fantasies about sex with men

[gabyespinotv]

do you have them?

[Lorileah]

must be Monday.

Try the search here, you'll find probably a million threads about this (OK Hundreds)

Not to rest ofthe members here...keep it clean

[MissVirginia-Mae]

Im bisexual, so yes I do....

[Tracii G]

I wish I had a man of my own so I wouldn't have to think about it.
I don't need to be dressed enfemme to experience that feeling FYI.

[nvlady]

My short answer. No.

[Alice Torn]

Only when i am dressed to the nines, and with a gentleman who would treat me like a true lady, honoring my boundries. But, never when i am not dressed as a lady.

[Robin414]

I don't have fantasies about having sex with anyone actually (sigh 🙁 )

[paulaprimo]

oh yeah, lots of them... ;)

[Rachelakld]

Yes, but happy to keep them in the "fantasy" world

[Amanda M]

How many ways are there to say NO?

[Lilly 40C]

I am Bi-Sexual and I don't have fantasies about sex with men. I actually do have sex with men and it is very enjoyable.

[Kate Simmons]

I think everyone does at least once whether they may admit it or not. :)

[Mayo]

Yes, because I'm bi. I had sex with guys long before I began dressing, so CDing has nothing to do with it.

[Lacey New]

This thread just demonstrates the vast diversity of the sexuality and gender identity of members on this site. For those of you who are gay or bi or have transitioned and perhaps now consider themselves heterosexual females, then I say please enjoy yourselves. Personally, I have no such fantasies about being with another male, even another CD male. However I do fantasize about being intimate with a GG while I am dressed as a woman. The fantasy "male lesbian" thing.

[Fiona123]

I have had that fantasy when en femme but that's all it is just a passing fantasy.

[Alexa CD]

Sure I do, all the time.

[Tabitha_Sinn]

Yep. Especially if I am dressed, because I have never had sex with a man while dressed. But have a few times not dresssed.

[gabyespinotv]

i agree with kate...i don't believe the people who say they don't...now...those of you who have made those fantasies a reality...is the real thing better than the fantasy or is it the other way around?

[Tabitha_Sinn]

I think the fantasies are somewhat better than reality, because I heavily embellish in my fantasies, so they can be *exactly* as I want them to be. But honestly, the realities play heavily into my fantasies.

[StefaniLara]

Fantasized about it? Yes. Realized them? No. I'm torn between actually wanting to try it and being content to fantasize about it.

[Erin Lafleur]

I certainly had fantasies about sex with men and many years ago I decided that it was a question that I needed to answer so I placed an ad in the newspaper (pre-internet, if you can believe that)! That was about twenty years ago and, although we now live in separate cities, we still maintain a very valued relationship and get together as often as we can. It has blossomed into a very intimate friendship and I wouldn't change it for the world.
From a sexual perspective, it was a little difficult at first as there would be something of a "buyer's remorse" that I felt immediately after our encounters but, God bless him, he understood and never judged or imposed his own agenda. He was patient and unselfish and allowed me to come to terms with my sexuality at my own speed and for that, I will be forever grateful. I realize that it's not for everyone but after all of these years and all of the many intimate moments that we've shared, I couldn't imagine my life any other way...

[Mylie Taylor]

Fantasized and realized.

[docrobbysherry]

Oboy, did I! Graphic ones appeared in my imagination from out of the blue in my 50's! So much so I was sure I'd turned gay!:eek:

It took many years before I realized it was simply the idea of becoming a real woman that appealed to me in my dreams. And, there was nothing about males that I found/find attractive!:brolleyes:

It's been 7 years since I've had one those fantasies. I think they've stopped for good.

[Alexa CD]

Is the real thing better than fantasy? Well fantasy is usually better than reality right, but sometimes it's close and sometimes things are even better than expected. The imagination is only capable of so much.

[Jeri Ann]

I do! Most of my fantasies involve intimacy with a man. I prefer actual experiences, but fantasies are fun in the meantime.

Jeri

[Dana44]

I am bisexual and yes I do. I'm in a heterosexual relationship with my GF but I sure would like to have a man in my life. Gotta admit though that gay men do not like us but heterosexual men do. I have been with two married men while being dressed. I must say that wow it was amazing all the petting, kissing and foreplay and them undressing you for sex was pretty amazing.

[Tabitha_Sinn]

I must say that wow it was amazing all the petting, kissing and foreplay and them undressing you for sex was pretty amazing.

Dana, out of curiosity, since you sound much like me in that regard. Do you prefer to keep *your* genitals out of it, or does that not bother you/?

[Dana44]

Tabitha, My male parts were no problem to them and they got me off anyways as I was pretty hot. LOL

[MissVirginia-Mae]

Sounds amazing, Dana :daydreaming:

[Dana44]

Oh yeah, it makes me have fantasies about men. You bet. To be a girl in a relationship is fantastic. But as I said they were married so it had to be kept secret. but I sure would like one of my own. LOL

[Jenny22]

From the beginning of my dressing until a few years ago, no fantasies. Now, every day. I'm Bi-curious and would love to be the woman in a man's arms, to cuddle, fondle, kiss and satisfy him sexually.

[MissVirginia-Mae]

Mmmmm....so would I.....:love:

[Girl]

Oh yes I definitely do!

[Bruce64]

I don't that type of fantasies.

[Desiree2bababe]

All the time!

[paintmepink]

Uh yeah i do, but i am 99% sure it aint happening.

[joanna4]

I do fantasize about them a lot while

[Donna June]

Yes I do, but the fantasy also contains the romance part, being treated like a lady, taken out to dinner, dancing, all that stuff.

[Jeri Ann]

I agree with Donna June. I guess I left the romance part out of my reply. The experiences I have had, and my fantasies, all involve romance. A casual sexual encounter is not my cup of tea.

Jeri

[michellechong]

Fantasy very different from having actual sex with a real man; once you have gone through the later, there is no turning back, you will be longing for more...but then are you still considered as a crossdresser who have you already cross the "line"?

[Tracii G]

Not sure if dreams fall into the fantasy realm but last night I had a dream where I was on a gay game show.
And the grand prize was a free trip to the Vatican because thats where the only unmarried gay people were., but the kicker was they were all priests so you had to lure them away for a weekend have sex with them to win the prize.

[Robin414]

OK, now that's a funky game show dream, you gotta tell me what you ate before going to bed! 😃

Makes my 'almost made out with the drummer from a band' dream look...well...pretty lame 😪

[Tracii G]

Robin I had dirty rice for dinner google cajun food.

[Wendi]

Without true romance and being treated like a lady (as you should) it's all fake. We deserve the real deal :)

[NotSoSocial]

I've thought about it, but when I talk to actual guys they're either forceful or super creepy :/ The closest fantasies I have to that now is with another mtf XD

[~Darla~]

Fantasies yes but just that.

[Alice Torn]

Tracii, i remember hearing the Grand Ole Opry many years ago, and a song about Louisiana dirty rice.

[SamanthaLouiseScott]

Dana, out of curiosity, since you sound much like me in that regard. Do you prefer to keep *your* genitals out of it, or does that not bother you/?

Very hard to keep them out of the way. Usage and role all depends up on the person you are satisfying who is in turn satisfying you and what makes the grade.

I must be a right so and so the speed my knickers come off lol .Only joking, I am actually quite prim at times.

[Sandra]

Without true romance and being treated like a lady (as you should) it's all fake. We deserve the real deal :)


LOl this makes me laugh...even real GGs don't get the real deal at times...what makes you any different?

[Dana44]

Well said Sandra. Got me laughing...

[laura.lapinski]

Yes, of course. I would also like to hold a nice CD in my arms me as the man.

[phylis anne]

Hey Traii,
many years ago growing up in seattle it was normal to see the local catholic priests in downtown seattle w/o their penguin suits on administering to the souls of the painted street ladies ,and when the priests saw me the bribes came out with the request that don't tell the father you seen us here wink wink ,

[CarolynO]

I have fantasies of romance,foreplay...Him treating me like his "little girl".Satisfying him..... but sex....definitely no.

[Lily Catherine]

Exactly one dream involved such towards its closing, although given the context I wasn't surprised. I was 18, but the dream is comparatively vivid now. Content is rather risqué, which shouldn't be surprising.

In said dream, I was a GG - definitely a pretty, sexy one of course. I recall wearing a pale green ball gown that was too low cut over a matching set of lingerie and white stockings. I initially waltzed with him while wearing the entire gown. The underskirt and hoop then fell off, and the outfit was now a long bustle skirt revealing my legs and a pair of knickers - the kind with rows of lace. I danced erotically around the now seated chap, tying him down with my stockings as the finale. It ended first with me satisfying him (for lack of a better word) in an extremely awkward, mechanical manner.

[Virginia1983]

When you act out on your fantasy, be sure to make him wear a condom. Be safe girls.

[Kristy 56]

All the time & the fantasies get more intense & graphic each time. It wouldn't take much to take me over the edge . :)

[Sandra]

I know most of you are all excited about this topic, but lets keep the TMI out of it please.

[Lilly 40C]

All the time & the fantasies get more intense & graphic each time. It wouldn't take much to take me over the edge . :)


Kristy:

It took me a long time to take the plunge and have sex with another man but, once I did I never looked back and have enjoyed it ever since. Start slowly with lots of foreplay, once you are comfortable with that try oral (the taste is not all that bad). If you do move on to intercourse, use a condom unless you are sure your man is safe. If you're like me, you will never regret doing it and will enjoy it as long as you want.

Good luck!

[Ressie]

Try the search here, you'll find probably a million threads about this (OK Hundreds)

Yes, I've already admitted a few times that I'm not 100% heterosexual.

[Piora]

I've commented on this in related threads, but I don't understand how dressing in female clothes somehow changes anyone's sexual orientation. Those feelings and impulses must already be there. I would say that I am a 100% heterosexual man. Yet, dressing in very feminine or even erotic women's clothing doesn't change anything about my sexuality. I still want to be with a woman, and have zero desires to do anything at all with a man.

[Lori Kurtz]

I have some gay friends, but I have no urge to get involved sexually with any of them. None of them has any clue about my crossdressing history, and I'm sure they all would be completely surprised to hear any such thing about me. I have no problem with saying that I'm not 100% heterosexual.. But when I'm in male mode, I'm not attracted to any men at all, and the sight of a good-looking woman is always a turn-on for me. When I would dress up, a part of me was still responsive if I were to see a sexy woman, but my focus was much more on BEING a sexy woman--for myself to see and for other men to see. I loved the fact that I was not the only man who was turned on by the female me. When I had a sexual experience with a man, it was with a crossdresser (the session included orgasm for me but not for him/her, and there was no penetration). I was well aware that that was who he was, but I was able to enjoy that faux-female body as if he were a real woman, and even while it was happening and I was enjoying his femaleness, I was imagining myself being in that female role, pleasing another man. If I were still dressing up, I believe I would find some way to "get it on" with some appreciative man.

A sudden insight just came to me: I think that's part of why I don't dress up anymore, even though the feelings about achieving the appearance of being sexy woman are still very appealing. At my age (70+), I'm happy with my life as a widower, and while my second marriage was wonderful, I don't need the complications of a new sexual relationship with some real person, male or female. If I dressed up, I'd want to include some man in the experience, in a sexual way. I'm happy with my friendships and neighborhood relationships, which are not sexual at all (except maybe in the minds of some of the widows I know--their attentions are flattering, but I don't want to spoil friendships by bringing sex into the picture, and ... well, I'll just blurt this out ... while some older woman can be truly lovely, they don't inspire quite the intensity of hormonal response that a hot young babe can do. I think you know what I mean, guys).

[SisAimee]

I must admit, "yes." And I took the leap of faith and have been seeing, off and on for a couple of years, a gay man who knows I am female on the inside and desire to enjoy that side.

[gabyespinotv]

this topic is soo exciting! :o

[sometimes_miss]

To be a girl in a relationship is fantastic.
Ummmm; not always. But I'll let the GG's be the ones to tell you why, should you want to ask them.

As far as the sexual fantasy with men thing, sometimes it doesn't mean what you think it means. As a young teen, then alone, I felt the draw to have sex as the bottom with a guy...but weirdly, never found any males attractive or even likable in any way. And though I also felt like I wanted penetration, and tried putting various things 'up there', it never felt good at all, so I couldn't understand why I would have the urge to do that. And I found the smell of men really disgusting, to the point of being nauseous when in locker rooms or mens' lavatories that weren't clean. So where was the fantasy coming from? I couldn't figure that out, so my teen years were spent being all mixed up. Turned out I had learned to associate having sex in the female role, with affection when I had been molested as a kid; it was the only time anyone ever touched me without hitting me. Being completely abandoned by my molester (and who I felt was my only friend and protector) right when I entered high school, I entered my teen years devoid of any source of physical affection at all. So the weirdly connected desires kicked in, leaving me wondering if I was gay or TS.

[gabyespinotv]

so what did you do? did you try sex with men even after you realized that?

[Dana44]

Miss, I must say that my two men were clean, one was very hairy and clean and smelled nice, he wanted me very feminine and wow put me through a loving encounter so I like it a lot. The other was not hairy and also was very clean and smelled good. both of them were married and I guess I gave them what they needed that their wives didn't. They were both fun to be with.

[Devi SM]

I dont understand those that say that dont have the fantasy.
For me the summit of feel as a woman is having sex with a man.
Now that my wife knows everything about my cding experiences, she doesn't want me be with men as I love her I'm not longer doing it.
I hope she can understand one day how I feel and let me do it but for the mean time I respect her desire.
Regarding what i quote, that is actually a mith.

Another cd versatil is my ideal because I love making sex to a sexy gurl but at the same time I love a sexy man that makes me love.

[sometimes_miss]

Post may have changed due to moderator editing. Since I don't know what was edited out, I prefer not to respond, other than to say 'NO' to the person who asked me a question, and they know who they are.

[Alexa CD]

There's some talk about not being attracted to male bodies. I didn't think I'd like older manly men either, this was while I was getting with teenage guys my age. Now I prefer men, they grew on me really quickly, their smell, hairy arms and chests, the whole feel and presence of them is really sexual and attractive to me now. Maybe it's an age, or ultimately just preference thing but you don't quite know until you experience it. Holding hands with a much bigger hand, holding onto a big hairy arm or feeling a hairy chest is actually pretty awesome, contrast definitely helps though.

[Devi SM]

I'm a straight looking and acting man but when dressed it changes. With the time it's been changing more. I want to dress all the time, I want to act like a woman, but I don't see or enjoy watching men as I enjoy watching women.
I enjoy sex with my wife, it's very intensive and variety.
But being with a man is something that is hard for me to describe, but the right one, Not any man. I need to feel intimacy.
Be in his arms and feel how my body sparks his desire, how he runs his hands in my body, how he Kisses me with passion.
All that makes me feel like a woman and all I want in that moment is to please him but no pain.
The pleasure is mainly in the mind. It's so intense
While you have not experience it , it's just words....

[SamanthaLouiseScott]

very well explained Vanessa x

[gabyespinotv]

i only met an admirer once, but he got pushy and i didn't feel like a woman, i felt like a guy in a skirt...so the whole thing was ackward, and i didn't do anything...but the fantasy is very recurrent!
i used to be content just wearing panties...then..as i progressed and dressed with a wig...makeup..painted my nails and everything...the next logicl step seemed like --...fulfilling the girl whithin's desires...
the fantasy is still there...i felt very disgusted about my encounter..however....i think about it a lot and somehow it gets me very horny...i have no idea why...in the moment it just felt wrong and stupid and 0% sexy...but when i think back to it...i feel so horny..lol! go figure

[Devi SM]

In my own experience I learned that everything happens in the mond, even sex.
So like you Gaby, my first experience was traumatic. But after he left, even with the pain,.I want him back again, so days after I look for him again and this time was different, Less pain and more pleasure.
But as I said everything is in the mind. I wanted but that first night so many nights after meet a guy the remorses, shame about what I like, torture me up to the day i found D my own truth and be freed. Now there are no more remorse, shame, fears, just pleasure.
Life is oNE and live wanting something and not do it doesn't make sense for me...

[gabyespinotv]

how many encounters did it take you to feel good...a-)phisically and b-)emotionally?
i think this one should become a sticky thread!

[Angie G]

Only in my fantasies and only with fantasy men.I don't swing that way for real.Hugs
Angie

[Lorileah]

Fantasy very different from having actual sex with a real man; once you have gone through the later, there is no turning back, you will be longing for more...but then are you still considered as a crossdresser who have you already cross the "line"?

Really? I didn't In fact I lost desire all together


this topic is soo exciting! :o

And getting out of control. Sandra gave one warning, this is the absolute LAST one. Before anyone answrs anymore with any details, go read the FAQs, especially the rights of content.

As to not understanding why anyone would or wouldn't, not everyone likes the same thing.

We don't need details of your encounters, get it? Got it? Good. Next one even remotely needing editing closes this shop

[Devi SM]

I always say that is weird that human beings, all without exception come to this world thanks to sex but we, the "intelligent" creatures of the planet keep censuring the topic and cover with dresses (I love that part of dressing, I don't know if we the crossdressers would exist without dressing, lol) while the "inferior" creatures go naked and without shame, but may be that's a topic for another website.
My point is that we cannot go in details even though so many like the details, so whoever can write me in private and I'll give you the details that I can't here.
For the meantime to your question, gaby, how many times took me to enjoy it, the answer is something personal. How much you want something, you know what you're gonna do to achieve it, but for me, pleasure is one of the clue of life.
Everything human beings do naturally is pleasurable, eating, sleeping, number one and two, sex, jumping on parachutes, car race, gambling, buying things, etc. so that proves that we Re made to enjoy life, the limits are personal.
You want it, just go and get it.
If you ask to old people, that is dying, what do they regret on life, they are gonna tell no the things they did do but the ones that they didn't do it.
Kisses.

[Tommarbs]

To be honest Yes!!! I have never acted on them up to now.

[SamanthaLouiseScott]

So long as you're happy , safe , comfortable , acting legally and feeling good does it matter what others theorise and hypothetice over ? Have fun be it sitting in your best dress drinking wine watching Netflix or laid out on your bed in your sexiest lingerie with a fellow human being who makes you feel great.

The world will keep turning whatever you do.

[kimberly c]

Just a fantasy, but you could dress in your finest lingerie and let your SO play the role of the man in bed.

[Thictoria]

This is meant in a light hearted way but if you read all the comments back you can see why all wives, partners or g/f first question is "are you gay/bi and do you want to sleep with men" lol

[Sandra]

Ok people can't be bothered to listen and then argue about staff being sensitive ect...so thanks to a few this thread is now closed.