Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!

[lynda jane hamilton]

Good evening Girls

Whilst driving about today I have been thinking of the loves, hates and aspirations of being a tv girl! Being new to this site no doubt the thread has been spun before but for what it is worth here are my lists!! What are yours?

Loves

Being able to wear feminine and sexy undies
Lipstick and Mascara
The thrill of opening a really nice pair of tights or holdups and putting them on.
The feel of slipping a stockinged foot into a high heel shoe.
High heeled shoes particularly open toed court shoes
The feel of wind blowing up my skirt
The feel of actually having hair that is coloured and longer other than my natural greying short hair.
Wearing jewellry particularly dangly earrings and braclets that fall about your wrists when you move.
The wearing of a bra and having soft (albeit silicone breasts)
Using the loo in the way a GG would
Painting my nails pink or red and wearing false finger nails and toe nails.
The use of moisturiser, cleanser and toner and feeling the difference on my skin.
The one time I walked down our High street at night without being noticed and the feeling of having escaped.
Standing in front of my lecture classes knowing that my undies are prettier than any of the girls in the room!
Plucking my eyebrows as much as I dare!

Hates

Sticking the mascara brush in your eye and smudging an otherwise perfect eye makeup.
Laddering an expensive pair of tights on the first wearing.
Buying shoes or clothes as a guy by guessing and then having to take them back as they did not fit.
Having to shave before putting on makeup
Not being able to wax my legs or underarms without arousing suspicion from my wife.
Not being able to dress as and when I want to.
Not being able to hang my clothes in the wardrobe but having to keep them hidden in the attic.
Being secretive about my feminine desires.
Being all dressed up and having no where to go
Sheer frustration at being a guy!

Aspirations

To be able to be open about my desires and to be Lynda as and when I want and to accepted and encouraged by my wife and family.
To have a wardrobe to myself.
Never having to shave again.
Never to leave the house without at least lippy and mascara.
To shop en femme and to try clothes and shoes before buying.
To be able to wax my legs and other bits!
To have a waist and passable hips. I have legs to die for and small feet and hands so it is not all bad.
To wear a bra because I have to!
To know what it feels like when a guy buys you flowers
To dress to the nines and be wined and dined by a hunky guy (without the add ons of course!) who accepts me as Lynda and no-one else.No I am not Gay!
To get wolf whistled at in the street.
To go to a spa/beauty salon and have my make up and nails fixed properly.
To spend a long period of time as Lynda.

The lists are not exhaustive nor in any order of desire.

Please tell what are yours.

A whistful and sometimes unhappy Lynda.

L&K's

Lyndaxxx

[Laurie Ann]

Ahh the wishes and dreams wants and desires of many of the girls here. Good thread you make some great points.

[Michelle Hart]

What are My?

Loves:

1. How nice I look in somthing other than a suit and tie.
2. The wiggle in my walk and the clickity clack of my heels
3. The hundreds of fun types & styles when it comes to shoes.
4. How good a satin pajama set or babydoll feels on shaved skin and legs.
5. The look and feel of long red nails.
6. Big dangling earings as they brush my neak.
7. How much better satin panties feel that mens briefs.
8. How much better I look with a little blush and lipstick.
9. Seeing lipstick marks on my cigarette and knowing it's mine.
10. Having guys try to come on to me, when I know what they really want.
11. How much better I sleep in a cami than without.

Hates:

1. Having to redo my makup because It is'nt right.
2. Having to shave everywhere so often.
3. Not being shorter so I could wear really high heels
4. Worrying about beard shadow when dressed.
5. Finding blouses that fit well, and don't show too much.
6. Changing clothes or dressing down to go to the store in a pinch.
7. Breaking / damaging a nail after I get them done.
8. Looking for the right size jewelry.
9. Struggleing with my hair to make it look nice.
10. Trying to understand womens sizes.

Aspirations:

1. To be the best woman I can be.
2. To maximize my best features and minimize my worst.
3. To be gratful and loving to my SO for letting me dress whenever I want.
4. To be a good representitive of our comunity.

[Tina Dixon]

Yep thats it in a nut shell:thumbsup:

p.s. I have been shaving my legs, she has not said a thing about it yet, gulp!

[talkwithmelissa]

You have obviously spent time with your lists. What more can I say? It sure is extra work but well worth it.

[Michelle Hart]

I don't mind the extra work so much. It's trying to camaflage the things that are "manly" that are frustrating.

We have to put much more effort into looking good than the Real girls do.

[lynda jane hamilton]

Its the work that makes dressing enjoyable. What gg's take for granted we tv's are still playing catch up!

Do GG's get thrilled at what we find thrilling -touch of fabrics, makeup, walking in high heels etc., etc.,. My SO finds it a bit of a drag (pardon the pun!) sometimes to get dressed up ready to go out when I would swap gladly.

I fear that if I could dress all the time I might get a teensy bit fed up as well? Well worth trying though! Do you get fed up as you dress more frequently than me.

I like the lipstick on a ciggie butt knowing it is yours though!! I only had that thought to night as I stood in the garden dressed up to the nines in the dark enjoying a cigarette and tempted to throw the butt on the garden - now my wife does not smoke....!!

L&K's from across the pond.


Lynda Janexxx

[Penny]

LIKES: All of the things you and everyone listed because for me, all of those
things just seem so incredably natural to me. They place me
in my comfort zone.

DISLIKES: Practical necessity dictates that I can't always be comfortable.


ASPIRATIONS: To live my life to the fullest as comfortably and securely as it
allows.

[KathrynW]

I hate to rain on your parade, pee on your wheaties, or whatever else this will probably be called...
But, there's one big problem with this thread title
"Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!"
You're *not* a girl, nor are most of the rest of us here who don't identify as "GG". You're a guy who wears girl's clothes. I'm noticing somewhat of a trend here lately of folks who seem to be getting confused about this. Don't get me wrong, it's certainly fine to come up with lighthearted stuff relating to "Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!" if that's where you were going with this thread. But, let's keep this in perspective...we're definitely *not* girls. :sb:

[Sharon]

I hate to rain on your parade, pee on your wheaties, or whatever else this will probably be called...
But, there's one big problem with this thread title
"Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!"
You're *not* a girl, nor are most of the rest of us here who don't identify as "GG". You're a guy who wears girl's clothes. I'm noticing somewhat of a trend here lately of folks who seem to be getting confused about this. Don't get me wrong, it's certainly fine to come up with lighthearted stuff relating to "Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!" if that's where you were going with this thread. But, let's keep this in perspective...we're definitely *not* girls. :sb:

Lynda is obviously (at least to me) speaking of being mentally a girl, and embracing those qualities she associates with being feminine.

[KathrynW]

Lynda is obviously (at least to me) speaking of being mentally a girl, and embracing those qualities she associates with being feminine.
gotcha...;)

[lynda jane hamilton]

Hi

Lets clear this up I meant "girl" inverted commas not a biological one!

Lynda

[Sarah Rabbit]

I hate to rain on your parade, pee on your wheaties, or whatever else this will probably be called...
But, there's one big problem with this thread title
"Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!"
You're *not* a girl, nor are most of the rest of us here who don't identify as "GG". You're a guy who wears girl's clothes. I'm noticing somewhat of a trend here lately of folks who seem to be getting confused about this. Don't get me wrong, it's certainly fine to come up with lighthearted stuff relating to "Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!" if that's where you were going with this thread. But, let's keep this in perspective...we're definitely *not* girls. :sb:

With due respect, KathrynW

I beleive in my heart that I am a female. For some reason that escapes me,
mother nature, aliens, God, or Buda, decided to put me in a man's body.

when reading some of these threads, I wonder if I am in the right forum or not, however I do like to watch and join in occasionally as this is a friendly forum.

Perhaps someone may enlighten me as to whether I am in the right spot

Regards Sarah

[ReginaK]

Mine's pretty simple.

Loves:
1. Clothes
2. Makeup

Hates:
1. Weight
2. Shaving
3. Hiding.

Aspirations:
1. Get rid of the weight.
2. Get rid of the hair.
3. Stop hiding.

[Sec_C-CD]

Hi, this is a great topic. I'm new and would like to share. I'm far from being a TV girl, but simply love dressing up and living out my feminine side periodically.

Loves:
intimate encounters en femme
dressing sexy (lingerie, dresses, gowns)
dressing completely en femme w/ makeup, jewelry, and wig
stockings and heels
panties under my jeans
watching sports in a bra and panty

Hates:
not enjoying enough time out en femme
when I can't get on crossdresser.com chatroom

Aspirations:
No changes. I'm happy enjoying my feminine side with what I was given.

[KathrynW]

With due respect, KathrynW

I beleive in my heart that I am a female. For some reason that escapes me,
mother nature, aliens, God, or Buda, decided to put me in a man's body.

when reading some of these threads, I wonder if I am in the right forum or not, however I do like to watch and join in occasionally as this is a friendly forum.

Perhaps someone may enlighten me as to whether I am in the right spot

Regards Sarah
With due respect, this section is CD's - aka- guys who like to occasionally wear girl's clothes. It sounds to me like you may be TS. They have a section for that. ;)

[Sarah Rabbit]

With due respect, this section is CD's - aka- guys who like to occasionally wear girl's clothes. It sounds to me like you may be TS. They have a section for that. ;)


Possibly,

However some Of the members here take the view I do, and that is we are female. It all depends on where abouts on the genetic spectrum one is.
with no disrespect intended, I like others are probably further along the spectrum, then say where you are. In your original post, you assume that we are 'Confused' and that we are 'Not girls'. I beg to differ. I am not confused. I know what I am, and I am at peace with that;)

Regards, Sarah:D

[Gail Stauffer]

I dream about becoming a young woman , if it were to be affordable even though I wouldn't be a genetic woman, just being close enough to the real thing would satisfy me... it is so expensive to do right now with out some kind of assistance or some thing, I often day dream about being a young attactive woman, I enjoy wearing such pretty and soft feminine clothes. sometimes I wish they had shows you could get on kind of like the Swan, where they would help men become the women they dream of becoming.... Oh well mabye one day.

[Girly Sara]

LIKES:

Wearing panties 24/7
Having my make up done professionally
Wearing short skirts
Being complimented by guys online and out n about(but nothing more as i have a girlfriend)
The euphoria of being Sara when i'm out.


DISLIKES

Taking off my make up and seeing Alan again! :(
Having to shave so often
Having to remove my french manicure for a job interview!
Breaking one of my nails when they're lovely and long!
Having to be male when my brain's female
Feeling emotional and upset when i'm not enfemme

ASPIRATIONS

To do my first girly shopping trip enfemme - roll on 3rd March! :)
To visit my local salon for a manicure as Sara rather than Alan - again, roll on 3rd March! hehe
To always be seen as Sara rather than Alan
Wishing society will finally accept us t-girls 100%

Love Sara xxxx

[Sharon]

With due respect, this section is CD's - aka- guys who like to occasionally wear girl's clothes. It sounds to me like you may be TS. They have a section for that. ;)

With due respect, this section of the forum is open to all members, not just angry, smart-*** trolls.

[KathrynW]

With due respect, this section of the forum is open to all members, not just angry, smart-*** trolls.
Hey Sharon- relax...ok?
she said she didn't know if this is the right section.

[KathrynW]

Possibly,
However some Of the members here take the view I do, and that is we are female. It all depends on where abouts on the genetic spectrum one is.
with no disrespect intended, I like others are probably further along the spectrum, then say where you are. In your original post, you assume that we are 'Confused' and that we are 'Not girls'. I beg to differ. I am not confused. I know what I am, and I am at peace with that;)

with no disrespect intended...absolutely, you can call yourself whatever you want...afterall this is cyberspace, the final frontier...
However, Biologically, you're not a girl/female. That's *all* I was saying. ;)

[Roxane]

Hi Kathryn

How often would occasionally Be?

[KathrynW]

Hi Kathryn

How often would occasionally Be?
I would guess there are probably as many different answers to that as there are people posting here. For me, personally...I have no set schedule. It's whenever I feel the urge to cd, could be months in between...;)

[arula]

with no disrespect intended...absolutely, you can call yourself whatever you want...afterall this is cyberspace, the final frontier...
However, Biologically, you're not a girl/female. That's *all* I was saying. ;)

I understand Kathyn's point of view. To her she is just a guy wearing girls clothes ( for whatever reason, I'll leave that up to your imagination ;) ) BUT to the ones that dress, and see a female within, we have a gift to appreciate wanting to be a female, and getting as close as we can without changing our life as a male. We are in a void of living one life, and longing for another. No one can understand what we feel inside, unless you feel it. XO Arula.

[Deborah]

I understand Kathyn's point of view. To her she is just a guy wearing girls clothes
Hmm true, but using HIS logic that we are not girls why is HE using a female name?
Do you see where i'm going with this?

:troll:

[KathrynW]

Hmm true, but using HIS logic that we are not girls why is HE using a female name?
Do you see where i'm going with this?

Deborah, sure I see where you're *trying* to go, but it doesn't make a lot of sense.
Bottom line, this is an illusion we create, we're expressing our femme side, thus the female pronouns most of us use. You can certainly create an illusion in your head or here in cyberspace that you're a "girl", but biologically and mentally, it's simply not so. In your everyday 24/7 life, if you actually believe you're a female trapped in a male body, then you're a transsexual, not a crossdresser. Why make it even more confusing than it needs to be? ;)

[arula]

Deborah, sure I see where you're *trying* to go, but it doesn't make a lot of sense.
Bottom line, this is an illusion we create, we're expressing our femme side, thus the female pronouns most of us use. You can certainly create an illusion in your head or here in cyberspace that you're a "girl", but biologically and mentally, it's simply not so. In your everyday 24/7 life, if you actually believe you're a female trapped in a male body, then you're a transsexual, not a crossdresser. Why make it even more confusing than it needs to be? ;)

Are we crossdressing for sexual excitement, or are we crossdressing to emulate being a woman?

[MsJanessa]

Are we crossdressing for sexual excitement, or are we crossdressing to emulate being a woman?
When I was 11 years old it was because I found it sexually stimulating---now its to be as feminine as possible---the sex is secondary although it is definatly still there-- believe it or not I often get dressed without the sex--either with myself or another person.

[Deborah]

Deborah, sure I see where you're *trying* to go, but it doesn't make a lot of sense.
Bottom line, this is an illusion we create, we're expressing our femme side, thus the female pronouns most of us use. You can certainly create an illusion in your head or here in cyberspace that you're a "girl", but biologically and mentally, it's simply not so. In your everyday 24/7 life, if you actually believe you're a female trapped in a male body, then you're a transsexual, not a crossdresser. Why make it even more confusing than it needs to be? ;)
Yes and i'm sure that's what the author was thinking when she wrote the title. (She even says in her first sentence TV GIRL) Yet you jumped on her pretty quick didn't you? ;)

[arula]

When I was 11 years old it was because I found it sexually stimulating---now its to be as feminine as possible---the sex is secondary although it is definatly still there-- believe it or not I often get dressed without the sex--either with myself or another person.

Janessa took the words from my mouth. XO Arula

[KathrynW]

Are we crossdressing for sexual excitement, or are we crossdressing to emulate being a woman?
Again...there are probably as many different responses to this as there are people posting here. Personally, I used to do it for a sexual thrill in my younger days, but not anymore. These days, it's more to simply express my femme side. I enjoy the feeling of the clothes, shoes, etc. But that doesn't mean I actually believe I'm a real girl. ;)

[Deborah]

But that doesn't mean I actually believe I'm a real girl. ;)

I still can't find any posts that answer the authors original question where anyone even says "I'm a real girl" Those that responded to you may have said something along those lines.

[KathrynW]

I still can't find any posts that answer the authors original question where anyone even says "I'm a real girl" Those that responded to you may have said something along those lines.
Hey Deb...relax, ok? maybe cut back on the caffeine? ;)

[Deborah]

Hey Deb...relax, ok? maybe cut back on the caffeine? ;)

OK i'm done. I was trying to find out how you came about with your original question and i can't find it.
Oh the caffeine i just started. On my first cup now. :D

[KathrynW]

OK i'm done. I was trying to find out how you came about with your original question and i can't find it.

that's simple...the thread title...
"Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!"

[MsJanessa]

Again...there are probably as many different responses to this as there are people posting here. Personally, I used to do it for a sexual thrill in my younger days, but not anymore. These days, it's more to simply express my femme side. I enjoy the feeling of the clothes, shoes, etc. But that doesn't mean I actually believe I'm a real girl. ;)
Actually youre the first person named Kathryn that I've met who wasn't a real girl---lol::doll:

[Deborah]

that's simple...the thread title...
"Being a girl - Loves, Hates and Aspirations!"

Ok last post then i'm done....I answered that here
http://crossdressers.com/forums/showpost.php?p=344409&postcount=30

[KathrynW]

Actually youre the first person named Kathryn that I've met who wasn't a real girl
How much IS real in cyberspace? ;)

[Noel Chimes]

After going back and READING the thread again, the one thing that stands out is, "ASPIRATIONS". We all come here for whatever reason, because we ASPIRE to be someone else. If it is in our minds, our hearts, or our loins, we aspire to be.
We realize that most of the "civilized world" is not ready or willing to accept us for who we are and therefore we join ranks together searching for acceptance of who we are. It does not matter if you are a crossdresser, Transvestite, transexual, or Drag Queen. We simply aspire to live our lives as who we want to be. Is there something wrong with that? If there is nothing wrong with jumping on the back of a 2,000 lb bull for 8 seconds, or going 200m.p.h in a race car, why is there something wrong for a guy aspiring to look like Miss America.
Let's stop all the "playa hatin" and become more accepting to the differences that make us all special. Just think how boring this world would be if we all looked and acted the same. That's my 0.02

[arula]

After going back and READING the thread again, the one thing that stands out is, "ASPIRATIONS". We all come here for whatever reason, because we ASPIRE to be someone else. If it is in our minds, our hearts, or our loins, we aspire to be.
We realize that most of the "civilized world" is not ready or willing to accept us for who we are and therefore we join ranks together searching for acceptance of who we are. It does not matter if you are a crossdresser, Transvestite, transexual, or Drag Queen. We simply aspire to live our lives as who we want to be. Is there something wrong with that? If there is nothing wrong with jumping on the back of a 2,000 lb bull for 8 seconds, or going 200m.p.h in a race car, why is there something wrong for a guy aspiring to look like Miss America.
Let's stop all the "playa hatin" and become more accepting to the differences that make us all special. Just think how boring this world would be if we all looked and acted the same. That's my 0.02

Exactly Noel. XO Arula

[Wendy me]

ok are we done with throwing shots at each outher?? realy we may come here to express our femme side but sometimes we do act like guys.... now lets play nice here ...

[KathrynW]

Can't we all just get along?

Sure...
works for me...
as all you GIRLS already know how sweet and innocent I am... :la:

[Wendy me]

ok we all got our "HIM" side up in a tiff ...if we want to get back to the topic and do so without all the sillyness fine or we will just lock it up for now ...fair enough ???

[lynda jane hamilton]

Good evening girls!

Hell fire I din't know I was going to open such a can of worms starting this thread. Do things always get this heated? How about some sisterly love here after all we are all in the same boat just some have more bits still in the water thats all.

My original loves hates and aspirations were from the view point of a cd girl not a GG.

I am in the closet and probably will ever remain so. Like us all we live our fantasy in varying degrees of comfort. Iam a man and will remain so even if I could dress 24/7.

For me I beleive when I am dressed the internal chemistry also kicks in and I have like it or not "female aspirations" including the if onlys such as would it be nice if my real tits were bigger what if I had a smaller waist, what would it be like to be accepted and admired by a man. This does not mean in male mode that I check out every dude in town but when dressed I notice good looking guys and dream whistfully!

Back to the fun side loves and hates etc.,

two new loves

YSL Touche Eclat concealer. Every "girls" best friend and

The new fashion in long full skirts that are both very feminine and also great for those who are not good in the leg dept.

Lighten up please and enter into the fun of the thing!!

I am off to dress now and I feel confident enough to venture out as well to our local town again. It is very cold and I bought a new short fur jacket today to ensure I don't get cold! If it fits ha, ha!!


Love


Lynda jane

xxxxx

[MsJanessa]

Good evening girls!



two new loves

YSL Touche Eclat concealer. Every "girls" best friend and

The new fashion in long full skirts that are both very feminine and also great for those who are not good in the leg department


xxxxx
I didn't know that long full skirts where in fashion but have always liked them--take a look at my red satin number under Satin and leather in the Photos forum --must be ahead of or maybe behind my time.

[KathrynW]

Back to the fun side loves and hates etc.,
two new loves YSL Touche Eclat concealer. Every "girls" best friend

You know what?
Maybe what we have here is a cultural communication gap goin on...
From this post, it seems like you're using the term "girls" as pertaining strictly to CD's. Are all CD's called "girls" in the UK? Is that it?
You Brits seem to have some odd meanings for words sometimes. No, I never was a real fan of fish 'n chips either...;)

[Cheree]

HEY! A guy CAN dream...............Can't she????;) :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: