I got the green light!

[shellybme]

Hello Ladies,

Just got some amazing news and had to share! My wife finally accepted that I am a crossdresser and in turn has helped me to accept myself. I was really have a difficult time. She told me that it was a part of me and I was going to hurt myself trying to keep it away. She could always tell when something is on my mind and she knew I was having major anxiety. Damn you, pink fog! Anyway, I told her I would get somethings and just keep it very low key and casual. I can't wait to get some really good stuff that I was putting off for the fear of the PURGE. No more purging for me. Yay!

:D

[Krisi]

That's great but I suggest taking it slowly. Don't go out and buy an outlandish mini skirt and a pair of six inch heels.

[MartineCD]

Congratulations Shelly

Kudos to your wonderful wife. I wish you both all my best wishes on your new and more 'fabulous' future.

M x

[daviolin]

Three cheers for Shelly. Don't ya just love it, when things go your way? I remember when my wife finally threw in the towel for Daviolin. Life is grand. Enjoy Shelly. Daviolin

[chelyann]

Congratulations
just take it real slow, you dont want her to change her mind..

[Gretchen_To_Be]

Hello, Shelly

What a great day for you! Enjoy!

[Abby710]

Hi shelly,

I'm in a very similar position and agree it does feel better, also it'll help you both in the long run in terms of understanding each other, I'm lucky to have such a lovely brave woman by my side both with this and in general - sounds like you do too! Have fun and as has been said already take it slow.

Abby ��

[Sarah Louise]

That's great news, Shelly. Wives that accept us should be cherished. Actually, all wives should all be cherished, but especially those who accept us for who we are!

[jennifer0918]

So happy for you Shelly.

[Alice_2014_B]

Sounds very positive Shelly!
Really glad for you!
:)

[AmyVanessa]

That's awesome. Way to go shelly, and Mrs Shelly!

[Teresa]

Shelly,
Do take it steady and expect too much, she will still want things at her pace.

I hate to be a downer, but during my counselling my wife finally said the same thing and decided that I could openly dress with her at home, that lasted exactly 24 hours, she had a rethink and just couldn't live with it, you can imagine how my feelings went from pure elation to a severe below the belt punch.

My CDing has been a continual one step forward and two back situation, some days I don't know where I am with my wife, now we basically don't talk about it , I just work round her and get on with it.

[NicoleScott]

Don't go out and buy an outlandish mini skirt and a pair of six inch heels.

By all means wear these things if you are driven to do so, and don't if you're not. But manage where and when, to stay safe, keep her acceptance, and maintain your privacy (if that's important to you).
Crossdressers, quit telling other crossdressers what not to wear. We're not all alike.

[nikkiwindsor]

Shelly, I'm so very happy for you! Your story is very similar to mine...we are fortunate to have understanding wives...I do NOT take my wife for granted...what a love she is to accept me for who I am!

[JocelynJames]

Such great news! Many of us( myself included) remember being accepted by are SO , ourselves or others while others have yet to hit that milestone. Enjoy being the real you now!

[Jess S.]

Good for you! I am also very lucky to have a supportive SO.

[CONSUELO]

Shelly,
That is wonderful news. Just take it slowly as you have suggested you will and also perhaps you could ask her advice in selecting clothes. Sometimes we cross dressers get a bit carried away with the more "fetishistic" side of cross dressing rather than trying to look fashionable and elegant. All my best wishes to you both.

[bridget thronton]

You have an amazing spouse

[NancySue]

Congratulations, Shelly. I'm one of the ones with a helpful, supportive wife. It's best to crawl, walk, jog, run then sprint. Take it slowly. Have you bought her flowers, taken her out for a special dinner? This is a major point in your relationship. Celebrate. Treat her well and things will only get better.