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Tina Davis
05-07-2017, 03:41 PM
While I have been out dressed before, it's always been limited to going to the Tiffany Club and at night. I shop in drab all the time. The past couple of days, I just decided that there was no reason to be timid, so I did it. Friday was a test run, I put on my women's jeans, black tank top, scoop-neck black sweater, and black wedge booties. I put very light makeup on (no lipstick, just clear gloss), fixed my wig, and out the door I went. Drove out to Western MA for the morning, I had to wait for a plumber at my in-laws' house (they are deceased, but we still manage the house). I took off my wig, sweater, forms and booties and put on a male shirt and sneakers. The plumber came, did his work, then I took the three dogs out for a walk (one at a time, large Labs) before packing up to come home. After I stopped for lunch, I put everything back on, re-did my makeup, and drove home.

Saturday was one of the best days ever. I called a nail salon for a manicure, got dressed in black leggings, pink ribbed camisole, forest green top with attached silver necklace, and a black open cardigan. I did full makeup (I tried to keep it light for daytime), put on my wig, and drove off. I stopped at a Target and bought some new panties with a gift card I had, no one batted an eye. I then went to the salon, where I was warmly greeted, even though I had given my male first name when I called. The American woman doing my nails was so pleasant and we chatted easily. But I got the biggest surprise when the Asian owner came over to let the nail tech know about her next client, saying "you will take her after this lady" - meaning me!! :eek: She said it again, "once you are finished with her", and I was soaring for the rest of the appointment! I got a lovely pale pink polish that is hardly noticeable, but I was feeling even more feminine when I left.

I drove to a Payless store in a big mall, parked the car, and just walked in to Sears to get to Payless. I know at least a couple of people read me, but I didn't care anymore. I greeted the SA's at Payless, walked to the 9 1/2 racks, and started pulling down shoes to try. I was looking for another black heel and found both the Karmen and Cristian Siriano Habit black heels. They both fit perfectly, but the Habit were on sale, plus I had a 25% coupon, so those were the ones to get. I paid at the register, softening my voice but I knew they knew. Walked back through Sears to the exit, back in the car, and drove to the nearest Kohl's. I had a return from my online order, faux-leather leggings that were too big, plus $10 I earned for the order. I found clearance racks and browsed all of them. I found tops, skirts, jeans, dresses - then it was time to try them on. Into the women's fitting rooms, first side was full so I went to the other side and claimed a room. Tried everything on, some fit, some didn't (a great black lace dress was one size too small), but I was in heaven. I decided on three tops and a skirt, went to the register line, then was called "ma'am" by the young man opening a register. After my credit, a 20% discount, and my Kohl's cash was applied, I paid 25 cents for everything. :D

I'm going to be posting most of the pictures in a picture thread, including my evening out at the Tiffany Club, but here's my "driving pretty" look from Saturday.

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Toodles,
Tina

Sarah Louise
05-07-2017, 04:56 PM
What a great day you had! It's so much more fun shopping in girl mode, isn't it? And it sounds like everyone treated you nicely too. I hope you get another chance to get out as Tina again, although you might have to change your name to 'Not So Timid Tina'!

Trione
05-07-2017, 04:56 PM
Looking Good

Kandi Robbins
05-07-2017, 07:18 PM
Tina, two words: own it! I absolutely never pass and I absolutely never have any negative experiences. Been out hundreds of times. As you see, act like you belong because you do belong! Live your life and enjoy who you are. Very happy for you! Great story, now do it again.

Rachael Leigh
05-07-2017, 07:41 PM
Tina what a wonderful day and as you found out all went pretty well in normal land. It does feel nice to be out there and so
glad you had a nice time. Thanks for sharing

jennifer0918
05-08-2017, 02:49 AM
Good for you Tina that sounds like a lot of fun,I'm glad to hear everything went well.

Tina Davis
05-08-2017, 07:05 AM
Thank you all for your kind words, I can't wait to do it again, but the reality is that this was a special occasion. With my DADT situation and my daughter coming home from school, everything will be packed away by Tuesday night. But I do know that when the time is right, I will not be timid and I will "own it" as Kandi says.

Toodles,
Tina

Lana Mae
05-08-2017, 02:25 PM
Sounds like you had a wonderful time! Glad you could get out and about! I will be looking for those pictures! Hugs Lana Mae

jennifer0918
05-08-2017, 03:00 PM
Tina your so right about that,my kid is already off school but has a part time job and Im going to squeeze one last outing this month, before I pack it up for the summer : (

Dana44
05-08-2017, 03:05 PM
Tina, A nice day out. Sound like you really enjoyed it. Yeah,keep doing it.

Paula_56
05-09-2017, 09:07 AM
Hi Tina

I am a Mass girl also, Blackstone Valley

You look every bit the typical New England lady out for a day of errands!

Paula