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I Am Paula
03-25-2016, 11:02 AM
This morning Facebook reminded me that it was two years ago today that Canada legally recognized me as a woman. I sat in a parking lot and cried pure happiness on my way to my endo's office to show them my new health card. The whole staff applauded. I cried again.
Two years. Wow. So much has happened. I got boobs. My hair grew to the point I had a bunch cut off. Most important- I am me now. I don't think about gender much, unless I'm with my trans friends. Every single aspect of my life is just me. Paula. Woman.
I don't remember crossing a bridge. There wasn't a day that I said 'I'm no longer playing the part of a woman'. I just am.
Funny. I have one little part of my regimen every night. As I take off my make-up, and get ready for bed, I look in the mirror, and say 'You won'.

phylis anne
03-25-2016, 11:19 AM
:hugs:Congrats on your long journey Paula:hugs:
hugs phylis anne

Robin414
03-25-2016, 12:13 PM
...I have one little part of my regimen every night. As I take off my make-up, and get ready for bed, I look in the mirror, and say 'You won'.

Congratulations Paula! That one statement kinda brought a tear to my eye, in a good way!

Krististeph
03-25-2016, 12:23 PM
Paula, that had to be a tough fight. I do not like fighting, I often get hurt, and there is always the question of how far to take it. But I do respect those who do fight like you- a defensive fight- taking more sh** than you deserve, and remaining upstanding.

You girls made things better for me. Period. I do respect you, and thank you.

Perhaps one day I'll be at the right place at the right time for transgender equality...

PretzelGirl
03-25-2016, 10:38 PM
I love visuals like "The whole staff applauded"! Congrats Paula. Is 'won' a strong enough word?

Bria
03-26-2016, 10:23 AM
Add my applause to those in the office, we all need some feel good moments!!

Hugs, Bria

Lorileah
03-26-2016, 04:50 PM
Congrats Paula

karenpayneoregon
03-26-2016, 05:46 PM
Congratulations Paula and wish you much happiness.

Marcelle
03-27-2016, 06:34 AM
Hi Paula,

Congrats and keep smiling because you did win!

Cheers

Marcelle

Suzanne F
03-27-2016, 08:49 PM
Congratulations Paula! I hope you can just be now!
Suzanne

pamela7
03-28-2016, 04:21 AM
Go Canada! If it were not for the blackfly, mozzies and long cold winters I'd be tempted.

Eringirl
03-28-2016, 06:30 PM
You have so won!!! You are doing so well and look so happy and amazing...it is energizing just to be around you. Keep on keeping' on.....

PennyNZ
03-29-2016, 02:34 AM
Nice one Paula. Amazing