i am now the wife

[lynda]

hi girls , just got married and my new wife has made me the wife, in the relationship, she controls the sex and im submissive , she now has me dressing fem 24/7 I wear girdles , and bras all the time now and she seems to love being the boss and having me be the typical wife in the marrage even when it comes to sex she is the male and for once I really love being the female part , thanks girls love lynda

[Dana44]

You must have a pretty male wife. Kinda cool. I wonder how long you will like it. Or maybe it is what it is. It must be fun for you.

[Alice Torn]

I would say it is a rather rare, but fortunate for you. There are always ezceptions to the traditional roles.

[suchacutie]

So how did this work, we all wonder? Was thus all planned before the wedding? Who brought up this possibility first? Sounds like it would be a big step for both of you.

[NewBrendaLee]

Congratulations, you are getting to do something that I would love to do. Please keep us posted on how well it all works out

[docrobbysherry]

Sounds like a fetish dream come true? What is it they say? Be careful what u wish for?

[Richelle423]

My GF is more "butch" than I am so I guess I wear the skirt and panties in this relationship! She is not acceping but oh well!!!!!

[Lorileah]

:background music: Leave it to Beaver.

The wife....hmmm, get up earlier, make breakfast and coffee. Clean kitchen and then rest of house, go shopping for food, come home cook dinner, clean floors, get kid from school, keep kids busy after school, make supper, wait til "husband" gets home, have drink ready, have dinner, listen to how bad the "Johnson Account is and how he was on hold for 30 whole minutes and missed the lunch meeting, watch TV-Big Valley, Bonanza, The Fugative, put kids to bed, snuggle to husband who has no intentions of snuggling back, go get ready for bed, get in bed, start reading book, NOW husband wants to snuggle (and more) , put down book, 30 seconds later he's done, rolls over starts snoring, you're awake now, grab book again, finally fall asleep at midnight after setting alarm for 6...


Rinse repeat.

:sigh: yeah that's the life

[RobynC]

I've always dreamed of meeting someone that would let me be the wife, and everything that comes with it. I be a more modern wife, probably get a job rather then a fulltime housewife. Then coming home, cooking meals, doing wash, house cleaning and just being with the person I love. You're so lucky Lynda to have meant someone that will allow you to do all that. I've been married twice and approached my wives with the idea, guess that's why I'm single now? :(

[PaulaQ]

Cool story, hon! How do you explain this to your friends, family, and (presumably) former employer and coworkers. Does she find the demands of a 24/7 D/s relationship to be taxing? What kind of limits are in place.

And most importantly, why in the world is she allowing you enough time to post this? You DO have permission to post, right? Were it me, there would be some harsh consequences for that if you didn't have permission first.

I'm sure you understand.

[Angie G]

WOW I should be so lucky Lynda.:hugs:
Angie

[Jenniferathome]

"Dear Penthouse Forum, I never thought this would happen to me but, ..."

I think you forgot this part

[AnnieMac]

:believeit:

[Sascha Marie]

My wife and i tried this when i got laid off back in April. Just at home, around other people we would switch back. After a month or so we realized you cant fit a square peg into a round hole. I havent dressed in a few weeks, it's hard as shit being a wife.

[Teresa]

Lynda,
I'm only a couple of years off you and couldn't believe what you wrote. It sounds wonderful if that's what you want but after thirty years of being self employed I'm not that submissive but I would love to be a female companion. At the moment I do all the cooking, cleaning, washing and the rest because my wife still works. I hope your new marriage keeps on working and you continue to enjoy your new way of life .

It's great to hear that sex does come into the equation not matter what form it takes, it's something I wish my relationship still had.

[lynda]

I would like to say I h
Ave been out to my family and friends for over a year with mixed results some accept me some don't it's not easy second I have no job ,I am retired and really I find it easy to pass as a women or at lease blend in when you're in your sixties,maybe people just don't look are care about an old broad ,like me thanks girls love you Lynda

[josrphine]

Hi Lynda, I too am a house wife, my wife wants me to be a female more then a male. She will tell people we meet about me. She all so tells them she is 65 % male an I am 65 % female so it works out good. She hates house work , cooking unless its a dish she like. House cleaning forget about it, she tell her friends that I am a better house cleaner then her. At 75 why should I complain I love my part in life an it works for us.

[CarlaWestin]

:background music: Leave it to Beaver.

The wife....hmmm, get up earlier, make breakfast and coffee. Clean kitchen and then rest of house, go shopping for food, come home cook dinner, clean floors, get kid from school, keep kids busy after school, make supper, wait til "husband" gets home, have drink ready, have dinner, listen to how bad the "Johnson Account is and how he was on hold for 30 whole minutes and missed the lunch meeting, watch TV-Big Valley, Bonanza, The Fugative, put kids to bed, snuggle to husband who has no intentions of snuggling back, go get ready for bed, get in bed, start reading book, NOW husband wants to snuggle (and more) , put down book, 30 seconds later he's done, rolls over starts snoring, you're awake now, grab book again, finally fall asleep at midnight after setting alarm for 6...


Rinse repeat.

:sigh: yeah that's the life

Wonderful! You forgot the pearls and heels.

[abby054]

...it's hard as being a wife.

Now that part I believe.

[Shayna]

"Dear Penthouse Forum, I never thought this would happen to me but, ..."

I think you forgot this part

Exactly what I was thinking

[ReineD]

I believe Lynda, or rather I believe that Lynda looks at her marital situation that way. But, I wonder if Lynda’s wife looks at it differently.

If you were to ask my SO, he would say that I make a lot if not most of the daily decisions. But, I do so because my SO can’t be bothered. When we go on a trip he doesn’t seem interested in getting into all the detailed planning, whereas I love to do it. And so we’re well matched. The same holds true for dinner. If I ask what he would like, he can never think of anything and so I decide. The same holds true for how we might spend a Saturday night, how we might landscape the yard, how the bathroom should be remodeled. My SO prefers to occupy his mind with other things than the planning of daily life.

My SO would be honest if he framed it like Lynda and said that I wore the pants in the family. lol. But, I don’t see it that way at all. I used to consult with him on every little thing until I realized that it takes a load off his mind when he is not bothered with it all. But when he does want to go somewhere or do something a certain way, then of course we do what he wants.

As to Lynda’s wife making Lynda wear bras and girdles, my SO also is completely free to dress when she likes. But that’s because I don’t like to constrain my SO. Still, when my SO chooses to not dress I do not force him to dress (although I might ask sometimes if he would like to go out and do something dressed) but if he is not in the mood I am fine with that. So I’m guessing that if Lynda decided she didn’t want to dress on any given day, Lynda’s wife would be fine with that too.

Does Lynda do housework? Good for Lynda, along with everyone else who keeps their house clean. But does this mean that the person doing the housework is a wife? Not if you ask all the guys out there who also do household chores and who cook.

And as to the bedroom, it would be interesting to hear Lynda’s wife’s take on their sex life, to see if she believes that she is taking on the male role and that Lynda is the wife. Or, they may well have a domme/sub bedroom relationship, but so do lots of other couples even when the crossdressing doesn’t enter into it.

We can all frame any situation any way we want to and if Lynda & wife are happy, that’s all that counts.

[susmitha]

I think I envy you, Linda. Just enjoy life. Does your wife consider you and treat you as a woman while making love? Does she call you female names and use female pronouns for you during intimacy? Does she dress as a man?

[LelaK]

"if Lynda & wife are happy, that’s all that counts"

To be more precise, that's Almost all that counts. What also counts a lot is not hurting anyone. That goes without saying, but it does get overlooked too often, I think, so I like to say it anyway sometimes.

[lynda]

Hi girls ,I lam happy at the moment
,Trying to enjoy life ,it. gets complicated sometimes,but we get through .my wife doesn't wear men's clothing and as far as our sex life .all I will say I am. Very submissive.the rest is only shared by us. thanks for your comments love talking with all of you. love peace Lynda
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[5150 Girl]

My Polar Bear is disabled. I have to do all the domestic stuff that a wife normally does

[Philippa Jane]

Had the same dream as this many years ago and is now a distant memory.
The only way I can relate to this is that as an unemployed person (my choice) I have now taken over all the housework besides the usual male stuff.
It is a breeze (although I don't have kids to slow me down).
My biggest decision today was do I get fully dressed or just stay drab. Drab won.
Good luck to Lynda, go with the flow.