What do you think should I do it? short shorts and lacy cami for a night walk.

[redtea]

On a scale of 1-10, This outfit is like a 9.5.

The only way it could get worst is if I added knee socks and a heart choker to it.

Today I already went outside wearing colorful leggings and a second time wearing white knee length helium shorts that partially exposed my black panties due to being thin fabric.

Both times wearing a womens black T shirt that was quick dry.


Now I'm sitting here in dark denim short shorts and a camisole (shaved legs) contemplating on walking outside. It feels kind of nice hitting a new wall that is much tougher than the others. I feel as though i could do anything tomorrow at the mall if i break this wall right now and be a total exhibitionist tonight.

By anything I mean ask a SA at victoria secret if she thinks these will fit me while holding them against my waist. eating chinese food with my thong partially exposed in the food court with my pink bag on the table, and get a pair of womens running shoes all while wearing a pair of womens skinny jeans.

I was given a week alone to be as crazy as possible, A rare opportunity that I want to use to it's fullest.


I want to humiliate myself so much that flirting with girls, making eye contact, and approaching them won't feel awkward anymore.

[docrobbysherry]

Sounds pretty much like u want to be outed when out, Redtea.

But, without photos u mite sound like a hooker but look like my granny!?:straightface:

[redtea]

@docrobbysherry

Oh man I actually did it, But i wore a sweater over my camisole. It was my first time wearing something promiscuous outside. I have worn jeans, knee length yoga shorts and leggings with lots of horizontal lines on them.

I started my walk through a neighborhood where nobody saw me, It's a route I take to "break in" embarrassing clothes in public. I have also discovered that the initial walking out the front door is the worst part and the longer I spend outside, The easier it is to forget that I look pretty flipping gay. I mean I had just shaved my legs for 45 minutes making them nice and smooth so id get the full effect.

I then walked down a well lite main road with only 2 cars passing, then I decided to up the anti a little bit because I was feeling brave and walked near the bar seen street with a good 10 people out and about about 50 feet away.

On my way to another turn I started to walk home, I felt like I was being too afraid and decided to unzip my sweater and reveal the lacy front of my dark red cami. I was going to take my sweater off and walk the last 2 blocks completely femme to make the trip worth it but a car went zooming to the light up ahead. Idk what it was but I just felt like this car in particular was going to be THE CAR that "sees me". The car then takes a left turn down the hill I was on and saw my sissy outfit, unzipped sweater revealing a feminine looking upper body.

The car then double honked me. Finally After all this time I get cat called and a delicious dose of humiliation.
I have a goatee on my face so I don't think they confused me for a girl. They were honking cuz they knew I was being devious in a city where devious barely exist.
That person just made my night, my week, my year.

Maybe tomorrow night I will try^ to wear my short Volleyball shorts for a night walk :daydreaming:
Maybe I will get the balls to walk through downtown.

[Tracii G]

Don't be surprised if something bad happens because you are asking for it.
You are more of an ehxibitionist than anything.
You will get a wake up call you can count on it.
The one thing that new CDers think its safe is strolling around a park or downtown late at night.
Its a great way to get in trouble with the law and people that intend to do you harm are out at that time.

[redtea]

@Tracii G :doh:

[Helen_Highwater]

I have to go with what Traci said. You're, I was going to say breaking all the safety rules, but I think shattering them is a better term.

Without a doubt you're putting yourself in harms way. A drive by horn honk could easily turn into something much worse, think target for tonight. Facing our fears is one thing. Ignoring all clear and present dangers is something else totally. Please rethink your strategy before you get seriously hurt.

[Jenny22]

Hey, Red. You're really fouling up (to be kind), to a TEA!! Goatee? Sexily clad? Promiscuously presenting, publicly? There are thousands of us who do our best to present and blend as nicely feminine as we can so that the normals accept us as good people, unusual, but good. If you must behave as you did, do so in PRIVATE!!

[Teresa]

Redtea,
If you sleepwalk you'd be doing it in a nightie, so maybe you could make out that's what you're doing.

I'm not sure what you're trying to achieve dressing that way, it may be fun , I suppose it depends what you want out of your dressing but I'm not sure of trying to shock people is the way to achieve acceptance . You may not eventually feel awkward but I'm sure people around you will feel like it.

Most of us want to pass as females, so what are you trying to pass as ? You're entitled to dress as you choose, maybe you should consider other members of the TG community who may have to pass by after you. Once gay bashing starts it can get out of hand, the same can go for members of the TG community, think hard about your behaviour it can have repercussions on others.

[Tracii G]

I tried to help but just got blown off so at this point I don't care what happens.

[sharonsdream]

TraciG is right. The latter at night and the more resque the dress the bigger the chance of something happening. Something bad. The best thing would be the police. They look for something out of place and check it out. The latter the more curious. However they are doing their job. That job can be to protect you from yourself. Sometimes we are young, dumb, and stupid and need a guardian. Learn the hard way or listen to wiser people.

[Stacy Darling]

Tracii G

We are not all the same and my nail polish is maple for a reason

Come bash me!
I'm up for it!

[Jodi]

I agree with Tracii. She is not trying to bash anyone. she is being honest and forthright in her opinion. Going out late at night dressed provocatively is asking for bad things to happen.

It is best for newer cd's to listen to the more experienced people.

jodi

[Sandin Meknickers]

Yeah I don't think common sense is bashing either. But then lots of people go out like that no issue. You don't see their bodies being dragged out of the brook on the 6 o clock news while you're having your supper.

[Dana44]

I agree with Tracii,, At night it gets pretty unsafe out there. I remember a few gals that were out at night and hollered that they were getting raped and we had to go and break it up and called the police. Bad scene. So girls be very careful a night.

[Lana Mae]

No, like the girl with her brains bashed in by a transphobic lover who thought he would be looked upon as gay! Right, Sand! Know that there is a lot of hate out there! Some of those out there don't need an excuse, they just kill! Wishing wisdom and safety to all! Hugs Lana Mae

[andreanna]

Redtea. sounds like you want to be seen and possibly not going to be a good ending, unless you are trying to be seen as promiscuous or a hooker. Sorry, darling but I am going to agree with the majority of the opinions here.

[Anne K]

Heed Tracii's advice! It's obvious that you have not crossed path with evil. Keep doing what you are doing and that day will come. There are members in this Forum who have seen and experienced the very danger you are taunting. I hope you can learn from them. I wish you well. Peace....

[BrendaPDX]

While I understand the excitement, please, please be careful. I don't want to hear about you on the evening news. Be smart, stay safe, and enjoy. Brenda

[Nikkilovesdresses]

I want to humiliate myself so much that flirting with girls, making eye contact, and approaching them won't feel awkward anymore.

Interesting way to go about confidence-building. I look forward to learning whether it works.

[IleneD]

Obviously, RedTea;

Much more information is required before we can make such an assessment.
First and foremost, PHOTOS! How do you expect any of the Members to make a decision without knowing how cute and adorable is your shorts/cami ensemble. Photos are a must.
Second, what is the location, state and general situation with the neighborhood. There's some tough neighborhoods where I might not walk dressed head to toe in body armor. Is it safe? Is it upscale, snotty and judgmental? And do you really give a ratsazz about what these neighbors even think.

But dear.... we're dying to see the outfit. Until then, my only advice is: If the feeling comes over you, it must be right. Go for that walk.

[Jean 103]

Instead of your nighttime outings try going to a drug store and buying makup. Bright lights, standing in line, questions from SA' s. Once you can do this you should be able to handle anything. It's much safer than walking around in the dark.

[Sissy_in_pink]

Personally I would never walk the streets in male mode must less crossdressed at night, as night time is the most dangerous time for rapists, muggers and the like, you would be better off going for a drive to a more populated area.
I myself go for 5-10k walks early in the morning like about 6am, as most people out and about at that time are more interested in getting to work rather than what I'm wearing, which is basically gym gear with wig and makeup. I have been doing this for about 2 or more years now without any problems.

[Tracii G]

I would love to see pics too.
How are we supposed to know what she looks like?
We are here to help after all.
Its been 3 days I hope nothing bad has happened.