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cdtraveler
07-29-2016, 11:13 PM
As I've been interviewimg for a better workplace as of late it got to wonderimg how.many of us have interviewed either underdressed, totally dressed or somewherw in between and how it went? Any good stories or ideas out there?
happybra
07-29-2016, 11:41 PM
I have done an interview or two while wearing a bra.
Jenniferathome
07-29-2016, 11:43 PM
I've never had a job interview where they asked to check my underwear. I think you'll be safe.
Mollyanne
07-30-2016, 05:04 AM
I had a few interviews that I intended to go to "underdressed", I wore pantyhose and panties. Just the thought(s) that I was fooling the interviewer with what I was wearing had me on "the edge". I wanted despartly to be there fully dressed and to get the job as a woman but that didn't happen.
Mollyanne
Krisi
07-30-2016, 07:58 AM
When I have interviewed for jobs or promotions, my entire focus was on getting that job or promotion. I always dressed as appropriate for the job and never wore a bra, pantyhose, etc.
Alice 23
07-30-2016, 09:15 AM
While this is a dream of mine, to be able to wear a dress to an interview and be able to dress completely for work, it's an impossibility for me, at least in my current line of work, besides being able to focus on the task at hand without getting distracted by the lovely feeling of being a woman! My current line of work requires reflective safety stripes on my clothes, steel toe boys with a puncture proof steel plate and full steel shank, safety glasses, and a hard hat, not to mention we have a retired paramedic on standby, and as a safety coordinator. So, dream, ABSOLUTELY, possibility, absolutely not.
CynthiaD
07-30-2016, 09:20 AM
I've never had a job interview where they asked to check my underwear. I think you'll be safe.
In my "interview" for the US Army they checked a lot more than that.
CarlaWestin
07-30-2016, 09:39 AM
Not so much interviews but, I did pass three very demanding professional license tests while displaying very noticeable breasts. At that time it was kind of a good luck thing. I even aced one of the tests which was an all time first in that jurisdiction.
I Am Paula
07-30-2016, 10:35 AM
I can't quite see the point. If it's not a job you want much, go for it. If it's your career your looking at, put your best foot forward, and leave the bra at home.
countrygirl
07-30-2016, 10:57 AM
I have done interviews being underdressed before. Only wished I could have been fully Amanda.
Tracii G
07-30-2016, 05:27 PM
I did fill out an application at Cabela's in 50/50 mode or tweenie mode.
I had an interview call and I was out shopping in girl mode that day so I stopped by for the interview.
Having marked my application as transgender I figured why not go in girl mode?
Waited in line for the interview and there were 6 of us waiting 3 boys 3 girls of which I was one so 4 guys 2 girls if you want to get technical.
Waited for about 30 min after the interview and they picked one of the girls.
We all said great job and good luck to her. She was really sweet and I'm glad she got the job.
I'm still on the waiting list so presenting both ways to the same manager didn't seem to be a big problem.
He did say when I gave him my application the first time we met that I was the first trans person he had met.
He was cool about it.
Bunty
07-31-2016, 07:17 AM
Interesting - and encouraging. :)
JamieG
07-31-2016, 09:42 AM
I did fill out an application at Cabela's in 50/50 mode or tweenie mode.
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I'm still on the waiting list so presenting both ways to the same manager didn't seem to be a big problem.
He did say when I gave him my application the first time we met that I was the first trans person he had met.
He was cool about it.
I wish you the best of luck. However, you should know that Cabela's is currently being sued for transgender discrimination. I don't have all the facts, but an internet search can find the basic story of the case. Hopefully, they've learned their lesson and will be more trans-friendly, but it is also possible that they are just being more careful in how they discriminate...
Melissa Rose
07-31-2016, 11:20 AM
What you wear under your clothes is no one else's business so do as you please in this regard. If you interview in more feminine clothes or fully dressed then the assumption is going to be you are planning to dress in a similar manner on the job. While many states and locales have laws protecting against transgender discrimination, being partially or fully dressed is going to significantly diminish your chances of getting hired. If you are willing to take on the challenge then go for it. Transitioning or transitioned MTF have one of the highest employment rates.
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