Daytime driving/ its crazyazy

[Maria 60]

My wife suggested I need some Maria time and it wasn't happening at home. I drove her to work and got changed in the car, it's so different during the day. It felt weird putting on the wig and when I took my pants off exsposing my legs, I covered up like a virgins first look from a man. When I finally got the courage to uncover myself it was an amazing feeling, I felt my heart beating threw my bra. I looked straight ahead and did no eye contact with anybody, trucks had a nice view of my long legs as I noticed after a while when you drive for a long period your dress rides up, in which a honk from a trucker made me look down and see all my stocking tops showing. I kept more of an eye on it after that, and couldn't believe I was out for all to see. I'm not passible but I did lay the make up on thick and a bight red lip-stick helps. It was an amazing rush and I still don't believe I did it, I know it's not much for many here but this was a first for me. I got changed in a parking lot and pick up my wife and she commented on how relaxed and excited explaining my experience. I hope nobody I know seen me and I now have so much more respect for all of you that go out dressed, it must take a lot of courage. Thanks for reading.

[Tracy Irving]

Congratulations on your great day:)

[Georgina]

I drove home from my sister's house during the day. It takes over an hour. I had full dress on, including a skirt suit and overcoat, no wig or make up. It was a dull rainy day and no one noticed.

[DIANEF]

Sounds like a fun drive, had my first fully dressed daylight drive a couple of months ago and was surprised at how little notice anyone took of me, even when I stopped at the lights at a busy retail park.

[Dana44]

I am glad you had a fun day out and about. I have driven en femme most of the time during the day. And it just seems normal now. But when I have on six inch heels I like that feel and have driven for a fairly long trips that way and getting fuel and stuff and even using the fem restrooms and never had a problem.

[Lauri K]

Sounds like you are getting right into the swing of it girl !!! Good Job

I am jealous that you got honked at !!!

[Allisa]

Sounds like you had fun,now imagine the face in my avatar behind the wheel of a Ford pick-up with diamond plate tool box behind the cab and a pair of 38C's and there I am. I never did the change in the truck and dashboard vanity for my make-up but if it works for you and your out in the daylight that's great.

Opps changed my avatar.

[Helen_Highwater]

Well done for taking that step. It's, as you say, a rush the first time you do it. That feeling will subside a little each time you go out.

As for getting recognised, you're more likely to have someone recognise your car that spot it's you driving. As drivers firstly we pay little attention to those around us even when we can see into the car which is mainly through the side screens. Secondly even without a great deal of makeup, wearing a wig and some lippy can make us look little like our male selves.

I will have a friendly wager with you that it won't be long before, while on one of your drive a bouts, you stop somewhere quiet and leave the confines of the car to put heels on the ground. Roll on 2017.

[ronda]

sounds like you had a fantastic ride lots of fun congrads

[lingerieLiz]

I've driven all over the country both at night and during the day fully dressed. I much prefer daytime driving. Back in the old days with slips and longer skirts women would pull their skirts up to avoid stretching them as they sat down to swing into the drivers seat. Once in they would adjust their skirts usually allowing a bit of their slip showing. This left a beautiful view to truckers of slip and nylon clad legs. I practiced to make sure that the slip was ever present for them to view. In hot weather especially before air conditioning skirts were often raised to the point of immodesty.

[ronniegirl]

Yes driving en femme day or night can be quite exciting in the beginning...I might make a suggestion for those new to that activity and that is to pack an "emergency bag" containing a change of clothes and make up remover so that if the car breaks down, (and even the new ones do) then you can change while waiting for the tow truck to come or before getting out to change a flat tire roadside. Just a little level of security for those who may need it...

[IleneD]

OMG. This is one of my favorite things about going out. DWD! [Driving While Dressed].

I have an Infiniti convertible, so it makes it even more delicious. Drivers can literally look down into the vehicle to check out the great looking silver blonde. My green dress (in the profile pic) is my favorite for driving. I usually wear a slip with it. The dress can be pulled up with a good hem of lace slip showing; and a nice bit of thigh/stockings. I'm so bad. I shouldn't be out making a sight of myself or provoking other drivers. But good Lord, some of the few responses I've seen are priceless.

Driving down a double lane boulevard, a panel delivery truck pulled alongside my left while I sat at a light. The driver called out "Miss, do you know where 120th St is?" I knew he wasn't REALLY asking me how to get to 120th Street. He was a delivery driver and he was in the left turn lane with no possible way of going to 120th St. I gave him what he wanted and loudly replied in my normal male baritone that 120th was one mile straight ahead. What a great laugh. Maybe I should feel embarrassed???? but I don't.

[Rachelakld]

Well done, next you know you'll be stopping at a lunch bar, then having a coffee stop, then the mall.
It's not courage that gets me out, it's freedom, it's not caring about what others think, it's realizing I only have one life, so I must make every minute count.

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[Pat]

Putting on an outfit you love that you think makes you look great -- I get that. Going out for a drive -- I get that. Getting a little thrill if someone reacts to your beauty -- not what drives me, but I do get that. Purposely displaying yourself to non-consenting strangers to fuel your own prurient thrills -- really creepy; really a close brush with the predator list. To me that's a very mannish behavior that probably needs a little self-reflection.

[Krisi]

I suspect you would "pass" to most folks when driving (except perhaps in a convertible with the top down), because most of you is covered by the car and most folks (we hope) are concentrating on safe driving, not examining other drivers. I suspect your looking straight ahead and not making eye contact with anybody did more to make you stand out than if you had just acted normally.

I worry sometimes about crossdressers out driving just to drive because it seems they are so concerned with either their dressing or with being recognized that they aren't paying proper attention to their driving.

I don't really drive just to drive, but since I'm not going to walk around my neighborhood dressed, I have to drive to where I'm going. The important thing is not to think about your wig or boots or someone looking at you, the important thing is to forget about that and concentrate on your driving.

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............. Purposely displaying yourself to non-consenting strangers to fuel your own prurient thrills -- really creepy; really a close brush with the predator list. To me that's a very mannish behavior that probably needs a little self-reflection.

I don't see anything "creepy" in Maria's post. She got dressed (as a woman, something most of us do) and drove around in her car. Of course strangers saw her unless she drove around in circles on a closed parking lot. It's no different than when we walk around town, go to the park, the museum, etc. Strangers see us. We are not obligated to ask them for consent.

We can do anything we want (as long as it's legal) in public places. If it bothers anyone, they can turn their heads.

[Pat]

Sorry. I wasn't reacting to Maria's post. I was reacting to Ilene...


The dress can be pulled up with a good hem of lace slip showing; and a nice bit of thigh/stockings. I'm so bad. I shouldn't be out making a sight of myself or provoking other drivers.

Maria noted that her dress rode up while she drove. No problem, we all experience that. Sometimes other drivers react to it and, again, I don't see a problem. Doing it on purpose to solicit a reaction from strangers who are just going about their business seems dangerously close to a line (to me.) It seems different than going all floozied up into a night club where gawking is part of the deal. If you're purposely going onto the road to fulfill some fantasy, using other people as objects in your game basically, then it doesn't seem correct. I may be the only one who feels that way.

Thinking of the women I know, many have stories about getting ogled while driving and most are somewhere between amused and delighted, some joke about going out to do it on purpose, but none do.

Ilene -- I don't mean to be calling you a predator. It was just a gut reaction to a few words that you happened to use.

[Krisi]

OK, I understand.

I don't understand some of the comments about being seen driving. I have a pretty common car but I never seem to see other driver's legs or slips (women around here don't usually wear slips anyway, just jeans or shorts). For the most part I see their heads and shoulders. Maybe some boobs.

Regardless, anyone who sees you is not likely to be someone who knows you so why would it matter? And we would hope that with a wig and lipstick they wouldn't recognize you if they did know you.

[Beverley Sims]

I must admit early daytime jaunts were an Adrenalin rush for me too.

[~Joanne~]

I love driving during the day :D come to think of it, I have only drove once at night. After the adjustment to the gas and brake pedals in heels, it just becomes a drive really. I pay more attention to the road and speed limits when I am dressed, no one wants to get pulled over if it can be helped (been there , done that) for that unwanted "please step outside your vehicle" attention.

The very first time I ever went outside dressed, my SO drove and ran something over about 25 minutes into the drive. She pulled over and I got out to look (on a busy intersection) without even giving it a second thought. That's when I learned the lesson "changing bag" lol no damage was done and we on about our night.

[Tracii G]

I have lost count at how many looks from other drivers or honks from truckers I have gotten.I'm used to it and don't really think about it.
I don't go out with the intent of putting a show on for the masses I go out because I need to go somewhere.

[Teresa]

Maria,
I've been driving out to my social meetings for year now and it has been interesting in the lighter evenings traveling the thirty miles on a major road. Yes you are right hem lines do creep up when driving . I've not had any honks from truck drivers but on more than one occasion a work van has overtaken me and then slowed down to take a second look. I just smile and keep looking straight ahead.
The last time was different because we stayed over for breakfast and I drove home in the morning still dressed , it's the first time I've pulled in my drive in broad daylight. I did have to wait for a close neighbour to pass before I could.

Krisi,
I find the opposite, I take no chances when dressed, I don't drink and I watch the speed limit, I'm more concerned about leaving room for other drivers to avoid any minor collisions .

[mona lisa]

Driving while dressed is fun! :)

[Krisi]

Krisi,
I find the opposite, I take no chances when dressed, I don't drink and I watch the speed limit, I'm more concerned about leaving room for other drivers to avoid any minor collisions .

That's good for you but when I read most of the posts about driving dressed, I get the feeling that the posters aren't concentrating on safe driving. I suppose once you are used to it, it becomes normal and you go back to safe driving.

[Helen_Highwater]

I'm with Teresa on this. Okay, if truthful on my very first drives I spent time looking to see if others were looking at me but very quickly realised they weren't. Since then my aim is to get where I'm going safely and legally. No drinking which is my drab rule anyway and pay attention to the task in hand and do all in my power to stay out of the way of other drivers.

As for hem lines rising, this is one on the skills we need to learn. How to get into a car seat wearing a dress or skirt and make sure it's correctly positioned under your backside. Sitting in a car seat is little different to sitting in a seat in a lounge, restaurant or cinema. You wouldn't set out with the intention of showing stocking tops or loads of thigh.

[cdinmd206]

Oh how I love to drive while dressed and believe me I am paying much more attention to my driving than if I were in drab. However many many moons ago before police vehicles has computers in them, I was pulled over by a female state police officer after I blew through a stop sign. I had already started pulling over to the side of the road by the time she had turned her lights on. I was very nervous since I was dressed in a very short skirt that barely covered my stocking tops and garters, but by the time she reached my vehicle I had the window down and hands on steering wheel where she could see them. She politely asked if there was a reason I blew through the stop sigh to which I asked if stupidity would count. She never cracked a smile as she said NO and then asked if I had been drinking. I said no and she told me to exit the vehicle and step to the rear. I tried very hard to slide out with out showing to much as she was watching intently to every move I made. As I got to the rear of the vehicle she told me to turn around and get back in the vehicle. She took my license and registration and went back to her car. I could see her using her radio and figured she was calling other officers to inform them to stop by and have a laugh. After a few minutes she came back to my vehicle and gave me a warning ticket to which I said thank you. She then finally smiled and said have a good evening and by the way love your heels and you walk rather well in them.

[maryjanedee]

Sounds like you have fun.
I'm going out for a 5 hour drive in the morning...picking up a trailer..its winter up here so Ill be in knee high boots and skinny jeans, a bra n my forms. Depending on the weather on the way back I might try n slip into a skirt with heavy tights to keep warm.