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Candice June Lee
03-28-2016, 06:50 AM
Over the last couple months or so I've been moving forward. Have been up and down emotionally. With the help of my wife I get out of the funk. See, she is pretty supportive these days. Most of the time when I'm not at work now days I'm in fem mode. Actually probably ask the time except for clothes. Yesterday we were heading out to some friends to have Easter dinner. I made a pie and it took longer than expected. So now we are pressed for time. So I was told it takes to long for new to get ready. Yeah she is right, I usually do take longer than I need to to get ready to go out. So I jumped in the shower, shaved, got undergarments on, make up, dress, hair and shoes all on in less than an hour. Drab to fab in that short of time is a first for me. Yay! I proved i can do it if and when things get further along and need to for work later down the road.
Next the couple things that got me out of sync yesterday was leaving the house during the daylight in a dress. I may be enfem, but usually in pants. That part wasn't really that bad. It was sitting down to Easter dinner with our friends. It wasn't the friends but the fact their kids were joining us all as well. The youngest being 14-15 and not being around the kids as Candi had me out of sorts.
Anyway I got through it and was told by the Germans half of our friends it wasn't that big a deal and the kids need the exposure. So still I was out of sorts. But yet another milestone in my book that was passed.
When I'm out and about I don't worry much. It's the friends and family their families that get me. Same with my own family. I haven't came out to parents and siblings. As the last time I saw them it seemed by their words they do not like it. So I guess that's something I'll deal with when the time comes.
I hope you all have a great Monday! Things are good here and sorry I haven't been around much lately.

stacycoral
03-28-2016, 06:59 AM
Miss Kandi, girl what a great story, sounds like it did go well foryou yesterday,i so happy for you, take care, hugs.

CarlaWestin
03-28-2016, 07:17 AM
Oh, you're just living your life as, You.
I certainly never worry about how someone's ill mannered booger eaters react.

S. Lisa Smith
03-28-2016, 07:37 AM
Very nice!!!

Heidi Stevens
03-28-2016, 07:49 AM
Candi, it's so good to see you gain your confidence as time goes on. When we met last fall, I know it was a little tough for you to present in public in daytime. To hear you left the house yesterday, in a dress, in broad daylight with no hesitation is great progress. Give your wonderful wife a hug for me and stay strong! You are beginning to now understand Candi and she has a lot to teach you. Enjoy!

Candice June Lee
03-28-2016, 01:12 PM
Well my auto correct and my hurried state of mind. The wife is who told me no worries not the German.
Anyhow,
Hello once again Heidi. How you've been well.
Most of my time away from work if not all is spent enfem. I've started seeing a therapist about HRT. Life has been great and no real complaints. Just the usual work and paying bills.
I did want to post something in the positive here today. Add there needs to be done support to the ones who need some encouraging.