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HollyGreene
03-14-2017, 08:03 PM
Just went to the supermarket (in guy mode) wearing womens jeans. Ok, jeans are unisex, but these are definitely cut for women, so I also wore my hip and bum pads to make them fit better. To me, from the waist down, I definitely looked feminine. Womens T-shirt top under my jacket. Nobody so much as looked in my direction.

All those years of worry, wondering whether I dare to go out dressed, and whether I would pass as female. Then when I openly wear womens clothes as a guy, nobody bats an eyelid.

And to celebrate, I bought some lace undies while I was there. (had to be done!)

Majella St Gerard
03-14-2017, 08:17 PM
From experience I can say nobody cares what you wear. It's a long slow process but when you get comfortable you will look back and wonder why you were so apprehensive. Good luck on your journey.

Victoria Demeanor
03-14-2017, 08:40 PM
You go girl. Good for you Holly glad you took the step.

Beverley Sims
03-15-2017, 05:32 AM
Well it is good practice for things to come.

Lana Mae
03-15-2017, 07:05 AM
Small steps on the journey moving forward! Congrats on moving forward! Sometimes more and sometimes less but I am always underdressed except at work! Hugs Lana Mae

deebra
03-15-2017, 07:23 AM
Holly I did the same thing yesterday, went shopping in several stores and walked the mall in guy mode wearing tight boot cut girl jeans and ankle booties and of course panties. Ran into a friend and talked for a while, he didn't have a clue my clothes were female. Another time a male friend thought I had on cowboy boots. Majella said it right, however in contradiction to what has just been said I posted a while back how I went to and upscale mall one morning wearing black boot cut jeans and black high heel swede boots mostly covered by the jeans (this should have blended) and half the mall (women and men) outed me. I really didn't see that much difference in the two outfits, both should have blended????? So what I have learned from this is wear what you think will allow you to blend and see how those you pass react and let this determine what outfit you will wear next time. Then some will say wear any damn thing you want and ignore any looks or stares, women have mastered this a long time ago, we are lagging behind. The more they see crossdressing they will just start to accept it. Remember it was the clothing designers and manufacturers that trained each gender what they should wear, most of the public is not smart and confident enough to make individual decisions that stray from the norm and they like for themselves.

Tracii G
03-15-2017, 08:40 AM
Good for you Holly.
Now you have seen nobody cares what jeans you wear.

LIKETODRESS2
03-15-2017, 02:13 PM
The more you do it the easer it gets. I was scared the first few times I wore my girl jeans in public. Now I wear them pretty all the time except to work

JoannaCD
03-15-2017, 02:52 PM
Good for you Holly.
Now you have seen nobody cares what jeans you wear.

That is so true so we might as well opt for the lighter stretchier comfortable ones. I did the supermarket thing today as always although I added lipstick just to enjoy the taste.

Angie G
03-15-2017, 03:59 PM
Well congrats Holly your on your way hun. I go out alot in womens jeans and it feels so good.:hugs:
Angie

jeanine38
03-15-2017, 05:18 PM
Cool!

I don't pass nor will try to pass. However I still enjoy wearing clothes from the other side of the aisle. Jeans, a neutral top, etc and it works for me. To each their own

Karyn Marie
03-15-2017, 09:05 PM
Congrats Holly....I bought a pair of boot cut stretchy jeans recently and started wearing them out, even to work on dress down Fridays. I have a pair of black hiking boots that I wear on occasion with my jeans, but bought a pair of ankle booties with a two inch heel and started wearing them with my jeans. It felt so good, and no one gave me a second look, I bought another pair, and have ordered a pair from Woman Within. Women's jeans are all I wear now. I have since bought some oversized polo shirts from Woman Within, and wear them as well with my jeans and booties. I love it. I am now working on wearing dresses and skirts out and about. Yumm!

:battingeyelashes: :daydreaming:

Steph70kk
03-16-2017, 11:49 AM
I wear womens pants in public very often ... usually skinny pants with back or side zippers (the attached camel pants but in black). I once had a TSA officer confused because my pants had no front zipper!!! Honestly, no one cares, and if they do, who cares. Most important is that you are happy with who you are and the way you dress!

Tracii G
03-16-2017, 12:07 PM
Haven't seen side or back zipper pants in a long time.

JocelynJames
03-16-2017, 12:58 PM
I almost always have women's skinny jeans on (dkny) on grocery day. I love the side zip pants( have a few pair) no back zip but wouldn't rule them out!

cosmolovesph
03-17-2017, 02:01 PM
ALL my jeans are women's, some are more obvious but I do not own any men's jeans. Yes I have some slacks as I haven't ventured over there too much yet as I don't have to wear them often.

Christine Eriksson
03-17-2017, 02:19 PM
Well that was interesting! I have been thinking about the same my self. So far I have only walked from my apartment to the laundry room in tight jeans and "guy mode" ...and that was thrilling enough lol. But now you give me confidence to expand my zone.
By the way, a male colleague just showed me today his new stretch jeans. Maybe we are going toward unisex fashion after all lol.

HollyGreene
03-17-2017, 06:54 PM
Glad my experience has inspired you, Christine.

By the way, I've worn stretch jeans for men since I was at university, about 30 years ago, so they are nothing new.
They aren't as close fitting as womens' ones, and of course they are more generous in the front.

BLUE ORCHID
03-17-2017, 08:43 PM
Hi Holly:hugs:, I also love the look and feel of my ladies jeans with the slim legs

I rarely ever wear my Guy jeans anymore...:daydreaming:...

Traci H
03-18-2017, 08:51 AM
I wear women's jeans virtually all the time now. Barely can stand the weight, bulk and girth of guy pants and save then for nasty jobs, etc that I don't wish to expose my nice girl jeans to. I wear women's pants for work as well. These are either black kakki style or black jeans on casual Friday's. My wife has commented that someone at work might notice, but no one has. They really don't look any different other than fit. I had one advantage in that I also lost weight during this time, so people expected that my clothes would fit better.....and I saw to it that they did.

The back and side zipper pants really intrigue me. I shop the thrift stores. (Basically a cheapskate I am. Also soothes my soul knowing I am not wasting family funds on my hobby that my wife does not like.) and I have found that beyond the jeans sections, the other color pants are a mix of jean and dress styles, and there are some side zippered pants in there. I have not yet found a pair that fit well but have not looked that much to be honest. This conversation has reignited my desire to obtain such. I find the thought of having the zipper on the side or back very feminine for whatever reason. I recall that many of that style of pant will have no pockets at all, making for a very smooth profile, and also possibly requiring one to carry a purse. Oh, how terrible! :-). Can't wait to get back to Goodwill!

Amber83
03-18-2017, 02:37 PM
I wore women's boot cut jeans and a woman's coat out last Saturday to an upscale mall, and no one looked at me any differently. Just got to wear it with confidence. Baby steps until I go out fully dressed.

PeggyNell
03-18-2017, 03:48 PM
I have one pair of girl jeans they are skinny jeans. I only wear them when I go out with friends. I don't really believe nobody has notice, they haven't said anything thing to me. I am wearing them tonight with a Cami with a guy shirt on top, in guy mode. I have not had the opportunity to get more women's jeans that fits less fitting. And yes they feel much better that guy jeans! The weight and the stretch fit is much! I definitely want to blend guy and girl clothes together. Good luck on your future ​outtings

Traci H
03-20-2017, 11:01 PM
Ok, that talk of back and side zippered pants peaked my interest. I stopped at Goodwill the other day and cruised through the black pants section. Those are all sorts of pants fron jeans to dress. I found three pairs to try, one back zipper and two side zip. Unfortunately none of them fit. I left disappointed. I can say however, even zipping up that back zippered pair gave me a bit of a thrill. I am going to have to continue my search.

sharonsdream
03-21-2017, 09:51 AM
I have worn girl jeans almost exclusively since november. A couple of pair from Goodwill I wear to work as a mechanic. And two pair of new ones from Walmart. Nobody has noticed including my wife. They are soooo comfortable. Have even worn them to church a couple of times.

Ashlee
03-21-2017, 02:16 PM
Just went to the supermarket (in guy mode) wearing womens jeans. Ok, jeans are unisex, but these are definitely cut for women, so I also wore my hip and bum pads to make them fit better. To me, from the waist down, I definitely looked feminine. Womens T-shirt top under my jacket. Nobody so much as looked in my direction.

All those years of worry, wondering whether I dare to go out dressed, and whether I would pass as female. Then when I openly wear womens clothes as a guy, nobody bats an eyelid.

And to celebrate, I bought some lace undies while I was there. (had to be done!)

I've done this a few times now as it's winter...I wore the wifes used panties, bra, pantyhose, shoes, jeans and sweater but wore my male winter coat over it all and no one batted an eye. I loved it!

susancheerleader
03-21-2017, 02:58 PM
I always wear women's jeans. I also very often wear women's sweaters. (I wear more but it gets complicated.)
Frankly, wearing women's jeans.
No one gives a crap.

Dana44
03-21-2017, 03:04 PM
I have worn women jeans for years. But my fem skinny jeans are awesome as well as the jeggings. I wear them out shopping. However I have male jeans for mowing and doing manual work as well mechanical jobs. I never want my fem clothes to get greasy. Indeed when wearing my women jeans I have panties on and typically a feminine top.

Mickitv
03-21-2017, 03:11 PM
Congratulations. I have worn feminine attire almost daily now and although I some stares have not received any bad feedback. I just love it and it feels wonderful.

Lana Mae
03-21-2017, 04:37 PM
I wear woman's jeans a lot with panties and woman's sneakers! My daily go to outfit! No one notices or says anything! Hugs Lana Mae

HollyGreene
03-23-2017, 06:45 PM
Just did the supermarket thing again. Womens jeans with hip and butt pads as before,, but this time I wore a woman's top. I had what I can only describe as a unisex fleece jacket over the top, and unisex canvas shoes, so everything I wore could easily be classed as womens.
Again, no reaction, no strange looks. Really, nobody is interested. They're more bothered about what they are going to have for dinner than looking at other people. They'll only look if something is really out of the ordinary.

Any of you who have never been out should maybe try this if you really want to go out. It's a great confidence booster.

2BArianwen
03-23-2017, 09:01 PM
That's my goal! One day......

Rian

Rachel137
03-25-2017, 03:13 PM
I wear women's jeans all the time. They are pretty tight and fit me well.
They tend to cling to my ass and flair out because they are boot cut. To me it seems so obvious that I am wearing girl jeans BUT nobody seems to notice.
Its so weird I feel like I am screaming hey look at this sissy over here wearing girl pants. But luckily since I rather just wear what I like and feel good in nobody seems to notice. Or at least they don't say anything I can tell.
Love the way they feel!!

Sharon B.
03-25-2017, 03:24 PM
It has been a while since I have gone to the grocery store in women's jeans but when I do I am always under-dressed as a woman with jeans, a woman's top and light makeup on. I have gone there with a woman's billfold that I carry inside a coat pocket.

Shely
03-25-2017, 04:01 PM
Me too. I am phasing out my men's jeans, except for garage work. They just don't feel right now that i have made the change. I bought some jeggins the other day and just love how they fit/feel, don't know exactly when i will get to wear them in public though. My SO has not said anything bout the jeans and i am not sure if she has noticed or not, but the jeggins is a different story. But how they turn me on.

Lacey86
04-13-2017, 02:32 PM
I have not tried out women's jeans yet. Only dresses and skirts. I love the idea of mixing in some more feminine clothes in my regular wardrobe. I am always worried that people close to me will notice a change... I've had people ask why I was wearing so much as a nicer button down instead of my usual male drabs...
These days the jeans are getting quite unisex and I wonder if I could find something tighter/more feminine that I could wear with nobody saying anything...
My wife has said I need to dress nicer overall and I won't get as much notice when I wear something a little nicer.
I've spent all my life worried that people would catch me so I suppose I typically over compensate...
Maybe need to do some shopping soon.

SometimesKairi
04-13-2017, 02:34 PM
Bit confused as to the difference between women and men jeans.

Lacey86
04-13-2017, 02:38 PM
I think they're getting more and more unisex but in my mind these might be differences.
they are cut differently , they shape your posterior differently..different room up front...
the real fancy designer women's jeans may have designs or more fancy things on the posterior pockets. (Although I have seen tons more men's jeans in recent years with "fancy" bedazzled type stuff on the rump.)

SometimesKairi
04-13-2017, 02:46 PM
Thanks :)
A huge difference between trousers and skirts then haha :)

Rebecca60
04-14-2017, 07:28 AM
The few times that I've worn women's jeans was very different fit.. Trying to find one that fits right is tough... Got no butt. Lol..