I don't want you Crossdressing so I throw all your male clothing away, leaving you ..

[reinasblack]

With female only clothing.

She even destroyed my credit cards and everything so that it would take a while for me to replace everything.

Has this happened to anyone?



It happened to me once with an xgirl friend who found out by accident about my CDing.
Some women's clothing you can get away with as a man like some jeans and trousers. Most women jackets,coats and blouses are the hardest to get away with as a man.

[Lana Mae]

I do not know what you did, but I would have dressed fully and gone shopping for some male clothes(yes I still need a male identity!)! Isn't that interesting as it is the opposite of what we usually do!! LOL Hugs Lana Mae

[sometimes_miss]

Sounds more like a forced feminization fantasy.

[deebra]

DIVORCE, your credit cards too, as a human being you don't need her or being treating like this.

[Tracii G]

I assume this is a fantasy situation ?

[Jean 103]

It's life in the closet. If you r going to continue, these kind of things r going to happen. Look at it as a fresh start. Think about what u want and how u want to live. It's your life live it the way u want.

[CynthiaD]

She threw away all your male clothing? Am I missing something here? Where's the problem in that? :)

[Dana44]

Actually when I divorced, I paid off all of my credit cards and told them to close the accounts. Did not need to have that issue. But she outed me to everybody. Yours sounds like forced femniniziation. Did she really do that?

[Jaylyn]

Maybe her way of making you embarrassed by not being able to charge anything and also having you under her control. Sort of I got you by the tail and you'll be embarrassed by having to wear only your girly things for awhile. Weird anyway you look at it.

[Leelou]

I assume this is a fantasy situation ?

Yes, I was wondering the same thing. Did this really happen?

It's just hard to imagine logistically how she could have made this happen. So if did, I love to hear how she pulled it off and why she had all your credit cards (which can be reissued immediately).

And secondly, and probably more importantly, it just doesn't make any sense. When I hear about women purging their husbands/SO's girl stuff, it's definitely irrational and kind of insane for them to do it, but it least I can understand the motives. They hate the clothes, they know it took time and money to accumulate, and there may be an emotional attachment to the clothes, etc. But her diabolical plan as described just doesn't make any sense. It would be so easy for any man to walk into a thrift store with 50 bucks and at least put together enough men's clothes that you wouldn't have to just wear the women's clothes she left. Maybe Dr. Evil helped her come up with this plan!

[MelanieAnne]

If this actually happened, you might want to get as far away from this woman, as fast as you can, before she poisons your oatmeal. :eek:

[Gabriella111]

If a woman didn't want her male SO crossdressing, why would she toss out all of his male clothing and destroy his means to replace the items? That doesn't make sense.

[reinasblack]

It takes time to get credit cards reissued​ but bank cards at some bank will issue you a temporary card.
I had a stash of emergency​ clothing .
I believe she did try to posion me. My hormones levels had went into some free fall.i did not know if it's workers comp claim are personal.
She is narcissistic I did not really want her around me.
I have to wear special clothing at my pharmasuitical company job to prevent contamination.No one really is able to dress in street clothes unless in a meeting.
Unfortunately the story is real.she try to embarrass me to get her way but I had a few emergency backup plans.


Clothing outlets have cheap clothes. I went to Tijuana around San yashadaro to get some cheap clothing at outlets.
I had just made $2500+ doing event makeup now all that has to go on men's clothing.
At work I can wear the same clothing everyday for a week cause no will ever see it and I don't get it dirty are smelly in that amount of time.

[Jodie_Lynn]

Can't quite make up my mind here, but I'm calling shenanigans!

[Tracii G]

Not sure I totally get whats going on here but I would put a boot in her hind end and call the law on her.
Theft of Credit cards and clothing I'm pretty sure she is bat shit crazy.

[SometimesKairi]

Some kinda messes up punishment? I don't really get it.
But she doesn't sound like a healthy relationship partner right there

[reinasblack]

Jodie Lynn on a stump. LOL lol lol

:devil:
:tongueout
:eek:

It happened and she is just crazy.
Multiple personalities.
I got mostly over it with occasional rememberance

[Tracii G]

[QUOTE=reinasblack;4102104]It takes time to get credit cards reissued​ but bank cards at some bank will issue you a temporary card.
I had a stash of emergency​ clothing .
I believe she did try to posion me. My hormones levels had went into some free fall.i did not know if it's workers comp claim are personal.

Wait I have to ask what does this sentence mean?
Poison you? Really and how does a poison affect hormone levels?
What does workers comp have to do with any of this?

[reinasblack]

Some chemicals at work can effect hormones levels.
Some poisons effect hormones.
Unless I have more proof I just don't take that any further.

[Leslie Mary S]

When I first read your post I thought you were a female dressing as a male. That made more sense to me.
The normal logic is to get ride of the offending attire.
"Then she walked out" Did she come back?

[Tracii G]

I'm just not getting what the point is.

[MelanieAnne]

If a woman didn't want her male SO crossdressing, why would she toss out all of his male clothing and destroy his means to replace the items? That doesn't make sense.

It's a matter of control and humiliation. I don't know the circumstances. But a lot of women stay with a guy because they don't have a job, or make enough to live on their own. A lot of domestic assaults occur because couples can't get along, and can't afford to live separately.

[Tracii G]

If a guy used a woman like that he would be chastised for being lazy.

[Tama]

I am still following this to figure it all out... I admit, I am unclear as to whats happening

[Tracii G]

Same here, I'm clueless really.
Some sentences have nothing to do with the subject matter and thats what I find confusing.

[biannne]

This story isn't as crazy as most think. During my divorce my sent photos of crossdressed to all my co workers including some of the supervisors and section managers. And to make matters worst, she placed an ad on the personal saying that I have AIDS.
I have to call the police to have that removed.

When my wife first found out about my CDing, she threw all my females clothes in the trash.

[Tracii G]

I would have had her locked up Bianne.LOL

[Ressie]

There are some vindictive women (and men) out there - Some with psychological problems.

[Stephanie47]

I guess reinasblack could have had this happen to her. I do wonder if cross dressing has been "forced" upon the woman. It is possible for a man to get some approval for some minor cross dressing, then take it to a higher and higher level without the approval of the woman. Sort of shoving it in a woman's face. How does she react? Throw out and destroy all the femme garments? Or, maybe if she feels his cross dressing is being forced upon her, she slips and does throw out his male garments. 'Here, if you want to play at being a woman do it all the way, all the time!!! No more hiding behind the drawn curtains anymore." I suspect there is more to this story than is being told.

[docrobbysherry]

"Oh please, Brer Bear! Do ANYTHING to me but please don't throw me into that there briar patch!":heehee:

[Beverley Sims]

What a "fantastick" story.

I trust you are doing alright living as a woman now?

[Nicole Erin]

Destroying credit cards does not stop someone from using them. Of course web shopping but then at stores, they just need your I.D. to look up your account.

[MelanieAnne]

You can disagree and argue an issue. But throwing someones stuff out crosses the line.

[giuseppina]

I am sorry to hear of this, Reina.

While your tale seems like fiction to some, I have had enough dealings with people who think they have the right to control others at any cost that it's plausible to me.

Domestic violence knows no bounds. A disgruntled ex can come up with ingenious methods of punishing the other ex-partner that are not actionable through the courts. This is one of them.

I hope for their sake there are no children of any age involved, Reina.

[Lisa85]

This sounds too much like a troll.

[reinasblack]

Narcissistic personality people do that gluespina and Reese.
Cut them loose like I did and sever all your ties with them.

Getting her locked up means a public record of my crossdressing and more.

[Angie G]

What a freaking bummer.:hugs:
Angie

[MelanieAnne]

And to make matters worst, she placed an ad on the personal saying that I have AIDS.

You could sue her for defamation of character for that little stunt.

[reinasblack]

biannne it sounds like this person is just plain dangerous.

I hope you cut ties with her.

This story isn't as crazy as most think. During my divorce my sent photos of crossdressed to all my co workers including some of the supervisors and section managers. And to make matters worst, she placed an ad on the personal saying that I have AIDS.
I have to call the police to have that removed.

When my wife first found out about my CDing, she threw all my females clothes in the trash.

[BrendaPDX]

Wow! Sounds like a fantasy to me too, well it would be one possible scenario for me anyway. Hope all worked out. Brenda

[Alice B]

She is very sick and dangerous. She has already outed you to all that you care about. Having a public reord that you cross dress is no big deal. It is not a criminal offense to dress and will not be a public record that others can look up

[Nikkilovesdresses]

The solution is simple. You hide all the female clothing then phone a male friend and ask to borrow clothing as your ex has taken all yours plus your credit cards. Given that she left you a towel, you needn't even be seen naked.

I think you're describing your fantasy, but my sincere apologies if I'm wrong.

[Gabriella111]

Same here, I'm clueless really.
Some sentences have nothing to do with the subject matter and thats what I find confusing.

Some confusing wording, but I think I get what happened now. Destroyed the male clothing to force him to wear women's clothing and out himself at work. But he had a stash of male clothing, and since his job requires clothing that covers what he wears, he can get away with wearing just a few items all the time without anyone noticing. Recent check affords him a shopping trip to replace some discarded items.

That's manipulative and spiteful beyond words. No good reason to keep people like that in your life.

[Erin Lafleur]

This whole thing is a bunch of bs. She works at a "pharmasuitical" company? Really? Can't imagine that anyone who actually works at a pharmaceutical company would not know how to spell the word. C'mon... Not to mention San Yashadaro...
Posts should at least be real... but that's just me... Utter garbage...

[reinasblack]

Similar things has happened to others here. If you read the other posts you will know I am not alone.

[Kelly DeWinter]

Erin;

Some people like me have Dyslexia. Before computers and spell check, my handwriting and communications were atrocious. Most of the posts I write in Word because it has a great spell checker and grammatical checking. I then copy and past when I reply to a thread. My work is the same way.In college I would tape record some of the classes because my note taking was so bad. I was a computer programmer for 15 years and my fellow programmers absolutely hated debugging my code, although they loved my c++ libraries because once they worked all they had to do was link them and use the results.

Also some people are from other countries and know English as a second language..

[NylonMan]

I have to wear special clothing at my pharmasuitical company job to prevent contamination.No one really is able to dress in street clothes unless in a meeting.
.

This is Fake. I would think that a person would know how to spell the industry that they work in. pharmasuitical ???? . Don't you mean Pharmaceutical

[reinasblack]

I type on a Android phone and sometimes it misspelled words alot. It guesses the words you are trying to spell and pretypes in anticipation it but it's not perfect. I am not a English major. I have a science and engineering career.i am not a grammar/spelling Nazi either,as long as I know what your saying are trying to say it's ok with me.

[Kelly DeWinter]

Seriously People ???? Lets not get downright personal. Calling out someones post because of spelling errors ? This thread is about someone throwing out your clothing, not a spelling Bee.

When I was in the military I had about 20 tailored shirts made out of nylon polyester that fit great because of my long torso. They were my favorites work shirts at the time. When I got married , my ex tossed them out 1 by 1. When I asked her about my missing shirts, she replied "Whats in the house is mine to do what I want, your's is the outside". I really really really hate yard work, and i still miss my shirts, especially on hot days. And now we have a lawn service. :)

[sometimes_miss]

Posts should at least be real... but that's just me... Utter garbage...
Hey, come on now, I'm quite sure that lots of what's written in this giant pink fog of a feel good forum is more in the mind of the writer than it is in real life. Consider all those who really believe they can or do, pass. That's not reality, either.
Real? Nah. But we don't live in a world that embraces us. So sometimes maybe we need to escape into our daydreams. This sounds like one of those times.

[reinasblack]

Erin;

Some people like me have Dyslexia. Before computers and spell check, my handwriting and communications were atrocious. Most of the posts I write in Word because it has a great spell checker and grammatical checking. I then copy and past when I reply to a thread. My work is the same way.In college I would tape record some of the classes because my note taking was so bad. I was a computer programmer for 15 years and my fellow programmers absolutely hated debugging my code, although they loved my c++ libraries because once they worked all they had to do was link them and use the results.

Also some people are from other countries and know English as a second language..



In computer programming they like indenting to separate loops and functions.i am not great with Grammar are pucntuation because I am not tedious with the English language like many who get there papers marked up by a professor and those who don't quote articles.

[StephanieJ]

Bringing things back toward reality... I didn't have this exact experience, but did deal with my ex-wife's borderline personality disorder. When I came out to her I started "under dressing" part time. I came home from work one day to find that she had thrown out all of my male underwear. I didn't really mind at the time and saw it as a green light to keep going, but later she was upset that I was always in feminine undergarments. I would have been willing to wear male undies at any time for her benefit, but for whatever reasoning goes through the borderline mind, she thought it had to be all-or-nothing. Now that we are divorced, I can wear whatever I please. A couple weeks ago I had a doctors appointment so I found an old pair of men's undies to wear that day. It felt so weird that I probably won't do that again. In fact the next time I went, I just wore my girlie girdle and guess what? Nobody cared!

[Shaedow]

StephanieJ, I have this diagnosis / condition, & it doesn't surprise me. It is a typical BPD trait. Just one of the many *negative* traits that a person who loves someone with BPD struggles to live with.... I also have Major Depression & Anxiety, so I am truly blessed with my CD SO who treats me like a queen in spite of

[StephanieJ]

Wow, you are amazing Shaedow! I know it must be very difficult and glad to hear you are getting along. We felt like the combination of her BPD and my GID was an impossible situation, but there are a lot of resources out there that, if I had today, might have changed things. Blessings to you for making it work. Hang in there and know that you are definitely worthy of being treated like a queen!

[reinasblack]

I had multiple concussions that resulted in memory, grammar and spelling issues but I still have my technical education. Debated on putting this personal info here.
Does not really matter if 2-3 people doubt the story.
you don't know me!.

I can look like a GG woman for about 16 hours with my special makeup skills of taping,hip pads,highlight,contouring,smooth clean foundation coverage and great eye and cheek makeup.

Now back to the subject of the discussion.
Would anyone here be emotionally devastated about your clothing?
.

[LeannS]

I would be upset if my wife threw my stuff out and she would be upset if I threw out her music

what is good for the goose is good for the gander lol

[reinasblack]

That's a great idea. Her music means everything to her
:devil:

[LeannS]

My wife is a chorus director so she has a lot of music sheet music, learning tracks(cd's) and a whole lot more

leann

[IleneD]

Now back to the subject of the discussion.
Would anyone here be emotionally devastated about your clothing?
. [/B]

You bet I would. Devastated?! Certainly outraged at such a violation.
May as well throw me out as well as the garments.

[Kelly DeWinter]

She throws out your clothes, you throw out her music. ... Never bring a hand written allegro to a printed fabric fight. Seriously starting a War of the Roses is not going to resolve anything. Maybe a better way would be to sit down and explain to her in music terms what this means to you ? At this point it doesn't seem like you have anything else to loose but maybe better understanding between the two of you.

[Donna June]

I'm glad I am single

[immike]

Hi! I'm Michelle!(Michael) For many years,I've secretly been wearing mothers clothes,we are about the same height&weight&I enjoy feeling soft silky dresses/w beige pantyhose&heels,and practicing walking,while Mother is at work.I'm in the closet,totally
secret&I'm praying Mother never finds out.I've had fun wearing all her outfits&I have a secret stash of my own silky undies&different shades of pantyhose&all I do is go into the closet&borrow a short mini skirt&a silky blouse&a pair of her heels