Sarah-RT
09-25-2016, 07:19 PM
Hey everyone, I've reappeared from myself imposed exile.
The last time I posted here as far as I recall I was attending counselling and had a psychologist visit lined up to get to the bottom of my issues.
After that visit back in June he proposed the offer of aiming to go on a regimen of anti androgens and helped me accept some personal worries of transition.
After I set up an appointment for a laser removal consultation but discovered it would be ineffective due to my hair colouration, I felt disheartened afterwards.
I had a holiday in Italy soon after and never organised to schedule the next counselling session and since have not had one. I am still in the same mental health as I was 2 months ago and have potentially gotten worse. I find I'm isolating myself somewhat from friends and family, I'm drinking solely to get drunk and I'm smoking like a trooper, worst of all I've started back to college and while it's fine now I remember last semester struggling to focus and I don't want that to come back. It's happening in work too where I get so mentally frustrated I sit on the edge of the decision to ask to leave early and go home or to call in sick from the beginning because I can't tolerate the goings on in my head.
I've found myself lately debating in my mind that I am indeed female and trying to accept that idea.my hair is getting long now and every time I look in the mirror I try to find the girl who I think should be there, sometimes I find I don't recognise myself and it's a very jarring experience to have. I'm now trying to build myself up to go for electrolysis as well because, while I can't even say I detest my facial hair because I can't trust my thoughts I know I don't like touching it or shaving it and I just don't want it.
I'm beginning to come around to the idea that at the very very least I'm not CIS because I'm happy when I can be in a comfortable position thinking of myself as female. But I so often find I can't get to that comfortable position because of fears and worries and what others think of me. I heard a lovely quote the other day that related to me ; 'surely a live dog is better than a dead lion'
I'm finding more and more that what I want is less and less to do with makeup and clothes and more to do with physicality and social interaction.
I just wanted to write this here as I find myself increasingly awkward around others and discussing my gender so I just needed a little space to say all that.
Sarah x
The last time I posted here as far as I recall I was attending counselling and had a psychologist visit lined up to get to the bottom of my issues.
After that visit back in June he proposed the offer of aiming to go on a regimen of anti androgens and helped me accept some personal worries of transition.
After I set up an appointment for a laser removal consultation but discovered it would be ineffective due to my hair colouration, I felt disheartened afterwards.
I had a holiday in Italy soon after and never organised to schedule the next counselling session and since have not had one. I am still in the same mental health as I was 2 months ago and have potentially gotten worse. I find I'm isolating myself somewhat from friends and family, I'm drinking solely to get drunk and I'm smoking like a trooper, worst of all I've started back to college and while it's fine now I remember last semester struggling to focus and I don't want that to come back. It's happening in work too where I get so mentally frustrated I sit on the edge of the decision to ask to leave early and go home or to call in sick from the beginning because I can't tolerate the goings on in my head.
I've found myself lately debating in my mind that I am indeed female and trying to accept that idea.my hair is getting long now and every time I look in the mirror I try to find the girl who I think should be there, sometimes I find I don't recognise myself and it's a very jarring experience to have. I'm now trying to build myself up to go for electrolysis as well because, while I can't even say I detest my facial hair because I can't trust my thoughts I know I don't like touching it or shaving it and I just don't want it.
I'm beginning to come around to the idea that at the very very least I'm not CIS because I'm happy when I can be in a comfortable position thinking of myself as female. But I so often find I can't get to that comfortable position because of fears and worries and what others think of me. I heard a lovely quote the other day that related to me ; 'surely a live dog is better than a dead lion'
I'm finding more and more that what I want is less and less to do with makeup and clothes and more to do with physicality and social interaction.
I just wanted to write this here as I find myself increasingly awkward around others and discussing my gender so I just needed a little space to say all that.
Sarah x