barbara gordon
05-04-2017, 01:53 AM
so Today I had a manicure and pedicure , partly inspired by a recent post about pedicures ok or not post. I Went through it . Brought my own essie colors . I ended up having the manicure next to a young girl about 9 0r 10 years old , that was potentially awkward , but no one batted an eye , not me nor her ,nor any one else in the very busy salon . Then while at the drying area , i Sat next to a very (very) beautiful woman who chased up with me about the colors i picked and how she can find them .
well that was , great .
Next I met up with 6 other girls for a fancy dinner in the lower east side nyc . we had a great dinner , took lots of pictures and then went to another place that warlike an old speak easy bar . here is where it got real for me ... we were there for a half an hour and in walesd an old friend of mine from the regular drab boy world . THIS GUY ACTUALLY INTRODUCED ME AND MY EX WIFE TO EACH OTHER ! I had to think fast and decide if I would try to talk to him or avoid him .. I chose to go right to him and start talking . well we reconnected after 15 years lapse. I came out to him in thse realest way . I thanked him for having such a good influence on my life .... his response was so comforting and accepting . He said that he was probably more ok with it than I was . I e : he was easier with my status tham i am . (!)
That was the one of most profound thing I have ever heard about coming out to a friend. so reassuring and a comfort .
We talked upload stories and traded contact info . I will call him asap later this week and stay in contact. coming out was easier than i thought with this one very important person .
well that was , great .
Next I met up with 6 other girls for a fancy dinner in the lower east side nyc . we had a great dinner , took lots of pictures and then went to another place that warlike an old speak easy bar . here is where it got real for me ... we were there for a half an hour and in walesd an old friend of mine from the regular drab boy world . THIS GUY ACTUALLY INTRODUCED ME AND MY EX WIFE TO EACH OTHER ! I had to think fast and decide if I would try to talk to him or avoid him .. I chose to go right to him and start talking . well we reconnected after 15 years lapse. I came out to him in thse realest way . I thanked him for having such a good influence on my life .... his response was so comforting and accepting . He said that he was probably more ok with it than I was . I e : he was easier with my status tham i am . (!)
That was the one of most profound thing I have ever heard about coming out to a friend. so reassuring and a comfort .
We talked upload stories and traded contact info . I will call him asap later this week and stay in contact. coming out was easier than i thought with this one very important person .