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Nic J
05-19-2017, 07:48 AM
Hi everyone,
Since i came-out to my wife a couple of months ago things have been fairly steady at home.
We have talked from time to time about the things that i would like to wear & how we both feel about things. My wife has been kind & supportive and i have tried not to push things too far or too quickly.

Recently we have been away for a few days and while away we went to the shops together (not something we usually do!) and my wife wanted to go into a particular department store. After she had bought what she wanted, she pointed out that they had a nice selection of tights and leggings at good price. Then she asked me if i would like her to buy some for me!

WOW, i couldn't believe it! This was the first time that she had suggested actually buying something feminine for me. Naturally i said yes!! So we chose several lots of tights which she said would be really nice under jeans in colder weather and also some nice leggings, which my wife says make my legs & behind look great!

I felt so happy afterwards and can't believe how lucky i am to be married to such a special person. I know it may seem like a small thing, but to me this feels like a really significant moment, a step forward.
There are some other things which i would like to buy, but i keep trying to remember not to push too far too soon.

Thanks for all your advice & encouragement so far!
Best wishes, Nic :)

I am not sure if this thread should be posted in the main section or the shopping section. Apologies if it's in the wrong place!

Territx
05-19-2017, 07:55 AM
That is wonderful progress -- seems like your approach is working.

Lana Mae
05-19-2017, 09:33 AM
sounds great to me! Glad you have such an accepting and loving wife! Hugs Lana Mae

Salina
05-19-2017, 02:07 PM
That's awesome Nic! What a wonderful thing for your wife to do and hopefully there is more to come!

Dana44
05-19-2017, 02:39 PM
That is very nice Nic, Tell your wife she s great.

JamieG
05-19-2017, 03:10 PM
What a nice gesture on her part.

LeannS
05-19-2017, 05:53 PM
Nic you truely have a gem give her extra hugs and kisses

Leann

bridget thronton
05-20-2017, 09:36 AM
Great wife

Nic J
05-21-2017, 03:43 AM
Thanx for your kind comments everyone. I always tell her how great she has been about everything, but she says she's not really!
Oh yes she is! :love:

Karen Wilder
05-21-2017, 04:52 AM
Wow! What a great partner to have in life!

Hugs,

Karen

looking_good
05-21-2017, 08:10 AM
My spouse has also been accepting of my dressing - and there have been so many incredible moments like yours. I find myself working hard to make sure there is some upside for her too. If nothing else, she has gained an enthusiastic and trusted shopping partner and 'does this look good?' second opinion...

Hope you both find more things to share....

TrishaLake
05-21-2017, 08:33 AM
Thats great just be respectful and allow her to accept this in her time. good luck!

Teri Ray
05-21-2017, 08:36 AM
Great story. Its always nice to hear stories where life works. Keep talking and sharing you are very lucky.

Beverley Sims
05-21-2017, 01:00 PM
Nic,
Go with the flow without pushing it and you should progress in leaps and bounds.

There can be so much time lost when people push it and the partner goes cold on the deal.