Kelly DeWinter
03-13-2017, 05:31 PM
There is a Sticky Thread called "tips to a SO's acceptance link below:
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...highlight=tips (https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?198824-Tips-to-an-SO-s-acceptance&highlight=tips)
This could almost be a step program
This thread has 9 great tips for relationships.
I was thinking it would be beneficial to take each one expound on Why you did not follow the advice and where you were in the PAST, where you are in the PRESENT and where expect to be in the FUTURE
Please limit your replies to the Topic "DO Appeal to our femininity:" and NOT to the other topics in the StickyDO Appeal to our femininity:Explain to her the feeling that you get when you dress. Its similar to how when we dress up for an event or wear heels. When most women dress up they feel Sexy. Confident. Ready to take the world. Find something about how we like to feel when we dress and when you tell her appeal to that need or feeling. For us it was luca telling me he thought that it was "fun" to dress up and he wanted to be included in that idea of "fun".
Please use this format when replying.
PAST -
PRESENT-
FUTURE-
CONCERNS-
PAST - I have always felt better about myself while dressed but the idea of telling anyone about any aspect of dressing was not even a remote possibility so I hid in the back of the closet
PRESENT - We talk about everything so she knows how I feel, she even comments that I sound and act more confident while enfem. In fact we discuss the ups and downs of what it means to each of us to be female. Sometimes Jeannie gives me the "Oh really look" when I say something stupid.
FUTURE - to keep communications open and continue to respect her opinions while speaking mine. I also hope my friends and family will be more open to discuss things without being judgmental.
CONCERNS - My concern is that as I open up to friends and family, that I will face ridicule.
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...highlight=tips (https://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?198824-Tips-to-an-SO-s-acceptance&highlight=tips)
This could almost be a step program
This thread has 9 great tips for relationships.
I was thinking it would be beneficial to take each one expound on Why you did not follow the advice and where you were in the PAST, where you are in the PRESENT and where expect to be in the FUTURE
Please limit your replies to the Topic "DO Appeal to our femininity:" and NOT to the other topics in the StickyDO Appeal to our femininity:Explain to her the feeling that you get when you dress. Its similar to how when we dress up for an event or wear heels. When most women dress up they feel Sexy. Confident. Ready to take the world. Find something about how we like to feel when we dress and when you tell her appeal to that need or feeling. For us it was luca telling me he thought that it was "fun" to dress up and he wanted to be included in that idea of "fun".
Please use this format when replying.
PAST -
PRESENT-
FUTURE-
CONCERNS-
PAST - I have always felt better about myself while dressed but the idea of telling anyone about any aspect of dressing was not even a remote possibility so I hid in the back of the closet
PRESENT - We talk about everything so she knows how I feel, she even comments that I sound and act more confident while enfem. In fact we discuss the ups and downs of what it means to each of us to be female. Sometimes Jeannie gives me the "Oh really look" when I say something stupid.
FUTURE - to keep communications open and continue to respect her opinions while speaking mine. I also hope my friends and family will be more open to discuss things without being judgmental.
CONCERNS - My concern is that as I open up to friends and family, that I will face ridicule.