feminine in the bedroom

[kimberly c]

Hi ladies if you are out to your SO who is more feminine in the bedroom. I like to dress in sexy lingerie for bed time fun but also love to sleep in long nightgowns. So between me and my accepting SO i tend to be in more feminine attire for bed.

[ronda]

to me the most feminine thing a woman can wear in the bedroom is nothing nighties are sexy

[VioletDoll]

For me, it's an even split.. sometimes I underdress during the day, other times not. I might want to be a bit MORE before bed, or not..
Really she doesnt have a clue who she's going to wind up in bed with..
Example, yesterday I underdressed with thighsocks, panties and a racer back cami.. that's what I went to bed with.
Night before that, I was all man with boxer briefs.
Thursday was stockings, crotchless panties, bustier and the rest of the nine yards..

[Cheryl T]

I admit it's me.
I prefer more feminine nightgowns, baby dolls, etc. She's more for comfort than for show.

[Joni T]

When we're in the bedroom there is no fantasy play. My wife is the feminine one and I am the masculine one. Pretty much cut and dried.
Jon

[Stephanie Julianna]

I wear women's satin PJ's and my wife wear flannel. In our younger years I wore the gowns while she wore flannel.

[kymmieLorain]

I definitely wear more feminine sleep wear. It can be anything from baby doll nighties to teddies to sleep set. My SO normally wears flannel. Yet she complains about me always getting sexy night wear. I tried giving her things but they are worn maybe twice. then never seen again.

Kymmie

[Marianne S]

Sometimes I've worn a silky nightie if I was sleeping on my own. The rest of the time I've always slept naked. That solves a lot of problems!

[JeanTG]

I could never get away with nighties. If I tried, we'd be sleeping in separate bedrooms in a flash. But I always wear panties to bed, with a t-shirt that could be unisex even though they are designated as men's. Panties she can live with.

[Stephanie47]

There is a difference between wearing feminine garb and femininity. I couldn't told a candle to my wife when it comes to femininity in the bedroom. If I tried to act like a woman in the bedroom I'd be sleeping in the garage. Yes, decades ago my wife and I engaged in some 'kinky' sex play with me wearing a nightgown and hosiery. However, when she figured out there was something else going on in my mind, she was totally turned off. She equates it to lesbian behavior which is something she does not appreciate in the bedroom. She has lesbian friends, but, it isn't extended to her sexual appetite.

I'll also add a woman wearing sexy lingerie is like a Christmas present. The present is to unwrap and enjoy.

[MysteryWoman]

We routinely just wear gender-appropriate PJs to bed. But on nights we're having sex we both wear silky nightgowns, panties and thigh-high stockings.

[franlee]

We share much the same taste in bedroom attire, so it is just what ever I want to wear just as she does. I do enjoy the long satin gowns though.

[biannne]

I am single. And I wear long night gown and I love satin gown.

[Laura28]

I guess it would be me , my wife loves flannel PJs i call them her suit of armor.LOL

[Tracii G]

Just panties for me I can't stand clothes bunching up every time I move.

[Antron III]

Gowns, short or long or teddies for me, PJs, short or long but always pants for her. Strangely the bedroom is the one place where there's total acceptance but no obvious gender play. I'm often confused but always grateful.

[Jaylyn]

Well at my age if we are in the mood then it's nakkidd for us and if she is in the mood she will usually put on a sexy nightie and will wear it into the tv room. That's her way of telling me to start thinking about it at bed time. If I'm in the mood welllll I'm just in the mood and ask her if she'd like sex tonight. One thing she really does not enjoy is the lesbian thing. We've tried it with me dressed and even the real thing. It was most exciting for me but not her. She will let me wear lipstick and has even told me to go put some on especially if she is in the mood. She knows I love my lipsticks and it is still a turn on for me. The attire for bed is usually me in my t shirts and her in her flannel in the colder months, in the summer she wears my t shirts also. It's usually dress and get kinky or take the t shirts off if we get in the mood after we get in bed. Now in answer to your question she is definitely more feminine in the bed.

[Tamsin Secret]

Sometimes I've worn a silky nightie if I was sleeping on my own. The rest of the time I've always slept naked. That solves a lot of problems!

If my SO ever knew, which I doubt she will unfortunately, the closest I would get is sleeping naked as I already do!

The feeling of shaved legs against the bedsheets and duvet is enough for me to feel contented. Just as well I suppose.

It's funny but I hadn't really thought about it much before unread this but if my SO did know I still think I would sleep naked. Just feel most comfortable that way.

[Evie82]

I've got a few nightgowns I love. My fave is a clingy one, but the only drawback with that is that it's more for show as it's got proper cups in it and I know I shouldn't sleep in my forms. Otherwise knickers and a strappy vest/cami does nicely. My SO likes whatever I wear anyway so it's all good :-)

[XemmaX]

not femme at all in the bed room. i can sleep with clothes on and intimacy is best done naked.

[Gabriella111]

My bf doesn't try to come off so femme, so that'd be me. But I have always been one to sleep naked, as I hate the feeling of clothing bunching when I'm trying to sleep. And as a gg, it's good to let the lady bits breathe. That said, since my bf has a pantie fetish, I almost always sleep in panties for him. He sleeps fully clothed, which would burn me up. He wears panties, leggings, and a girly night shirt. The leggings come off for the intimate times. Sometimes more.

[Allison2006]

I'm more likely to wear lingerie to bed than my wife, and I own more lingerie items as well.

[Karen RHT]

Tried to get femme in the bedroom years and years ago. Got thrown out so fast, didn't know what hit me.


Karen

[Robin777]

I wear satin nightshirts to bed and when were in the mood I like to wear a nightie which comes off before any thing happens.

[Rhonda Jean]

For many years now I've tended toward practical and comfortable. Panties and an oversize T-shirt. Back when I was married I'd say we were equally feminine. Long and short gowns, babydolls, negligée's. For many years I thought she thought all that was as sexy as I thought it was. For decades she never let on that she didn't like it as much as I did. For 10 years, though, I slept in big curlers as often as not. She never did. From my view of it now, all these years down the road, I'm surprised she tolerated it. She must have really loved me back then! I probably shouldn't have taken advantage of that fact. At the time, though, I didn't realize that I was.

[Amanda Katharine]

I sleep in hose most every night and a nightie about 50% of the time. My fiancée sometimes will bug me to put my hose on if I forget to put them on. She loves rubbing against my legs in my Wolfords.

As for intimacy, she likes me dressed in lingerie and sometimes fully dressed so either she can undress me or I can strip for her. She also calls me by my femme name in bed and will talk to me as a woman. I can't remember the last time my male name was used in the bedroom.

[CarolBrown]

I have short and long satin nighties for bed and usually wear leggings with the short nighties...

[SharonDenise]

I've been wearing nightgowns ever since my daughters finally moved out of the house. That was probably about 15 years ago. My wife was very supportive of my crossdressing activities. Unfortunately, the better half of me died close to three years ago. I wear whatever I please around the house now.

[Kristīne89]

I slep naked...

[sometimes_miss]

I was out to my ex wife for the last few years of marriage. She didn't want me wearing fem stuff to bed, and expected me to remain the dominant person sexually as well.

[Beverley Sims]

I have worn shortie pj's, nighties and satin pj's since I was twelve, the only time that that I missed was for a brief visit to hospital for prostate cancer removal where they supplied the hospital gown.

The joke there it was a pink one. :-)

No they didn't know..I don't think.

[Swottie]

I have a far bigger collection of sexy under things than the wife does, maybe 5 times more. Also all of her underwear, except a few that I bought her, are plain practical everyday cotton items, whereas all mine are frilly lacy items. My internal thinking is I don't get to wear pretty outter clothes, so I'm compesating with pretty underwear.

However, when it's time for some fun, we would both put on the laciest lingerie for each other. :o I feel so lucky.

[LydiaG]

I am definitely more feminine. She usually sleeps naked. I am almost always in lingerie or a tank top, panties, and leggings. I just love waking up all feminine beside her.

[sweetdreams]

I wear panties 24/7. Sometimes I will sleep in a nightgown or baby doll depending on how I'm feeling (usually doesn't take much to get me into one).

As for our intimate moments, it varies. Wife prefers naked but is generally ok with me wearing some things (i.e. stockings). Last Sunday I had a strong urge to wear some girly things (underdress). We have two grown children (boys) living with us who don't know about my hobby, so options are limited. I put on stockings, garter belt, panties of course, bra and cami and spent the day feeling feminine. The boys spend most of their time in the basement at their computers so I generally don't wear any socks and leave my stocking feet exposed (I have socks in my back pocket if I need to cover up quickly). As the day progressed the sexual tension between my wife and I started building. She sensed my heightened arousal due to being dressed and she played along (a little taunting back and forth). By the time we finished dinner, up to the bedroom we went and it was game on. The only thing I took off were my jeans and shirt. It was pretty incredible all-in-all.

[kayegirl]

We both wear the same nighties, although not the same colours at the same time. That might have to change at some time in the future now that BHS has disappeared from our towns and cities.

[happy2cd]

Definitely me. She is happy to wear T-shirt and shorts. I want a long nightgown.

[Kiwi Primrose]

We both wear "nighties" but mine is usually more feminine and I prefer full length, even in summer, while she wears short ones in summer.

[Lacy PJs]

...now that BHS has disappeared from our towns and cities.

OK, I give up; what exactly is BHS?

Lacy PJs

[Jennifer in CO]

she does T shirts and flannel, I do gowns, teddies, shorties. Always have...last 40 years anyway...

[Nigella]

OK, I give up; what exactly is BHS?

Lacy PJs


It was a UK high street store British Home Stores

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

So as not to try to be more sexy than my wife we have bought identical nighties and wear them often. She does get mad sometimes when I try to look more feminine, she always says "I am the woman here". It is fun trying to keep up with her though.

[Mickitv]

I have some really cute silk PJs. The top is long enough to be used as a nightshirt. I just love the feel of them.

[Alice B]

with out question. Me. I always wear nightgowns. My wife pajamas

[pantyhoselvr kendra]

For me long satin nightgown, satin panties and bra. My wife, most nights, cute little nightie and crotchless pantyhose. YUM

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For me long satin nightgown, satin panties and bra. My wife, most nights, cute little nightie and crotchless pantyhose. YUM

[leotard fan]

sometimes a body. rarely with panyhose...

[Steph65]

My SO and I are the same. we will some times wear similar attire and other times we are skin to skin.

[Pantiesnhose]

I wear panties and hose to bed every night. My wife is usually in a sleep shirt.

[audreyinalbany]

in the winter I"m in spandex capris & Tee: she's in flannel and sweatshirt

[Sarah S]

It`s me who more feminine. I love to wear sexy lingerie and nightgowns to bed.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Kimberly:hugs:, Years ago it was her nightgown and a fancy negligee for me,

Now it is just a tee shirt and my light control panty girdle...:daydreaming:...

[Robertacd]

It is defiantly me, but I am more "into" in than here. She is dressed more for comfort and warmth in bed, while I love the classic nylon night gowns. But I am having an effect on her. I lost some weight (again) and gave her a few of my silky night gowns that are too big for me now. She was like "OMG, Why haven't I been wearing these all my life? They are so luxurious feeling". :)

[Trione]

Well the late wife and I both enjoy lingerie so we would sometime switch rolls other time we would dream about being 2 gal or 2 guys

[sweetdreams]

I was just doing some reading and came across a phrase that made me laugh and think of this thread.

"What's on the TV tonight?" :daydreaming:

[Sissy_Michelle]

Kimberly,

Oh yes this came up early in our relationship. Panties and a nightgown is okay. Nothing more, or she gets jealous... So we agreed that she lays out what she wants me to wear to bed. And that has worked out the best for us.

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Michelle