Smith
02-17-2016, 02:45 PM
You go girl!!  Have fun with it!!!
Wandacdmn
02-17-2016, 02:51 PM
Congrats. I envy you and admire you. All I can get the courage to do is drive. Someday ...
Sweet Jonie
02-17-2016, 06:21 PM
I did not see anything like a skirt to go below that sweater.  HA!  Perhaps this is why a guy tried to "pick you up"?
But seriously, I am glad you had a good time.  Use good judgement and practice the same safety as a woman would and you will have many more happy times.
He was a good looking guy. I would loved to have gone out with him. Very well dressed and great manners. Maybe next time he will ask for my #.
drobert44
02-21-2016, 08:25 PM
What fun; a rare CD date last week.  I am an old Daddy who loves the CD's.  Met a cutie, and took her out last week; what a blast.  Went to a shop and got her a wig; loved that deal.  Then, back to room to put it on; she was so excited!  I had gotten her some proper clothes from Lord & Taylor,where I shop.  Went to hi-class restaurant, where men looked at her and i gave them the Daddy look:  "this ass is mine."  I am 71 and sissy was 37; pretty and skinny.  It was great; she had never, in 5 years, had the nerve to go out to "normal" places dressed.  Afraid of being 'passable.'  I told her, "you are  passable to me, and that's all that counts."  Then off to a couple of bars no problems at all.  A great date and a great nite.  We will likely go clubbing up in Chicago this summer.
HollyGreene
02-21-2016, 09:43 PM
I've never plucked up the courage to go shopping while dressed.  The nearest I got to it was taking the car to a filling station where you can pay at the pump.
Glenda58
02-21-2016, 10:21 PM
The first time the hardest. After awhile it gets easier.
Chrissi
02-21-2016, 10:45 PM
Congratulations!!! It truly is a wonderful feeling, like falling in love...big hugs,
Chrissi
PattyT
02-22-2016, 12:24 AM
Yes!  You have found your true self.  Stick with it.  Once I started I could never go back to just boys clothing.
lauren21403
02-24-2016, 03:16 AM
I'll never forget the first time I crossed the threshold as a lady! Though 20 years ago, it seems like yesterday!
nikkiwindsor
02-24-2016, 04:57 AM
Wow, I'm both happy for you and impressed. I've never had a beard. The transformation from your bearded male self to an attractive woman must have been amazing.
rachelatshop
02-24-2016, 08:38 PM
Hi Jonie, Congrats, I so envy you, and admire your courage. I have had a beard for the last 40 years and I don't know what I would tell all my friends who would recognize me. Even if I could convince my wife to let me shave it off. What we do for love!!!
KrisCDAZ
02-25-2016, 01:26 AM
Hi, Jonie.  How totally great for you!  Congrats!  I remember going into a store en femme for the first time;  it was terrifying and exhilarating at the same time.   And, as someone else said, it gets easier.  You go, girl!
Kris Edwards
 
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