Stadium Event en Femme?

[IleneD]

Lord help me.... :battingeyelashes:

Went to the major league ballpark this evening. A guy group thing (no one knows; and heaven forbid if they did). A good night out.
BUT!.... it's the first time I've been to the stadium since I began to seriously crossdress. I almost forgot. The women. Scores of beautiful women in beautiful clothing. I could not keep from people watching, and it was magnificent.

At one point I was so entranced by my "I would look so good in that." gaze, my heart was mildly racing and I grew flush enough for one of the men in the group to ask if I was OK. [It was a tall blond in a tan/floral summer dress w heeled sandals. Gorgeous flow and fit to the dress.] I was tortured the entire evening. The stadium turned out to be a great place to watch great summer fashion, but it left me dying to get dressed.

I am seriously considering attending a (major league) baseball game dressed en femme. First, a summer skirt would be the perfect cool garment for a summer evening. I'm not sure I can get anyone to attend with me, but I am intrigued with the possibility of dressing up (not passable up close) and going to a game.

Q: Have any of you gone to a major stadium event en femme? What did you wear and what was it like? (Age old question), what did you do about the public restroom situation? And [weird question], do you think there's a huge hazard of being photographed in public and having it show up on the web; kind of a "People of Walmart" photo? Probably not any more risk than any other place, but interesting to add.

[jennifer0918]

Mimi Marks once stated if you want to pass as a transgender woman go to Wrigley field and if you don't get clocked you pass. That's a tough one for me,but have fun doing it enjoy yourself,I recently went to a game here in town and noticed a family restroom, maybe you could use that one if they have at that venue your planning to attend. That will be a huge step for me,maybe a football game in the winter for me all covered up keeping warm and maybe no one will see me .

[Melissa in SE Tn]

Loved reading your thread. You expressed many of my same observations while attending Braves games & UT football games. The women are incredibly beautiful and the clothes that they wear are a cd's dream. Oh yeah , your Rockies may surprise folks this year.

[Danitgirl1]

If you look like a woman, use the woman's toilet...
I have never been to a stadium event, but I have been to the mall, restaurants and the theater.
I always use the ladies
First time I was at the mall and need to go I was apprehensive
I was still vacillating when I walked into the corridor leading to the toilets...
I could go left for gents right for ladies or straight ahead for the family room
There was a group of cleaning staff chatting and one of the men on the group saw me and said "this way ma'am" pointing to the ladies room
Confidence boosted problem solved and appearance validated in one small phrase
I was a very happy girl not list because at that stage I was absolutely desperate to go

[Linda E. Woodworth]

Intriguing question.

My wife and I joked about it last year when the Cubs played the Braves. Friday night of the series was LGBT night.

One concern if you bank on using the family restroom is the number of facilities they have and the fact that many of the families will be using them as well. You can't count on them being available when you desperately need them. I suggest having a backup plan.

NO, Linda didn't go anywhere.

[IleneD]

I suggest having a backup plan.

NO, Linda didn't go anywhere.

Linda,

LOL, Yes always have an alternate (as they say in aviation)., and the fuel to get there.
You reminded me. In the military I flew single seat tactical jets. You've probably noticed from photos, there's not much room to get up and go to the head. The jets were designed for a mission fuel capacity of about 1.5 hours (depending on the style of flying). But with the advent of in-flight refueling (IFR), and changes in missions and mission profiles, it's easy for a fighter pilot to be strapped to that seat for 5-6 hrs. I've spent close to 11 hours flying trans-oceanic flights (following a tanker).
Yet, in the DoD's infinite wisdom they placed (in most jets) a small cone-shaped funnel under or near the ejection seat called The Relief Tube. It vents urine out of the airplane. It would normally be great to have except my flying equipment was always layers of flame retardant under things, coveralls, survival vests, harnesses, etc.; and literally no room to move. Unzipping a flight suit (yes, there's a convenient bottom zipper in them), taking one's penis out from under all that gear, steering "the member" into the cone, AND fly the aircraft at the same time was a circus trick. It was so messy and difficult to use that it was the case that pilots would just wet themselves and return to the boat. And if I was wearing an anti-exposure (water survival) suit, forget about. Those things were water tight inside and out, and if there was a need to pee, it was going into the suit.

The other option was the infamous Piddle Pack. It was the same disentanglement routine to get "it" out. The Pack was a plastic bag with powder that gelled when wet. Pee in a large baggie in-flight. Insane.

Nowadays some single seat jet pilots use mechanical urine collection systems (a small pump w reservoir); and the pilot goes out to the airplane wearing a "crotch cup" collection cup (like a sports cup) with a tube leading to a small pump.
(Small gross facts no one tells you about pilot life.)

When you suggested a back up plan I had all kinds of flashback visions for what to do. Large beer cup under the skirt may draw some bleacher seat attention.

[Rogina B]

It sure doesn't seem like you are ready for it ! Way too many concerns about having to pee. It isn't a big deal unless you make it one.

[Amelie]

I went to a Baltimore Ravens game when Ray Lewis was playing, I believe the Steelers were the other team. I went with my boyfriend and one of his friends, so there was no trouble from other people. My BF and his friend were bikers.

I didn't use the bathroom, I didn't have to go. I didn't understand how the game is played so I was kinda bored. And I don't like crowds all that much so I never wanted to go back.

PS-I did go to quite a few concerts which was similar to a stadium, like the Piers, Felt Forum, Radio City and others in NYC.

[Sometimes Steffi]

Ilene

I have only two words for you, "Kiss Camera".

I go to the Baltimore Orioles games in normal mode with my daughter. I don't think there's an inning that goes by where there's not someone from the stands pictured on the JumboTron. It's not likely to be you, but I can't think of a bigger embarrassment.

As for the public bathrooms, if I'm dressed like a girl, I go to the women's bathrooms. But I haven't gone to any where there was a long line to get in. A girl I know tried to arrange a trip to a ball game with a few other girls. I declined; I couldn't work out all the logistics. I think she ended up going alone.

But, it sounds like you have risked your life before. If I'm ever in Denver, I'll go with you.

BTW, I'm a proud member of the "Red Sox Nation" and only go to see the Orioles when the Sox are in town. There are often more people rooting for the Visitors than the Home team.

[Allison Chaynes]

I can't speak to being en femme, but with regards to the attention from the Kiss cam.... I took my kids to an SEC football game last year that was being broadcast on ESPN2. They started laughing and picking their noses as soon as the Fan cam zoomed in on our area.... then a minute or two later, my wife texted a screenshot (she was watching at home). So in addition to an entire stadium of people eatching my kids on two Jumbotrons, the rest of the country got to see it, too.

[docrobbysherry]

That was scratched off my "bucket list" a few years back, Ilene. We went to see a Twins game in Minneapolis. Apparently the bathroom wasn't an issue. Because I don't remember which one I used or anything else about that part of the day.:heehee:
We had a blast! A few people came over to chat and/or ask questions.:)

It was Mother's Day so they gave all adult women hats. Including us!:D
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[mandi77]

Sounds interesting, I like you, went recently. Yes there were ladies dressed very pretty even though it was cold. I also was saying to myself I could wear that. I have only been out a couple of times, but at this level that would be amazing. If you went I would go but, it would have to be later in the season, maybe a night game? :bighug:mandi

[Phoebe Reece]

About a year ago I went to a Braves game with another crossdresser and her gg girlfriend. At the entry there was a search of our purses and we were welcomed as ladies to Turner Field. We obviously blended right in with the crowd. The game was between the Braves and the Philadelphia Phillies. Throughout our time at Turner Field we were treated by everyone as just some women there to enjoy the game. Besides blending well, I think no one really looks closely at any woman casually dressed that is over 60 years old. It was a really fun outing.

This is how I was dressed for the game:
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[cosmolovesph]

I don't think I could do it. Too many people too close for examination of ... me.

[IleneD]

Phoebe,

That is fantastic! Love it. (You're so courageous.)
The pic is perfect.

[Stephanie47]

Intriguing question.

My wife and I joked about it last year when the Cubs played the Braves. Friday night of the series was LGBT night.



That could be very interesting. It always seems the camera men are scanning the seats for interesting fans to put on national television.