caught but confused at outcome

[sophie p]

Xmas eve at a family gathering I was in my brothers kitchen doing some bits when my sister in law comes over to me runs her hand down my leg gives me a cheeky grin and said "I know what your wearing under that" I froze and replied I don't think you do. She winked and says I will talk to you soon. I was speechless. Whether I bent over and she seen my thong or my stabbed legs from stockings I just don't know. I don't know what to do next

[GaleWarning]

Let us know what your sister in law says, next time she sees you.

[Teresa]

Sophie,
It's an interesting conversation, if she noticed maybe others did as well.

So the question is what sort of relationship do you have with your sister in law, what could she be implying with wanting to talk later ?

[mikayla1964]

Yes inquiring minds want to know what happens next...lol Now as for your sister in law goes don't beat your self up over it. I know it is worrying you but lets see if she and others saw then it was no big deal or there would have been a reaction to the incident. Secondly if she was going to make a big deal of it, I believe she would have already done so. Maybe she is just curious as to why you dress. But only you know her and we don't. I guess what I am saying is just relax and see what unfolds. My mother use to say you can't undo what's already happened but you can only build upon it. So if the foundation is already poured then build a sound and sturdy structure on it. whether it be telling her anything or not but the structure you build you will have to maintain it.. My friend I only wish you the best.

[MirandaCD]

This could be a great outcome, who knows. Either way I can't wait for the next chapter.

[Maria 60]

What is it with sister in laws? A few years ago my sister in law accused me of wearing women's earrings, because she said my ear lobes are hanging that means I wear heavy earrings and studs could never do that.
Another time she was on her way to a wedding and came to drop off her kids, for some reason when nobody was around she lifted the front of her dress and told me I wish I had the pantyhose she was wearing.
I didn't know what to say, I can't figure it out, the only person who I think knows is my wife, but I ask her all the time if she told my sister in law, she said she didn't. I guess she must have seen something. Hopefully one day I will find out, and I will share it and hopefully you will find out and share it and maybe compare notes and see what powers sister in laws have.

[Krisi]

It's impossible to really know what's going through someone else's mind.

There are men's thongs and there are compression stockings for men. What she may have seen or felt doesn't prove anything. I don't understand the " stabbed legs" thing though.

The way you tell this, it almost sounds like a come on. An invitation to do things that you shouldn't be doing with your brother's wife.

[sophie p]

I am not sure. A few years ago she asked were my ears pierced ,I just said yes I did it as a wild thing when young and no more was ever said. Part of me is afraid the other part glad maybe. Well I will be seeing them tomorrow so fingers crossed

[Julie MA]

Exciting. Like reading a little soap drama

[Judith96a]

Let us know what your sister in law says, next time she sees you.

Yes, quite! Enquiring minds need to know. Good luck!

[Dana44]

Yes inquiring minds want to know. She may be telling you she knows and may be alright with it. However, be careful not to lead her on.

[IamWren]

I'm curious as to what kind of relationship you have with your sister inlaw where she feels it's appropriate behavior to run her hands down your leg. If my brother inlaw had done that to my wife the 10 o'clock news would have been reporting of a Christmas Day brawl broke out on someone's front yard.

[Pumped]

Sounds like nothing to worry about to me. If she mentions it again, admit it. She sounds like she is cool about it. If she was going to make a big deal about it she would have done it already.

[Lana Mae]

I am interested in what transpires next! Keep us informed! Hugs Lana Mae

[Pumped]

I'm curious as to what kind of relationship you have with your sister inlaw where she feels it's appropriate behavior to run her hands down your leg. If my brother inlaw had done that to my wife the 10 o'clock news would have been reporting of a Christmas Day brawl broke out on someone's front yard.

Sounds like nothing much to me. Our family jokes around, wives will sit on other husband's laps, other teasing and clean messing around. I had two of my wife's sisters wrestle me to the floor and tickle me and kiss me all over my face. I have given my wife's sisters slaps on the butt. We are family! Some people are more upright, some more relaxed about it.

[countrygirl]

Yes, do tell.

[Tracii G]

Why worry about it?
Your sister in law shouldn't be doing things like that so she sounds like a bit of a tart.

[paulaprimo]

i don't see the big deal as of yet. they do make
thong underwear for men. now if she saw you in a bra,
that's a different story!! i still think you can have fun with this...
good luck and keep us posted! :)

[Tracy Irving]

Sounds like a Three's Company episode...

[ellbee]

It all depends: What is it a pink lacy thong? :D


Anyway, so much for the whole "Nobody notices!" thing, eh? ;)


Honestly, she probably finds it a bit odd/interesting/humorous. At least from what you've described, it sounds like she's fine with it so far.

However, is she one who likes to blab her mouth? Or make inside-jokes about stuff like this in front of others, where they might catch on? Or even the type who could "blackmail" you? :laughing:


As for how touchy-feely some families are or aren't, who cares. There's obviously a wide variance out there, with each with their own form of acceptability. Let's drop that part from this thread, please. Not really important.

[Abbey11]

From what you've written sounds like she maybe supportive....

[Sherrii]

It didn't sound like it was going to come out bad. In fact it sounded like she liked whatever she found out about your dressing. Let us know what she has t say!

[Petra1]

I don't know about anyone else but I want to hear the outcome.

[Tina_gm]

Some people are just extremely observant. Especially women. She saw something. Although I still wonder about the running her hand down your leg thing, which doesn't really sound very appropriate for an in law. My step daughter is very aware of my femininity, and has made several comments about it, and has even gone on to say that it is a good thing to just be who I am. Now, as far as I know she doesn't know the details of it, but, she definitely is very aware of my femininity that many don't observe the extent of.

[Stephanie47]

All you can do is wait. Some people notice small changes in behavior and it seems those small changes will add up. You got me curious as to the outcome.

[Ressie]

Nearly 40 years ago, somehow my little nephew knew I was wearing panties just by the print through my jeans. Kids tend to notice little things and some adults see those details too. We never know if there's a rumor going around or if we're just being paranoid. I would just keep a sense of humor about any possilbe outcomes if possible.

[Krisi]

Sounds like nothing much to me. Our family jokes around, wives will sit on other husband's laps, other teasing and clean messing around. I had two of my wife's sisters wrestle me to the floor and tickle me and kiss me all over my face. I have given my wife's sisters slaps on the butt. We are family! Some people are more upright, some more relaxed about it.

I will be looking for you and your family on the Jerry Springer TV show soon.

[Traci H]

Sophie, I read this early this morning and waited all day hoping you might supply an update today. My curiosity about this situation was peaked by your commentary. Please give us an update as soon as something happens.

[Redjezika]

The suspense of this story......Please let us know

[Jennifer_Ph]

Perhaps your brother is one of us, too?

[Nancie64]

My sister in law figured my dressing out around 6 years ago when we were in Vegas for Halloween. Questioned where I had gotten clothes for the evening. She is cool with it and says that is my choice. She even watches when she shops and than tells my SO. Don't jump the gun, just caution about behavior, you don't want a fight in the family. I have no one else in the family. I have a lady who does my sewing, she knows.

[Aunt Kelly]

We're dyin' here, Sophie!

[Sharon B.]

Really depends on whether it is your wife's sister or your brother's wife. If it is your wife's sister chances are your wife confided in her.

[AnnaBMarie]

So were you wearing garters? A few bumps under your pants would definitely tip her off. If not that, it seems like the thong was the giveaway.

[Lisa Roberts]

The suspense is killing meeee!!!

[Sister Rachel]

Sounds like she's cool with it :) Hope it goes well!

[mona lisa]

Anything new to report on this?

[MelanieAnne]

Stay tuned! Don't miss a single exciting episode.......:D

[mona lisa]

Stay tuned! Don't miss a single exciting episode.......:D

Indeed! :)

[Randy]

No one but my wife knows about me so I am most interested to learn how this turns out. Hoping for the best for you Sophie.

[sophie p]

Hi ladies. Sorry for keeping in suspense for the next encounter only happened this eve. New year's gathering. I was quiet nervous and played it safe no underdressing of any sort. It is my brothers wife we are all in our early 30s, she greeted me normally and we chatted as usual. We were having wine so after a while she we bumped into each other nd were talking away and she asked why don't I ever wear earrings, I laughed and said you never buy me any she toom out her own studs and said here I was so embarrassed and I just said not my style. So she got onto Xmas eve and asked what was I wearing this eve I laughed playing it down trying to escape it . But she insisted and told me my g-string suited me. I was so embarrassed really. She then asked what else I like to wear and asked when could she see me in a dress. She said she kinda thought I was a CD a few times. I was speechless she done all the talking and said it's cool but she wants to see asap☺

[Exris]

I dont buy this.

And I dont mean it's a fabrication. I am totally willing to accept that the events happened as transcribed.

I dont believe the sister in law "gets it" as described tho. She is doing a Sherlock. She's thrilled to have uncovered something. And it's very likely her marriage isnt great. Or not fulfilling anyway.

I have personal experience of this. Both old and recent. Dont take things at face value and dont volunteer. Or... just be yourself and make the mistakes I did. They wernt terrible choices in my own history... I am thankful I got out unscratched tho. I came rather too close to being scratched...

Trust is an issue with me. And I dont want to project my negativity onto you. I will advise caution tho if thats OK with you.

[sophie p]

Of course all input greatly appreciated. I am trying to play it down and avoid it at all cost. I don't know anything about their marriage or do I want to know i just enjoy wearing my heels and skirts anything else is a bonus☺

[mona lisa]

I have to agree with Exris on this.

Be careful.

[Aunt Kelly]

I don't believe that there is any malicious motive behind your sister-in-law's comments and questions, but that possibility does exist. Regardless, I see some landmines down that path. I mean, I don't have a brother, but if another man's wife asked to see me dressed, I'd want to know, really know, why before I'd consider sharing that with her. Might be that she is just totally cool and wants to be supportive. Might be that she thinks it's "hot". Big difference between the two.

Anyway, you simply must keep us informed about this little drama. Just be careful, sweetie.


Hugs,

Kelly

[Krisi]

Unless you want the entire family and possibly the entire community to know, drop the subject and don't talk with her about crossdressing ever again. And don't let her see you wearing a dress.

What is your brother's take on all of this?