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Lauren Richards
08-01-2016, 09:41 AM
Had business in North San Diego County on Saturday afternoon, and after finishing the necessary, I slipped into casual femme. Decided it was a good day to shop and make a payment on my store credit card, so headed over to the local Macys. (This is not an advertisement for Macys, however, I think as you read further you will know why I mention the store by name).

Did not have any makeup with me, so with only a light application of lipstick, dressed casual femme, anyone who took the time to look would know I was a crossdresser. Browsing the discount area of the women's department, I was approached by a smiling sales woman who proceeded to offer color and style suggestions, and talked about what was coming to the store soon. She was more than welcoming. I would say she was delighted to help, and made me feel very welcome in her store. A store style consultant walked by, and was quite engaging, insisting that only gold earrings would go with a certain top I was considering purchasing.

As she helped me other customers came and went, making their purchases as I hung items on the rack next to the sales counter. The senior sales person for the department arrived, as did someone from the shoe department, who was just stopping by to visit. I promised a visit to the shoe department once I was done.

"Do you want to dress more masculine or more feminine?" Certain items were left on the rack, and others purchased. Changed into a red top before leaving as she had had suggested "you need more color". Stopped by the shoe department on my way out, and had a wonderful conversation.

On Sunday I needed to return for business, and decided to take along the dress I had purchased, as well as my gurl gear so I could change into the more comfortable me when I had concluded the business part of my morning.

Revisited Macys, full en femme. Was greeted warmly in the shoe department, where we discussed casual vs dress shoes, and much more. She was delightful. Had a wonderful time.

Went up to the women's department, and the senior sales woman was there. She was delighted to see me, and thanked me for coming back to visit. She complimented me on how nice I looked in the dress I had purchased the day before, and on my shoes. Then, she took my picture. Several, actually. "We need some color in the background. Strike a pose for me. You look wonderful!"

Serendipity on Saturday and Sunday. Simply wonderful.

I do not know if it is a Macys corporate policy to be open and accepting of our slice of normal (as I prefer to think of us in our many varieties). I do know, however, that the sales staff at Macys located at The Shoppes at Carlsbad is friendly, open, accepting, encouraging, and helpful. I also know they hire and support those in this broader range of normal in which we dwell. Kudos, Macys.

I will be going back to see them when I can, both en femme and drab. If you are ever in the area, I encourage you to drop in for a visit.

Oh... one of the photos...

Hugs,
Lauren

Karen RHT
08-01-2016, 10:40 AM
Awesome...relaxed, confident, interacting with others, and enjoying the moment. Well done Lauren. Kudos to them as well.


Karen

Lana Mae
08-01-2016, 03:21 PM
Lauren, Sounds like a good time to me!! Nice to hear of stores coming around!! Of course, they are making money off the likes of us!! LOL Pretty dress!! Looks very nice on you!!! Hugs Lana Mae

anna kate
08-01-2016, 06:51 PM
Lauren,
Hope you wrote to Macy's corporate and told them that. It will give your sales people a boost. Mention their names, they will be appreciative. I did that at Lane Bryant, the help couldn't do enough for me the next time in.

Meghan4now
08-02-2016, 09:27 AM
Looking good, and she is right, a nice splash of color would be perfect.

suzanne
08-02-2016, 10:00 AM
A truly wonderful story. Thanks for sharing. Most often, your story is the rule, not the exception, and I sincerely hope everyone here can enjoy the experiences you have had. Shopping in person is the best way to go, both for the expert opinions of the sales staff and the use of the fitting rooms. Together, they combine to eliminate buying clothes that are wrong for you. No comparison with online shopping.

bridget thronton
08-02-2016, 10:07 AM
You look quite content in your pic - a good weekend it sounds like

blackstkngs
08-02-2016, 12:48 PM
You look great Lauren and good for you!

Sounds like you had lots of fun.

:)

Sara Jessica
08-02-2016, 02:07 PM
Been to that Macy's often, located in an absolutely hideous mall that is embarking on a long overdue makeover.

I'm not surprised you were treated so well, Macy's employees have generally been top class over the years. What I'm surprised about is that they had the time to treat you so well. Macy's is typically woefully understaffed these days.

Maria 60
08-02-2016, 06:09 PM
WOW! You just put a smile on my face and I was t even there.

Lauren Richards
08-02-2016, 11:34 PM
Thank you for your wonderful comments! Reading them is like reliving the weekend.

Back to reality... or some version of it... had to make another trip to the area today on business. Arrived mid-afternoon, and during the pause between afternoon needs and an evening meeting, I ventured over to Macys in my everyday business attire of dark pants and blue shirt. Business standard stuff.

Hoped to be able to visit the sales staff who had been so generous and kind over the weekend. Walking toward the shoe department, I was met with a friendly wave from across the floor. I felt welcomed like a long-lost friend. Was likewise immediately recognized and warmly greeted in the women's clothing section on the third floor. Since they knew me as Lauren, I had a little fun and introduced myself with "Hi, I'm (name on credit card)" , and was greeted in turn with "Nice to meet you... again." All smiles.

The suggestion of a letter was wonderful, thank you. I made sure to get their names, and permission to write. They were delighted. So often only the negative gets attention.

And, yes, I certainly could use a bit more color. Next trip.

Sara, perhaps we'll bump into each other there? And, yes, the mall could use a bit of freshening up. Sadly, most malls are not aging well.

Mostly, as business brings me to the area from time to time, so shall the warmth and open hearts of the Macys staff.

And they have clothes I can wear! Going to be doing a bit of traveling soon (a different thread.. flying en femme), so I may need to make a special run this weekend to make sure I am fully prepared (and have some color!).

In the end, I think it is not so much a matter of what we wear, but how we treat people that really counts. Yep. I think that's it.

Thank you again for your wonderful comments. Makes a gurl glow. Take care to take care of you.

Lauren

OCCarly
08-02-2016, 11:54 PM
If you can stomach the language in the article linked to below, you will see that Macys has a corporate policy of tolerance toward trans folk. They fired a store detective for kicking a transgender woman out of a women's restroom in New York.

http://www.breitbart.com/texas/2016/07/25/macys-fires-catholic-over-transgender-bathroom-incident/

Lauren Richards
08-03-2016, 12:32 AM
Carly, thank you for the link. We certainly do live in interesting times.

Lauren