my wife is stealing my dresses

[jhasmine]

Well, I just recently purchased a new dress. Now, nothing wrong with her wearing it but, i am a size 7-8 and she is a 10-12. This particular dress does not have that much room to stretch as others are made to stretch a bit. I asked her were it was and she said she wanted to were it this weekend. I said that's fine but not that dress. she asked why and I kindly told her that it does not stretch that much. Was that rude of me or do you think maybe she needs to stay out of my closet or maybe something else?


Since this is my first post, let me tell you a little bit about me. I have always been fascinated with woman's clothing. I used to shop for my GF, now wife, back when we were in high school (37 now). We have 2 kids, 17 and 6, both girls. My oldest knows I like to dress up while my wife would like me to keep the little one from it for now. I informed my wife of my now overwhelming urges to dress up about 8 months ago and she is ok with it. I am also on a non-prescribed herbal supplement to grow breast. I know, I know but do you know that it cost too much to see a psychiatrist when you are the only one working and own a home with a family of 4. I am happy to say that I have not lost any male size or sexual apatite and I am an A cup after just 2 months of these things. I also have a breast pump to help massage the area to promote growth. I do this all in my Basement office area for now.

Thank you for reading.

[Nikki1983]

I would let her know that the dress means a lot to you, and that you don't want it stretched out. Because she is a gg, her shape s different than yours and you want the dress to fit you right. I steal some of my husband's dresses, but I'm much bigger than him.... He's a size 5 and I'm a size 11. So I'm very careful that I only steal/ borrow what is naturally stretchy enough to fit me. Some people just don't think about things the same way and she may not realize that this matters to you.

[Hell on Heels]

Hell-o Jhasmine,
Just a bit rude... maybe?
If not rude, at the very
least, lacking in tact!

As far as her needing to stay
out of your closet?
Do you ever go into hers?
If so, she has every right to enter yours.
If not? Well... I think you get the idea.

Welcome to the forum!
Much Love,
Kristyn

[audreyinalbany]

Personally I think the fact that you have an accepting wife is worth letting her stretch out one of our dresses a little bit. Or, better yet, buy her one in her size.

[Dana44]

I would buy her the same dress in her size. Yet, nobody should take anthers clothes without asking. So I would say give it to her and buy yourself another dress.

[AndreaCalifCD]

I agree with Audrey - buy her a matching one in her size, along with some flowers

[LeannS]

Jhasmine first off welcome to the forum glad you are here !!

It is a dress share with her the things you have it will make life very nice for you.

Leann

[Tahoegurl]

I've have said to my wife that she is welcome to any of the clothes and makeup...after all...she helps me pick out and get my look right.

[alwayshave]

Not to pile on, but Audrey is right. Buy her her own dress or let her have yours.

[KrissyCD]

Personally I think the fact that you have an accepting wife is worth letting her stretch out one of our dresses a little bit. Or, better yet, buy her one in her size.


Yes agree. If I had this problem I would be very happy. I too would even offer to buy one in her size.

[reinasblack]

Documented reverse theft, usually the other way around LOL.

[jhasmine]

Thank you all for your posts. I think I will buy her one her size and maybe get brave enough to go out to a bar or club dressed alike. it might be super fun. I got the perfect shoes for it too. I just need a make-up person to help me out. ROFL. my hair is long enough, about 2 inches past my shoulders and I am 6'3" with a long neck. I am getting excited thinking about it. Maybe in 2 weeks. I get paid every 2 weeks and need a sitter as my oldest daughter is adhd and would not be able to keep an eye on the little one.

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