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Emma
03-02-2006, 01:53 PM
I know this isnt relevant but no one else cares so here it is, My ex Boyfriend, bought a blue silk maids dress, with fish net stockins, high heels for me, anyway he wanted to take photo's of me in different positions, first standing up, then sitting down, anyway he thought it would be funny (i didnt find it amussing) to then pour a bucket of what i can describe as gunge all over me!! Anyway i didnt see the funny side so i stormed off, he later said it was a joke, so the following day when he was at work i got all of his clothes in a bin bag and threw them out!!! He now lives with someone else now!! i never want to see him again!!

I really do enjoy dressing up but not to be made a fool!!!

traceytv
03-02-2006, 02:02 PM
Well done. Nobody should be made to be a fool. You are probably better without him.

GypsyKaren
03-02-2006, 02:35 PM
Hi Emma

Good for you! I wouldn't take that garbage from anyone, and he's a real jerk for wanting to do it. You're much better off without him.

Karen

Yes I am
03-02-2006, 02:38 PM
Some people have a fetish for that kind of thing, the fact that he sprung it on you without any prior discussion shows he had a total lack of respect for you as a human being. Good on you on throwing the ******* out, stay strong.

Amelie
03-02-2006, 02:54 PM
Sorry to hear about the trouble you had with your BF, Emma.

What you say is very relevant, It shows that CDs are sometimes on the abusive end of a relationship. Some like yourself are able to deal with the situation. While some have to keep quiet and live the best way they can under harsh conditions.

Emma
03-02-2006, 03:02 PM
A big thankyou to all you who have replied xx
I would like to meet up with anyone and share the experience of dressing up futher XX anyone from the Uk, noth west , (Liverpool)? xx

bob_bobbi
03-02-2006, 03:13 PM
Hello there!

Pouring a bucket of gunge on you was a pretty mean thing to do, what was the 'gunge' exactly?

I'm from Liverpool by the way, is there a thread anywhere for finding who lives in what area? Anyways PM me if you want.

KathrynW
03-02-2006, 03:48 PM
I think this was his way of trying to get you to let him wear the maid outfit, fishnets, and heels... ;)

Jodie_Lynn
03-02-2006, 04:38 PM
Good for you Emma! Throw the creep to the street, and send him the bill for the dry cleaning too.

No one, and I mean NO ONE should have to put up with abusive behavior or language. Especially from someone who claims to care about you.

paulaN
03-02-2006, 05:51 PM
I hope that grunge didn't destroy your outfit. If not you got a maids outfit outa him anyway. And I'd say you did the right thing. maybe when he comes to his sences he'll come crawling back to you. Then you can lay down som rules.