Having friends that know and empathise

[Bobbi46]

I have 2 ex pat lesbian friends that I have known for a number of years and a long while ago I told them about me properly and they have become good ex pat friends for me. Since then I have been to their house dressed for meals or just coffee and they have done the same to me.
Today was one of those special days that sometimes only comes round once in a while. I invited them round for lunch and as was normal I was dressed. But the big difference was I felt a new type of comfort in being dressed with them.
We had a lovely lunch then went and sat in my garden with after lunch coffee and talked about all sorts of things. The first time I was dressed with them I was little bit nervous but should not have been because they were and are so accepting but today, well it felt like I had turned a corner and gone deeper into a more relaxing feminine way of life.
Today will be god memory for me.

[bridget thronton]

Nice - sounds like positive growth for you

[kimdl93]

Its lovely that you can feel normal and at home with your friends.

[Bobbi46]

How beautifully put, "feel normal " it was so nice, we have had dinners before but this was the first time that things seamed to have taken on a whole new meaning to me and dressing and with my friends.

[Teresa]

Bobbi,
I wish we could add to that list, but I'm working on it, never say never I'm not giving up on it and neither is Carole .

It's a pity you're not in a position to join us, we had a great time last night as you can read in the picture section. Nice frocks and silly hats and too much to drink !! Well yours truly anyway !!

[Alice Torn]

You are fortunate to have friends that empathize, there. Some of us have few or no frineds, even in drab. I have many acquaintances, but few friends, even in drab. Almost no one who empathizes, except one homosexual friend 2000 miles away.