Halflifecrysis
07-22-2016, 10:45 AM
I was reading a previous post of mine in anotger area and im thinking that i should ask you all a quick question about therapy. For those of you that have gone to seek out hrt or to just discuss the mentality of it all...maybe you can share some information.
Last night I asked my partner if she would help me with makeup. Pretty much out of the blue...sorry love. Anyway, she smiles asking what for...and i just said its something i need to do...so i can see what i might have looked like if i had known what i know now back when i was in my teens. That i would most likely not be who i am today. She of course asked for more details with a little shot at me saying your not going to go jenner on me are you. I replied no...and got a bit emotional. I explained some specific events growing up and actions that i took as well as some same sex relationships. She was very cool about it and said that if i did this and really liked it that i should be true to myself and do what i want to do in order to be happy. Which was a great thing to hear concidering i was ready to vomit at just having this conversation in the first place. I truely love her and do not want to ruin what we have. My reasoning to her is i needed to just do this one night to feel beautiful instead of handsome...to just see myself in that light that i keep thinking about but never acted on it. I told her i would likely look in the mirror and break down...because i have needed this for so long and to just get it off my chest would be such a release. I explained that i did not want to go any further than that. Family, children, etc. It's just not that important to me to go full on and make a change. So, my question is...since this last year has been so intense with this need to explore this side of me are there options for me to figure out how to keep my current lifestyle stable without having to accept this part of myself? I am sure my T levels have plumeted...i cry at 30 second life insurance commercials. My emotions are all over the place...my tastes have changed...i shaved my legs and love it...i cant go down this road right now. What kind of therapy should i be looking for?
Thanks for any help in this matter. Im moving really fast...this last week has been insane...buying makeup, searching for wigs, my legs...feel Amazing!...and i am grossed out by the stubbles...im checking my butt in the mirror...i just feel like im spiralling.
Last night I asked my partner if she would help me with makeup. Pretty much out of the blue...sorry love. Anyway, she smiles asking what for...and i just said its something i need to do...so i can see what i might have looked like if i had known what i know now back when i was in my teens. That i would most likely not be who i am today. She of course asked for more details with a little shot at me saying your not going to go jenner on me are you. I replied no...and got a bit emotional. I explained some specific events growing up and actions that i took as well as some same sex relationships. She was very cool about it and said that if i did this and really liked it that i should be true to myself and do what i want to do in order to be happy. Which was a great thing to hear concidering i was ready to vomit at just having this conversation in the first place. I truely love her and do not want to ruin what we have. My reasoning to her is i needed to just do this one night to feel beautiful instead of handsome...to just see myself in that light that i keep thinking about but never acted on it. I told her i would likely look in the mirror and break down...because i have needed this for so long and to just get it off my chest would be such a release. I explained that i did not want to go any further than that. Family, children, etc. It's just not that important to me to go full on and make a change. So, my question is...since this last year has been so intense with this need to explore this side of me are there options for me to figure out how to keep my current lifestyle stable without having to accept this part of myself? I am sure my T levels have plumeted...i cry at 30 second life insurance commercials. My emotions are all over the place...my tastes have changed...i shaved my legs and love it...i cant go down this road right now. What kind of therapy should i be looking for?
Thanks for any help in this matter. Im moving really fast...this last week has been insane...buying makeup, searching for wigs, my legs...feel Amazing!...and i am grossed out by the stubbles...im checking my butt in the mirror...i just feel like im spiralling.