if you woke up female...

[Andrea Evadne]

A strange question for you all..
If you woke up tomorrow morning fully female, how would you class your sexual orientation? Would you think of your self as hetro, lesbian, bi or have no idea what you were?

[Annajose]

Lesbian, absolutely!

[JeanetteX]

That's a tough question. Of course as a full woman I think I would prefer to be with a man. But I can't imagine I would ever lose my love for women...guess that would make me bisexual if it would happen

[stormy_skyxx]

I think it is not a strange question, but a very interesting one...
If that would happen to me i would probably be bisexual, but i will still be attracted mostly by women like 80% attracted by women, 20% by men

[Emma or Darren]

Something Ive often thought about guess I'd have to keep my options open and go bi.
Emma xx

[Fiona123]

I think I would be hetero. 🌺

[Andrea Evadne]

I think I would very definitely be a lesbian. Never felt any attraction to men, and deeply love my wife. Funny, when I see a beautiful woman in the street, I feel a strange mix of being attracted to her, and envious of how she looks..

Edit: no such thing as definitely, of course...no idea what female hormones would do to my orientation

[Jeny_rj]

hmmm... interesting question.... If I wake up with a female body but still have my mind, I would be a lesbian!

[chelyann]

i would go with BI

[iGenny]

You can add another lesbian to the mix. I'm not interested in or attracted to men at all.

[Lee Andrews]

If my mind was working the same as it is now, I 'd have to say lesbian. I love females and everything about them.

[Georgina]

I'd still be attracted to women and their clothes.

[Teresa]

Andrea,
I guess I would stop being bi-gender and be a lesbian , I still wouldn't want a man .

[CarlaWestin]

Lesbian. And instantly single.

[Amy Fakley]

I'd wake up filled with the greatest joy I've ever known, and it'd stay that way for a little while I think. Honestly ... It'd be a long while before I even thought who I'd want sexually or romantically, and I couldn't even tell you how that'd fall out ... And honestly I don't think I'd even care.

Everything else would be right, that stuff would be trivia by comparison.

[charlene#2]

kind of a foolish question,most of you are answering a question that hasnt happened yet and are not even concidering that your mind would probably also change with your body,right?i would guess that most would be hetero

[marlacd]

I would put myself together, and see what I'd attract. Having the correct anatomy just might make men interesting. But until I'd know for sure, I'd just enjoy the perks of being fem.

Wouldn't You?

[Tracii G]

Pretty common subject and its been discussed here before.
My self I would think if I woke up fully female with a female mind I would be hetero.
Being a gay man I guess that makes sense.

[Yoshisaur]

I'm already bi so not much would change for me.

[Lori Kurtz]

With the body I have now, I love women, and consider myself mostly heterosexual. But if I found myself in a real female body, I'd be totally heterosexual: I'd be thrilled to be able to please a man, and I would love for him to find me appealing and be desirous of pleasing me.

[BrendaPDX]

Well it would be the most interesting day of my life so far. I would start out bisexual and take it from there.

[1958Candi]

Most definitely bi, but I would be anxious to know to it feels like to make love to a man as a woman.

[Alexa CD]

I'd be almost entirely hetero, but I'm sure I'd have some kind of interest in women as well. Would that make me bi? I guess so, I'd probably just have short episodes with women, then go back to men. Some people have thought about this here, but I've read some examples of female hormones and an increasingly feminine appearance altering sexuality and actually making men alot more appealing.. so who really knows just how much things would change.

[TakaraYu]

I'd be a lesbian most likely

[prettygirl4]

Straight 😊

[paulaprimo]

if i woke up a woman, than i would be hetro... ;)

[grace7777]

If I woke up female my gender identity problems would be solved. As to sexual orientation it would probably be heterosexual. I would not be in any hurry to get into a relationship. Main goal would be to live the best life that I could as a woman.

[Lily Catherine]

Would my mind even change in the first place? In principle I've rarely had any same-sex attraction as a male. I've all along been attracted to women (or rather, the opposite biological sex). I consequently reckon that I would remain heterosexual if my mind changes as well.

The eventual outcome could well be waking up enjoying female-to-male crossdressing, wanting to possess male characteristics while being attracted to men (being heterosexual, basically) which would be back to square one for me.

Not that one can simply arbitrarily decide one's sexual orientation can they?

If this ever happens I'll just stare at myself in the bathroom mirror, get myself dressed appropriately and avoid fretting too much.

[NewBrendaLee]

Straight. I would love it

[Dana44]

I am BI so I would wake up and say wow what happened. But if I was one gender and female. I would have a significant amount of fun with both men and women. Oh yes that would be ultra fun.

[Donna June]

I'd say yippee yahoo, that's for sure and I would be hetero

[Lorileah]

waffles, I would want waffles and maybe some bacon.

The question is rather broad and you either assume you are "totally" female (everything. Mind and body with no former memory) or you have memory of who or what you were. Assuming scene 1...I would probably be like 90% of women everywhere and look for a male partner to have a family. In scene two (which is what the TS community really has) nothing really changes from what you were before (although some try to force a change). Right now, men are low on my list of romantic or sexual partners, waaaay too much baggage. But, if nothing metally changes, the right man OR woman would work.

[Shelly Preston]

Well Firstly I have to get over the shock and the wondering how long this would last.

Oh boy I have a new body and I want to know how it works.

Then its just down to curiousity

[Ressie]

Some experimenting would be in order before making any rash decisions.

[Mickitv]

What a wonderful question. I would definitely think of myself as bi. I feel that I am bi now so that would not change. But making love to a woman or a man as a woman would be a great experience.

[docrobbysherry]

If I woke up as an Irish Setter, I'd want to be bi!:D

I've been straight for 70 years and kinda feel like I missed out, somehow!:brolleyes:

[Mollyanne]

If only, IF ONLY!!!!!! When it happens to me I'll ya!!!!!

Molly

[GBJoker]

I do not know, and would not know where to even begin.

Edit: Really, my answer would be BEYOND confusing and convoluted. It'd be an essay. Lots of problems even just imagining the hypothetical, so... Yeah.

[Cristy2]

I'm bi with strong leanings towards the gay side, so I assume if I work up full woman I would be bi with strong leanings towards the hetro side.

[Ceera]

Bi, tending to lesbian. I'd be about the same as I am right now when I am out en-femme - open to possibilities with either gender, but generally preferring a female partner over a male one.

The main thing that would change would be there would be a whole lot more individuals, of either gender, who would find me an 'acceptable match'. Straight males and strictly lesbian females would be 'on the menu', as it were. Compared to now, where the individual pretty much needs to be bisexual, to appreciate my feminine side and at the same time not be put off by the idea that I'm still physically male. For example, lots of lesbians are willing to be my friend today, knowing I am MtF TG, and non-op, but very few of them would be open to a romantic relationship with me. I've asked many of my lesbian gal pals, most of them at an all-girl's speed dating event, and out of 30+ ladies, all wanted to be my friend, but only 2 said they would be open to dating me.

I might lose a few possibilities, such as the subset of strictly gay males who see me as a cross dressed male and like the idea of a cross-dressing male boyfriend, and who would only be interested in me as long as I am still functionally male. That is a fairly small segment of the people currently attracted to me, however.

[Sarah Louise]

That is an interesting question. My first reaction is totally lesbian as I'm only interested in women. I certainly wouldn't want to be with another man.

However, I have wondered what it would be like to swap bodies with my wife so I'm in her body and she is in mine. I think I might let her get her wicked way with me because she'll be me and I'll be her. In effect I'd be making love to myself.

[Jenny22]

Being TG with TS thoughts all of the time, I would definitely be hetero .. and hopeful of finding Mr. Right.

[TrishaLake]

Same as today, Pansexual

[susmitha]

Will hope that my wife has woken up as a man. Hoping she (now, he) will make love to me everyday. Even if she has not become male, I will request her to take over the role of the male partner in our relationship. Let her be the man in our marriage.

[Janine cd]

I would be a hetero. I would relish the thought of being a willing and submissive partner to my male SO's sexual needs.

[Diane Smith]

Doc, I love Irish Setters! Maybe we could get together after your transition.

Seriously, my only attraction is to women. Men are rough and smelly and they talk about boring things. I want to look, smell, and talk like, and be intimate with women.

- Diane

[Kate Simmons]

I wake up en femme most mornings so not much would change. I wouldn't feel the need to rush out and determine my orientation. I would just be myself regardless of gender.:)

[Cheryl T]

Good question....
I suppose with the proper "equipment" I'd have to consider men, but I would still love women....so bi I suppose.

[LelaK]

I'd be lesbian.

[HollyGreene]

If the only change was my physical form, then lesbian. I have never had the slightest inkling of attraction to men.
If my brain changed too, then I have no idea.

[kymmieLorain]

I think I would experiment, so I could go any way.

Kymmie

[NancySue]

I think it would be fun for a period of time. We go to such enjoyable efforts to simulate the feminine mystique. As a real female there would be no boundaries to everything feminine we'd do. What fun to have real breasts and have to go to Victoria's Secret and buy new bras. We could shop until we drop. Try everything feminine. I'd also schedule a round of golf so I could use the women's tees. I'd have fun flirting, doing all those subtle things women do that drive men crazy. AND I would wear nylons and high heels (ouch) fashionable or NOT !

[Angie G]

I would think I'm so lucky I got my wish. And I'd have to be a Lesbian.:hugs:
Angie

[Cassandra*]

Ditto with Angie and I would feel my real boobs.😃

[Shayna]

Being attracted to women, my first response if lesbian, but I probably would want to see how a female body feels (after my wife inevitably leaves me)

[Lana Mae]

Do not know. It would depend on hormonal and mental changes. Hetero or lesbian not sure which but not bi. Lana Mae

[DMichele]

Andrea,
If I woke tomorrow 100% female (and I assume I could be much younger - say ~20yo) I would explore my sexuality. I probably would be heterosexual but open-minded.

Fun to 'what if' once in awhile.

[sometimes_miss]

Growing up, I was basically the girl in the relationship, but without the right parts, so intimate physical behavior was never comfortable at all. So I sort of wondered what it would have felt like if I were female, as well as if my whole feelings and viewpoint would change. But the revulsion and distrust I have for men would probably remain to some degree, unless that magically disappeared with my male body. I don't know if what I'm attracted to would change, but I don't think so. So I guess I'd wind up female, attracted to females, so, lesbian.

[Charlessa]

I'd imagine I'd be bi.

[prene]

I believe I would still love the female gender.
But, I would love to have a child.
I know you gg's think I am crazy, but to have those changes in my body
and to carry a life. My crazy wish.

So Bi I guess.

[becky77]

If you woke up female it would be with Estrogen and without Testosterone so your sex drive may feel completely different.
Those of you who feel disgust at being with a man, well that feeling may well be absent with female hormones and feelings.

You can't imagine how powerful testosterone is until it's gone, in my life that's awesome but for many of you, you may hate how it feels.

Just food for thought.

[Shayna]

If you woke up female it would be with Estrogen and without Testosterone so your sex drive may feel completely different.
Those of you who feel disgust at being with a man, well that feeling may well be absent with female hormones and feelings.

You can't imagine how powerful testosterone is until it's gone, in my life that's awesome but for many of you, you may hate how it feels.

Just food for thought.

Good point. The change would not be just physical, but chemical and mental.

[Vikky]

First I would be gobsmacked!
Next I would give a nice feminine cheer.
Then I would walk over to the mirror and inspect my new bits in detail.
Finally I would dress up to the nines and go and celebrate.

I think it would be a while before I decided on my sexuality - maybe some experimentation would be called for.

Vikky

Vikky

[mcQuestGend]

This is an awesome question. I would agree with those who have already replied and say it does depend on your current sexual orientation, but it does present a different question. In social circles how "normal" do you want to be. I mean... as a man - normal MIGHT be classified as heterosexual, as it might be for a woman. Now your question creates the confusion in that arena. If you woke up tomorrow as a woman - and you want to be normal, could you see yourself as straight and now only have sexual relationships with men?

Personally, I never considered myself normal, so I would say that while I am straight and a little bi-curious, I would remain that way, but as a woman I might explore the new heterosexual perspective closer.

[Sissy_Michelle]

Andrea,

I have to agree with Jeanette, and others on this thread. If I woke up as a full woman, I would most probably have woman desires and needs. Though I am sure I would be bisexual if I think about it or at the very least curious. Not to be crass, but toys and hands can only do so much. Everyone craves the touch of someone else the desire to be touched by someone else is the most exciting... As much as you crave a girl to touch your male parts, as a woman you'll have the same desire of men... In my humble opinion...

@--}----
Michelle

[Jane G]

What a great way to phrase an obvious question. Pretty sure it would be bi. But not ever likely to find out, being very happily married to my wife for 35 years now.

[Connie D50]

I would love to live that dream of waking up female, I would explore all aspects of being female both sexuality, and how the world treat me as a female. Connie
P.S. I would shop til I dropped.

[Beverley Sims]

Mmmm!
I would just have to get on with it find a suitable dress and at least could throw my male wardrobe away.

That would be progress.

[lynnef]

First thought - Something's different.... *checks*.... WOOHOO!!!! :D

as for orientation - Grey-Asexual/Homoromantic (or maybe Demisexual/homoromantic) (i'm an emotional-spiritual love kinda girl :D )

[MissVirginia-Mae]

bi, but would have a strong craving towards men

[Sherrii]

Probably bi. Especially if I still had the same mind. I don't see what women see in a lot of men, many seem like you wouldn't want them. But then I am submissive to women, especially sexually. It would be interesting to be "taken" by a man too. Sherrii

[Joanne108]

I'd be a full on lesbian.

[Krisi]

Since I am married (to a woman), my only option would be to say I would be a lesbian. I have to admit, I would be really curious to experience the feeling of using my female parts as they were intended to be used but that would be cheating.

[Anita Cosmolover]

It would be a dream come true and I would be lesbian.

[mickynylons]

...I would be a nylons/heel wearing devout Lesbian ;)

[Debra Russell]

If I could flip a switch and become female, I suppose I would have all the female wants and needs and go with what ever they dictate. I love women and dressing - being one might be a real eye opener - and if there were a switch to flip I would have done it a long time ago :battingeyelashes: :sad:..........................Debra

[renaej7]

I would say lesbian but the right guy could change that if I was a woman.

[MindiB]

break out the shovel and pick, were going gold digging.....LoL

[charlene#2]

if i woke up as a female i would want to be all woman 100%,no lesbian for me.for most of my life i have pretended to be a female,and now the chance to be a real woman,hell there shouldnt be a question about it.

[Lorileah]

:eek: wait...what? Lesbians aren't all woman? I love how you all start building boxes.

[SuzyZahn]

I`d probably want to be Bi,,,,,and also break out the credit cards!

[StacyCD]

Lesbian definitely. Men just don't do it for me.

[Sissy_in_pink]

I have always wondered what it is like for a girl to have sex with a man, so I think I would at least try it with a guy first then with a girl, I think lesbian sex between 2 beautiful young girls is just awesome to watch, so to do it with a girl would be something I would definitely have to try, but as it stands, I don't think I could decide until it happened.

[Samantha54]

Most definitely bi. The soft feel of another woman's body and being dominated by a sweet, handsome man!

[cdtraveler]

Easy. Bi

[Rain Kensing]

Bi, hell I'm bi now.

[realdesired]

I would love to be a bi sexual. Bt mot of the time lesb

[Chrissi]

What a wonderful thing that would be, first off. Secondly, that's easy, my sexual preference has always been men, so a straight woman :)...seems odd thinking of myself as straight anything...oh how boring!

[bonni]

i would love it. i wouldnt have to go through HRT

[MissTee]

I would be both confused and conflicted. Might be overthinking it, but if you asked if I woke up and realized I was a Giraffe I think I'd have a lot to sort through before deciding my sexual orientation. In my present state I like women, so put me in whatever box that would be.

[Raychel]

First thing I would be delighted that I don't need to do the tucking and padding to get the right look in the mirror.
After that I would be lesbian for sure,

[Kim_Bitzflick]

:eek: After I got over the shock of having all female parts...........

I know I'd be a lesbian.

[Tania75]

I would be too busy shopping to worry about types of relationships.

[Molly J]

I don't know if I could handle the change. I would want to explore all the possibilities.

[Desiree2bababe]

Stay bi, no reason to change!

[lisa_vin]

Fully female means with a female brain as well. With that as a backdrop, I have no idea what my desire would be. If I maintained my original male brain, I would most definitely be lesbian.

[arbon]

As long as I can where panties who cares...

[Maybelle]

Lesbian is my first thought but if we had a female brain too then i cant exclude being bi.

[Lorileah]

Technically if you had a "female" brain you couldn't exclude anything.

[Emma500]

That would be awesome. After a shopping spree, I would definitely want to meet a handsome guy who treated me as a woman

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Andrea:hugs:, Not sure where I would fit in to your options,

But I would probably be a F to M Crossdresser...:daydreaming:...

[MissVirginia-Mae]

I believe I would defin need to be with a man and have that "itch" scratched but im starting to lean more towards a lesbian for the remainder of my life as a real woman.
But a great man in bed could change that I think

[Lilly 40C]

Since I am Bi, I would hope a nice man would be lying naked in bed next to me.:daydreaming:

[Just-Lucy]

When I awake sometimes I believe I am male, others I am female. during feminine days I am disgusted with my body shape, facial & body hair. to help this, I shave daily no matter the mode i am in (saves some tears I tell ya!) As a man i am hetro and as lucy I tend to be open to all possibilities for a sexual partner and find excitement in all. I think if I awoke as a GG, that I would be so grateful to have removed my body fears and would enjoy just being me for a moment, as the dust settled I am pretty sure I would be Bi with a leaning towards women. xXx

[Rosemary+]

up until recently I've never been attracted to males but as I age and I have more time to dress, I'm finding the male anatomy Ivery interesting
SO I suppose I would wake up as a straight woman, I would no doubt see what the male anatomy has to offer
Rosie

[Andrea2656]

As has been pointed out it depends on who you were after you wake up. If I was myself with exclusive interest in women I would have to say lesbian. However, I am not sure my wife would be so happy in a lesbian marriage. I am happy to be a man that dresses in women's clothing.

If it did happen I would hope I had a "Groundhog Day" chance to repeat things a few times until I got it right!

[kendracd]

Well I have been BI all my life, so I suppose if I woke up full a woman, id still be the same,id just have to be more carful with the guys,,now I could get pregnant..lol omg what a thought...:brolleyes:

[Krisi]

I think the real question is; If you woke up female one morning, how would your wife take it? Would she pack up and leave, would she live with you as sisters, or would she be willing to become a lesbian and continue the marriage.

And of course the other questions are; How would your children, friends and co-workers take it?

[Pat]

If I woke up and was female I'd smile, roll over and go back to sleep. ;)

[Tina_gm]

I would definitely not be sleeping....

[Robyn2006]

I'd be a straight woman, absolutely... Good lord, so much time already lost!!! :lovestruck:

[lovetobedani]

I agree to the fact that if I were to wake up as a female I'd have all of the needs and wants of a female. However I've never been attracted to males. I guess like most females it's tough to make up my mind at times.

Probably be 80% lesbian and 20% hetero that would make me bi. I also reserve the right to change my mind about this as often as I see fit. LOL

[Alice_2014_B]

I would still very much dig women and women only.
:)

[DIANEF]

Sorry to be so predictable but yet another lesbian here. I love women, their shape, smell, feel, everything about them, There is nothing remotely interesting about the male form.

[Dana44]

Actually if I woke up as a female, I think I would check me out first to see and then probably go back to sleep as it was a dream.

[ellbee]

Um, I'd definitely go a bit hog-wild with the guys -- as long as they were cute & fit & clean & knew how to move. :D


And once that initial urge was out of my system, I'd find a GG to get a little freaky with.


Then quickly back to the hot guys, LOL. :o

[Sephone]

I would experiment first, but i guess lesbian.

[AlyssaJ]

I guess you could call it bisexual. I can't imagine ever not being attracted to women but at the same time I think in a female body I'd definitely be wanting to try out the goods :)

[redtea]

i think in the long run i would feel sad that the real me is practically dead and how I'm stuck with this female body.

Just think of how hard it would be on your family when they don't believe it's you and that you are gone.

From a fantasy perspective, i would shop at the store my mom works at and ask her for help finding something, The adrenaline rush from that would be crazy. Id also try walking topless in public for another adrenaline rush...well maybe or maybe not. Basically id be a adrenaline junkie, but my dares would be much bigger than my male bodies since men have more to be ashamed about so men don't have to go over the top to get a hit.

[Dragonfir3zz]

Happy, but do i know i woke up in a female body, or is this me now. Wouod depend on the brain i woke with. Mine-lesbian, female-unknown til i meet new me.

[suchacutie]

LOL, I wouldn't have time to think about it as my then very PO'd wife would insist I get my anatomy refined! My wife loves Tina, but she married to my male side. The other answer is that Tina is not interested in guys.

[susancheerleader]

Probably lesbian

[Ashley Nicole]

I think before I could truly answer that question, I would have to know my body (as a woman) and how people reacted to me. My guess is I would remain bi (as I am now), but I can't say that for sure...

[Jane277]

I have always said I'm a lesbian trapped in a mans body

[Amelie]

I am a woman and I like men.

[Gwyneth]

Definitely bisexual. But I'm sure I would be the biggest (insert nasty word here) in my city!

[Krisi]

I think in fantasies like this we often only read into them what we want to. The original post was about waking up female. Taken at face value, we would still be us, but with breasts, a vagina, no facial or body hair and no adams apple. We would still be 6'2, 200 lb with big hands and feet. And we would still be whatever age we are now, which for some of us is well past sexy. We wouldn't be "hot chicks".

This might limit our options as far as choice of partners regardless of sex.

[susancheerleader]

I'd love waking up female. You can be free to express yourself without fear of being judged. No one to tell you to "suck it up" or "be a man." I am very emotional for a guy and my coworkers always point it out.
Not to mention women have a huge amount of clothing styles while men get pants and a shirt. Whoopie. :(


Oops. I guess I should have read the topic deeper. Sorry.

[lynnstar]

Assuming my emotional and mental state are the same as they were when i went to bed? I would be hetero. But who knows? I could well be lesbian. I know two things for sure! If woke up a female, my wife would probably leave and after checking myself out and depending
Whether i was 20 something or 60, i would have a great day shopping for the age appropriate attire.

[Kate's at home]

I would so hope also to wake up a size 6, or 8 at the most, and be several inches shorter. And to have my entire wardrobe "downsized" to fit the new me.

Kate

[Krisi]

I am a woman and I like men.

OK, as a woman, turn the question around. What if you woke up male? Would you still like men and be homosexual or would you be bisexual or heterosexual?

[Ashley090]

Thinking of that, I would be bi. That allows me to have flexibility in partners and able to "choose" depend on mood that day :)

[Krisi]

You already have that flexibility, don't you?

[Sarah S]

I would be a lesbian.

[Gwyneth]

You already have that flexibility, don't you?

There's more flexibility for finding a man to be with if you CD. From my own experience maybe, but bi-men are very infatuated with CD's.