Feeling down

[somestimeskaren]

Well tomorrow is New Years eve and I'm sitting here all dressed wearing my favorite wig and just lipstick.I'm thinking about Tomorrow wishing I were going to a New years eve celebration all madeup wearing my sexy LBD and my highest heels ready to hit the dance floor.I wish there was someone that I could live this dream with.When I was married my wife and I would always go out to ring in the new year,I never told her that I wished I could wear the sexy dresses and heels the other girls wore.There is a gay bar or club in a neighboring city and I 'm pretty sure they are having a new years eve party but I don't have the courage to go by myself.I don't know how they feel about CD's .If I had someone to go with it would be so much easier.I'll get dressed tomorrow all madeup ,LBD,highest heels and celebrate by myself once again.Maybe next year.

[LydiaL]

No need to feel down Karen. You are not alone.

Dress up as you wish. Share a pic or two here afterwards, perhaps.

It is not where you celebrate New Years', but how.

I too will be dressed as the clock rolls over to 2017. Not drunk or falling face-first on a dance floor or the tarmac.

Me, a Partee Pooper? Yup! But snug in my bed right after the bedlam takes place at Times Square.

L

[Julie MA]

I have been very accepted at gay campgrounds and clubs. Get your girl on and go party with them. Julie

[sabrinaedwards]

I have been to many gay clubs. I always call and ask if crossdressers are welcome. I have never had a negative reaction from the people or management of those clubs. I went recently to a gay bar and the proprietor called his club as "straight friendly" and I had a great time. There were bear guys there and they were friendly to me also. Have fun!
Love, Sabrina

[Ceera]

I have yet to find a gay or LGBT-friendly bar or club that has any problem with CD/TG folk going there. We're usually quite welcome. I'll be going to a dance tomorrow night at the local gay bar. I'm recently widowed (about 2 years ago), so I don't have a partner of any kind right now. Going by myself, fully dolled up, and not particularly planning on meeting anyone there or making any connection other than to have fun and dance my legs off. Last year at that same club, there were plenty of guys and girls both who were happy to dance with me, and I even got a few very nice kisses!

[immindy]

Yes < I have been to several gay bars dressed and never had an issue . You may want to drive by the area earlier in the day first and get a look at the area, and where to park, If your not familiar with that area. Just don't drink to much but have fun !

[Rachelakld]

This day will never ocure again, so make the most of it and have fun.

[Lana Mae]

Go out or stay at home? Whatever you decide be safe! I will be home in drab. Wishing everyone a happy and safe New Year!! Hugs Lana Mae

[Nikkilovesdresses]

I must say Karen, I'm with the 'take a chance and go to the dance' group. Why not push yourself to new limits?

I'd say your experience will be a direct reflection of what you put into it, so smile a lot, move around and talk to as many people as you can, and bear in mind that there's nobody there who doesn't feel self conscious- it's human nature.

Whatever you decide, a very Happy New Year to you.