Sissy_in_pink
06-12-2017, 07:20 AM
I know my ex-wife hated me cross-dressing right from the day she found out, but I liked doing it too much to stop, after many years she finally told me she wanted a divorce, I had been married 27 years by then, it was a shock at first, but then became a relief as I had had enough of her for many various reasons. I got to keep the house as she had no way of paying me half, so I had to pay her half to keep it.
After the settlement she moved to the UK and married a guy that was almost her double in every way.
After the divorce I started cross-dressing even more and joined a support group, now I have been out in public, to the shops, to trans-formals, a Christmas Party and social meetings that are held once a month, I've only missed a couple since joining. I was going to join the same support group while I was married, but there was no internet back then, so snail mail was the only way I could join and that would have meant the wife would have found out for sure, this was before she did find out.
I have dated 8 ladies since my divorce and only told one, she was ok with it at first, but I think I pushed it too far and that caused the end.
I have come to realize that telling ladies after you meet them is not a good idea as they sure as hell will not like it, so now I present myself as much as possible as a cross-dresser without wearing a dress or obvious makeup, just a bit of makeup, perfume, some jewelry and a bra and small breast forms that can be seen but not so obvious, I have also had Shellac nail finish in a natural pink colour on my finger nails, it can be seen, but only if you look hard.
By doing it this way I hope to meet a lady that can see that I'm a cross-dresser right from the start. Well I’m 62 now and still hoping it will happen, but anyway I am happy in myself and will never give up cross-dressing, I have come out to a couple of friends that are cool with it and I think they know at work, but no one ever says anything.
But now with the support group that I go to, I get to talk to others like me whilst fully dressed, the worst part is when the meetings are over and I have to go home and wait another month for the next meeting, the meetings take an hour to drive to and on the way home I always hope that I will get pulled over for a random breath test, but it hasn’t happened so far. The first time I went I forgot to fill the car and discovered it after I was on my way, I had enough to get there, but not home again, so I had to fill up on the way home, that is the very first time I ever interacted with someone whilst dressed, I was surprised how calm I was and how the guy behind the counter didn’t bat an eyelid.
Anyway here's to Cross-dressing, hope we can do it for many years to come.
Cheers Rhonda
After the settlement she moved to the UK and married a guy that was almost her double in every way.
After the divorce I started cross-dressing even more and joined a support group, now I have been out in public, to the shops, to trans-formals, a Christmas Party and social meetings that are held once a month, I've only missed a couple since joining. I was going to join the same support group while I was married, but there was no internet back then, so snail mail was the only way I could join and that would have meant the wife would have found out for sure, this was before she did find out.
I have dated 8 ladies since my divorce and only told one, she was ok with it at first, but I think I pushed it too far and that caused the end.
I have come to realize that telling ladies after you meet them is not a good idea as they sure as hell will not like it, so now I present myself as much as possible as a cross-dresser without wearing a dress or obvious makeup, just a bit of makeup, perfume, some jewelry and a bra and small breast forms that can be seen but not so obvious, I have also had Shellac nail finish in a natural pink colour on my finger nails, it can be seen, but only if you look hard.
By doing it this way I hope to meet a lady that can see that I'm a cross-dresser right from the start. Well I’m 62 now and still hoping it will happen, but anyway I am happy in myself and will never give up cross-dressing, I have come out to a couple of friends that are cool with it and I think they know at work, but no one ever says anything.
But now with the support group that I go to, I get to talk to others like me whilst fully dressed, the worst part is when the meetings are over and I have to go home and wait another month for the next meeting, the meetings take an hour to drive to and on the way home I always hope that I will get pulled over for a random breath test, but it hasn’t happened so far. The first time I went I forgot to fill the car and discovered it after I was on my way, I had enough to get there, but not home again, so I had to fill up on the way home, that is the very first time I ever interacted with someone whilst dressed, I was surprised how calm I was and how the guy behind the counter didn’t bat an eyelid.
Anyway here's to Cross-dressing, hope we can do it for many years to come.
Cheers Rhonda