New Me Reactions

[Mykaa]

Ok I got a new haircut 7 days ago today, I had the girl who cut it decide what to do. My haircut has gotten a few compliments, which is nice. Im wearing no mens clothing what so ever, Victoria Secret Camp shirt light tan in color, Gap light wash bootcut jeans, vintage. White Puma shoes, with a black swoop, womens, Guess leather jacket, womens. My haircut Id equate to a George Clooney look, mind you Im no Clooney. Im wondering what to do tonight, I decide I'll go out to eat, I go where I know some people and the owner says my red headed waitress says tell him Im single and ready to mingle. Shes not bad looking! Im in a bit of shock.... I cant say Ive ever had this happen. Apparently my new look is getting a bit of attention, Im not sure how to react to this!

[Robin414]

Wow Mykaa, I can see your quandary. I think some GGs just like more femme looking guys but she might even be bi-sexual (ya, that does happen 😉 ).

How to react, there's the rub! Body language is 90% of the conversation. If you're genuinely interested I'd say stick with the look that caught her eye but how to behave...I'd guess just own the look, present a few key femme manerisms and guage the response, adjust as needed 😉

[pamela7]

that sounds like an open invitation, and also a big validating step for you, xx

[Molly J]

See how it goes. I see so many boy/friends of my daughter wearing skinny jeans, pastel colors, and gender neutral loafers. I think men's fashion is becoming more gender neutral, especially for teens, college students and new entries into the creative workplace. Keep being you and if you want to see this woman, why not.