Another outing

[somestimeskaren]

Last night I got all dolled up, nails, lashes, the works,sat at the computer visiting this forum for a while then sat and read for a while.When I thought it was late enough I went for a drive to the town library to drop a book off.I didn't park as close as I could have in the lot.I was wearing a pair of wedges and they are easier to walk in and I wanted to stroll a bit.Just as I got out of the car a couple came walking across the lot,I felt confident in my look so I continued on to the drop slot,they didn't even glance my way.As I was heading back to my car I noticed the shadow cast by the lot lights .I found it a bit exciting that my shadow was definitely femme.I left the library and headed to the coffee shop I went to last week.I was third in line and when I got to the order station a male voice asked what I wanted.The thought of being served by a male scared me,but as I got closer I could see a guy filling orders and a girl working the window,what a relief ,in fact it may have been the same girl as last week .She handed me my order I gave her my money hoping I wouldn't lose a nail in the exchange and waited for my change.She gave me my change smiled and said have a great evening.I had done it again.Only my second time interacting with someone while dressed.My next mission is to go to a fast food drive thru which are much busier and take longer to fill an order.I'll have to drive to the next town about 8 klms away to fulfill this mission ,less chance my car will be seen by someone who knows me,I have a distinct sticker on the back window,I've seen a few vehicles like mine but only mine has this sticker.Can't wait till next weekend,slowly getting braver.

[Micki_Finn]

Congrats. Glad all went well for you. :)

[Jill_cd]

I'm glad you had a great time! You'll get braver and want to stay out longer and longer. Not a bad thing at all, but the chances of being clocked go up. But, hey, enjoy it. You only go through life once.

[Alice_2014_B]

That is very brave.
I have yet to interact with anyone whilst out en femme. I mean aside from hanging out with others dressed up and all.
I've smiled, nodded, and mouthed, "thank you" to SA's that complimented on my dress.
:)

[JenniferR771]

True-- a cd friend and I ordered drive-through last year. Fast food drive-through--I am not so sure about that. Male voice orders the food--overdressed "female" driver pics up and pays. In some fast food outlets you are on video, am I right? Makes me wonder if they rewind the pictures later on for the late shift's late night entertainment around the french fry vats.

[ellbee]

You'll get braver and want to stay out longer and longer. Not a bad thing at all, but the chances of being clocked go up.

Definitely true.

One night you might pass, or get read but the person simply doesn't give a hoot. But the next time? Could be a completely different story. It can be a bit of a roller-coaster sometimes. Try not to let either of the extremes get to your head too much.


I honestly think it's somewhat easier these days, compared to like 15-20 years ago. Nowadays that many more people really don't care. That's not to say you won't potentially still have some pretty negative experiences, but perhaps not as frequently, and/or as harsh.


If trying to pass is really important to you, then do try to tilt the odds in your favor in any & every way possible... A lot of little things can certainly add up! And even if it simply gives them pause & leaves them wondering, sometimes that's the best you can get, and just be happy with it! :)