Maria 60
06-16-2017, 05:11 PM
A few Fridays back we went for dinner, during dinner my wife told me she put my Maria travel bag in the truck and after dinner to drive her home and she will tell the kids I meet up with some friends so I could have some time to myself.
My wife bought me a big Coach bag a few years back so I could keep some stuff for a fast pick up if I want to go for a drive or if we are going somewhere that Maria can dress.
I told her I was trying to cut back on my driving dressed because it's to big of a risk and I'm getting to addicted and I was planning on dismantling that bag to discourage myself.
She explained to me that she knows that I didn't ask for Maria and knows that the feelings are real and knows that I need time to myself to express that side even if it's only a few hours a week and it's very difficult in our home. She said with stress from work and not having sometime to myself that I'm Mr Grumpy and notices a big difference when I get my Maria time that I'm much more calm, and that I should go for the drive because I work hard a deserve some alone time.
That night I took her advice and went, because I was tierd I didn't stay out long, but it felt great. The next morning I was up early as usual and my wife again pushed me to go for a early morning Maria drive because she felt as if I didn't enjoy the night before because I was to tierd, again I thanked her a took her advice and went.
On my way back home around 9am, I called my wife and told her because she has been so understanding that I would like to take her out for breakfast.
While at breakfast she told me she knows how much I love my kids but all I would need is a few hour a week and I would be content, I told her it seems like it doesn't click, someones always home. She laughted and said that she can't believe I can't see why I don't have time. She said my oldest son is a Maria Bomb, he is unpredictable and a home body. He capable of coming home on Friday from work and not leaving the house till Monday morning when he goes back to work. He says he's going out for a hour and then comes home 9 hours later and then tells me he's going out for the night and then he's home an hour later. He has very few friends and seems like when I want to do something he's always in my way. She said the other kids are barely home on the weekends and are pretty predictable, they tell us where they are going and message and call if there plans change, but our oldest is unpredictable and is a Maria Bomb and that's why I need to take the risk and go for a drive once a week to get some time to myself.
I'm only writing this today because my oldest was going to Jake and Jill party and was planning on spending the weekend there, my wife called me today and told me I should get some Maria time coming my way, I told her I won't get my hopes high.
Well I got home and my sons car was in the driving and one step in the door there he was watching TV on the couch, I asked him what's going on. He said he didn't feel like going anymore something about he was tierd and sent his girlfriend on her own.
My wife came home and couldn't believe he sent his girlfriend on her own and told him to get a life, she then went to our room and got the Maria travel bag and put it in the trunk of her car and told me to go. I really don't like taking chances but it seems like it's all I have, I don't know what to do. Thanks for listening to me venting, your all very patient.
My wife bought me a big Coach bag a few years back so I could keep some stuff for a fast pick up if I want to go for a drive or if we are going somewhere that Maria can dress.
I told her I was trying to cut back on my driving dressed because it's to big of a risk and I'm getting to addicted and I was planning on dismantling that bag to discourage myself.
She explained to me that she knows that I didn't ask for Maria and knows that the feelings are real and knows that I need time to myself to express that side even if it's only a few hours a week and it's very difficult in our home. She said with stress from work and not having sometime to myself that I'm Mr Grumpy and notices a big difference when I get my Maria time that I'm much more calm, and that I should go for the drive because I work hard a deserve some alone time.
That night I took her advice and went, because I was tierd I didn't stay out long, but it felt great. The next morning I was up early as usual and my wife again pushed me to go for a early morning Maria drive because she felt as if I didn't enjoy the night before because I was to tierd, again I thanked her a took her advice and went.
On my way back home around 9am, I called my wife and told her because she has been so understanding that I would like to take her out for breakfast.
While at breakfast she told me she knows how much I love my kids but all I would need is a few hour a week and I would be content, I told her it seems like it doesn't click, someones always home. She laughted and said that she can't believe I can't see why I don't have time. She said my oldest son is a Maria Bomb, he is unpredictable and a home body. He capable of coming home on Friday from work and not leaving the house till Monday morning when he goes back to work. He says he's going out for a hour and then comes home 9 hours later and then tells me he's going out for the night and then he's home an hour later. He has very few friends and seems like when I want to do something he's always in my way. She said the other kids are barely home on the weekends and are pretty predictable, they tell us where they are going and message and call if there plans change, but our oldest is unpredictable and is a Maria Bomb and that's why I need to take the risk and go for a drive once a week to get some time to myself.
I'm only writing this today because my oldest was going to Jake and Jill party and was planning on spending the weekend there, my wife called me today and told me I should get some Maria time coming my way, I told her I won't get my hopes high.
Well I got home and my sons car was in the driving and one step in the door there he was watching TV on the couch, I asked him what's going on. He said he didn't feel like going anymore something about he was tierd and sent his girlfriend on her own.
My wife came home and couldn't believe he sent his girlfriend on her own and told him to get a life, she then went to our room and got the Maria travel bag and put it in the trunk of her car and told me to go. I really don't like taking chances but it seems like it's all I have, I don't know what to do. Thanks for listening to me venting, your all very patient.