Going out in public.

[AprilCD]

For us ladies who do venture out in the spot light of the world, is it the attention that men give us when they treat us as ladies that attracts us to them? Outside in my male mode they do nothing for me but in femme mode casual touching when they are being sweet and complimentary excites me psychologically but not physically. Why is that?

[GypsyKaren]

Truth be told, when I go out I tend to ignore men. What I appreciate is when I smile at another woman and they return it, to me they're saying "hello sister".

Karen

[Fallen Angel]

We stive ours selfs to reflect what we want to see in our genitic sisters,And when we are able to catch that moment and others take notice of us its very self satisfying xxxxxxxxxxx

[Melanie R]

Fro me when out in public I enjoy other women who notice what I am wearing and tell me what they like. I also enjoy when men hold the door for me and when they smile at me. Case in point: one night my SO and I were eating at a popular family restaurant prior to going to a play. Before leaving the restaurant I took advantage of the women's restroom. When I came out of the stall to to wash my hands and check my makeup there were two women with their three teenage daughters at the mirror. They all looked me over and one woman asked where I purchased my necklace. All of them had to see the necklace. Did they read me? Who knows but perhaps the necklace saved the day.

Hugs,

Melanie

[JoAnnDallas]

When I started going out en-fem, I was so afraid that someone would clock me that it took me by suprise while sitting at a Red light. I happen to look at the truck next to me and this older gentleman with a cowboy hat on was looking at me. I kinda smiled and he touched the brim of his hat and smiled. It kinda fustered me and I quickly looked away. Then I looked at myself in the rear view mirrow. It was then that it dawn on me he was paying me a compliment or flirting and I started to blush. It made feel real good and I started to relax and enjoy the outing.

[Butterfly Bill]

Truth be told, when I go out I tend to ignore men. What I appreciate is when I smile at another woman and they return it, to me they're saying "hello sister".

Karen
Same here. I do it for the smiles that I get from women (tho I do get them from men occasionally, and I like that too). The smiles usually mean more along the lines of "you're cute", tho "Hello sister (in the political comradely sense)" is also sometimes implied.

AprilCD, when you are en femme are you more offering of affection yourself? Maybe this is something you haven't been realizing if you are. How much you give often determines what you get back.

[Denise01]

When I go out femme, I too tend to ignore men.

I find being out femme is a stress reliever for me. It is so nice to be treated as a lady when i am shopping, especially when in a ladies wear store, that in drab, you would hardly get the passing of the day.
I was out last night, femme shopping at a couple of new ladies wear stores, near where I live, and it was a great feeling to be welcomed as a lady by the sales staff immediately when going into the store.
In one store, i was looking at blouses, and had one in hand. The sales associate was putting some away, she had a 2 piece outfit and commented the shell would go nice with the top i was interested in. Too bad the ones she was putting away were the wrong size.
It is also very nice when a clerk in the store makes a comment about the jewellery you are wearing, as it makes you feel as you are one of them

Denise

[tvgirl4fun]

April, I have to agree with you. I'n boy mode I'm not interested in guys. But in girl mode, the guys that can act like gentlemen can pretty much get what they want! Being talked to politely, saying you look nice, a gentle touch of a soft hand. I kind of relate it to the attention a "real" girl is looking for. Like Cyndi Lauper said, "Girls Just Want To Have Fun!". Jaie

[KELLYANN]

have to agree with GYPSYKAREN. like to mingle more with my SISTERS. it is a sissterhood. so to speak. a compliment from a regular guy is always nice too. it is nice to be told (YOU LOOK GOOD GIRL) HEHE MAKES A GIRL FEEL GOOD. KISSES TO ALL. KELLYANN:be:

[vickyshowgirl]

I just love parading around in my thong bodysuit , 4 inch strappy heels and hose for the FedEx guy!. I walk around the side of my house and smooth up the pantyhose on my legs as he stays in his truck and smiles with pleasure....and sometimes he receives a little more pleasure!
But, I love the stares I get from women, I think I like the women looking at me more, I guess I hope they are a little jealous.....I'm bad thaty way.
But the Fed Ex guy!!! WOW! I love his attention!!!!!!!

[Jennaie]

Truth be told, when I go out I tend to ignore men. What I appreciate is when I smile at another woman and they return it, to me they're saying "hello sister".

Karen

Couldn't agree more Karen:happy:

[Josi]

My "validation" comes from acceptance of women - I am just not interested in even a compliment from a man.
and dare I say it .. oh I hope I dont offend anyone .. but a compliment from another CD is kind but not "satisfying" or meaningful -
BUT a kind word, a smile, a tender touch (not sexual!) being treated as female by a GG .. well .. all I can say is .. IT MAKES MY DAY!

Josi

[Laurie Ann]

Truth be told, when I go out I tend to ignore men. What I appreciate is when I smile at another woman and they return it, to me they're saying "hello sister".

Karen

Karen I could not agree more.

[Lilymdcd]

Just bein out and about and knowing that others will see the real you is sooooooo wonderful. A smile or other acknowledgment from a male, female or another gurl is just icing on the cake! A very sweet cake!

[Deidra Cowen]

I like it when I catch men looking at me but if this makes sense I ignore them for fear of an incident.

[Sam-antha]

Karen has it, definitely. But it is nice to have a door held open or the offer of "you first into the train or bus". Looking at men tends to upset my confidence in my appearance. For some reason I seem to think that they are more likely to read me. Which I doubt.

[maid phylis]

dear sisters.i live in new york city and i belong to cdi .every wed afternoon after work i come home and get all dolled up and i drive to the subway station and take the subway train to the city.most of the time i just sit and enjoy the ride and no one ever bothers me as i just blend in with all the other women on the train.i have been doing this for five years and its the greatest feeling knowing that i am going out dressed and i always get compliments from all my sisters .love phylisanne:blushing: :bw: :c9: :doll: :<3: