Dinner thing

[Tracii G]

I had been out all day in my normal 50 /50 mode today and was headed home when I thought well maybe I will stop and get dinner in a new shopping area.
Had rolled my hair last night and slept on it so my hair was super wavy and in a very femme style.
This shopping area is new so I didn't know what was in there. As I cruised around it was like I had been transported in a small village and it was unlike any shopping area I had ever been in.
Really cute and homey and when all the stores are done I will go back, clothing stores make up boutiques lots of interesting shops.
Anyway I decided to try a BBQ place.
I walk in and this really cute waitress that looks about 15 LOL greeted me and told me the specials.
I thanked her and she stood there smiling so I walked around her to the order area. place my order make my drink and find a table.
The whole time she is looking my way and I 'm thinking OK she can tell I'm trans and semi approves or is intrigued.
I have seen this look before so I let it pass and answer my ringing cell phone.
As I was ending my call she comes with my order and asks if I need anything else.I say no.
About mid way thru my dinner I notice her looking (staring)at me again.
I am like this is really weird do I look that strange? Have I got one black shoe and one brown one?
Ok I was ready to leave and cleaning up my table she comes over and said you sure you don't want anything else?
I said no and handed her her tip.
She said I really like your outfit and you don't see many guys wearing girls stuff and wear it tastefully.
Your hair is really awesome too. I thanked her for everything and the compliments and was heading out the door and she stops me and hands me her phone number.
Crap I am old enough to be her Dad and maybe even Grandfather !!!
At this point I said honey I appreciate everything and you are really pretty but I'm gay.
She smiled and said you can still call me.
So I have no idea what just happened really.

[Helen Waite]

Maybe a new wingman, er, wingwoman? Oooh, that's awkward-sounding.

[Dana44]

LOL Tracii,, wow getting hit on by a young girl. Heck call her and she wants to talk, maybe just to be friends..

[Tracii G]

To be honest she is way too young even for a shopping partner.
She seemed really nice and accepting but I don't know her intentions.
Does she have a "daddy " syndrome or just into older guys? I have no idea.
All I know the age difference is probably 45 years and that to me screams creepy.
Any young man would beg for a girl this cute with a tight backside and a pretty large set of boobs.
On the plus side she seemed really genuine and slightly embarrassed when she mentioned what clothes I was wearing and my hair. I'm sure some of you have seen that one woman that pushes all your buttons and you just have to say something and end up coming off all goofy.
She could be into trannies who knows?

[paulaprimo]

if a young beautiful girl was starring at me, i would think it was because my zipper was down...
i think i would still call her. it could be innocent, she could just be a really friendly person or maybe
she has a brother or friend who is TG and just has some questions. maybe she wants to know who does
your hair, or better yet maybe she does hair on the side and wants to do yours. maybe she wants to know
where you shop. it could be anything... and if it does turn sexually, simply say that you're flattered and
thank you... then give her my number :D

[Beverley Sims]

Tracii,
I believe you handled it correctly, too many succumb to needless temptation and get their fingers burnt.

[Jean 103]

I wouldn't be so fast to just blow off someone that wants to become friends. I have lots of gg friends. Most are younger than me. Yes they come up to me give me complements and ask to be friends. I like being different.

[mbmeen12]

I said honey I appreciate everything and you are really pretty but I'm gay.
She smiled and said you can still call me. Today's newer generation (young GGs) have many many interactions in high school. Some of their best friends were exactly; gay. You appear on a day at a BBQ and crossed baths with a generation "Z". What you did is, shut door on a simple pleasant exchange.

From wikipedia
A 2014 study Generation Z Goes to College found that Generation Z students self-identify as being loyal, compassionate, thoughtful, open-minded, responsible, and determined.[50] (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation_Z#cite_note-:5-50) How they see their Generation Z peers is quite different from their own self-identity. They view their peers as competitive, spontaneous, adventuresome, and curious; all characteristics that they do not see readily in themselves.[50] (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation_Z#cite_note-:5-50)

[Rachelakld]

While the idea is fun, I wouldn't want a "friendship" with someone that young.
I wouldn't have used the "gay" line, but still 15-20 is a very annoying age.

[Tracii G]

Not sure I buy into the whole generation letter designation thing people are people and I don't judge them by age but by how they act.
Wikipedia is not a solid source of information and that explanation they gave was someones opinion and essentially double talk.
This girl seemed really sweet and didn't have any tattoos all over her which was refreshing for a change.
The age difference is a sticking point I'll be honest even for me and there is point in a friendship between a man and woman as to what is proper and improper.
If I ever go back there I'll be nice but call her I don't think so.
@ Rachael I am gay so that was not a line or excuse.
I do have some GG friends that are 10 15 years younger than I am and we shop or just hang out together all the time.
I'm not a prude but a 40 year age difference is significant.

[Lana Mae]

I would not get involved with her! Like you said 40 years is a large difference. And it may be totally innocent on her part but...no! Hugs Lana Mae

[mbmeen12]

I heard the term generation Z at a graduation ceremony so I Goggled it. The Mayor spoke of them, they are the first generation to be the most ever plugged in. And used as a marketing tool for today's business metrics, politics and web sites like this. Wiki is not the bench mark/belly button of information and if ever quoted in a college paper as a source, the professor would have dinged you :doh:. I was posting to your statement "So I have no idea what just happened really." Just a theory Tracii G because you wrote a post and encounter with a younger person........Hope the dinner was good:)

[alwayshave]

Traci, The only young women who approach me at my age are salespeople.

[Ressie]

Maybe I should start doing this 50/50 mode thing!

[Maria 60]

Besides her comment on how much she likes the way you have put yourself together and maybe wants you to put her together, I can't seem to figure out what the two of you would have in common with that huge age difference. Sometimes it's like people do things just to make you think what there up to, or what there real intentions are.

[LaurenS]

Has anyone considered she is trans?

[Jaylyn]

Was she a legal age? You said she looks about 15. That would scare me off. Any way I'm a happily married man but this sounds kind of strange. You can still give her a call and ask her what her intentions were then if they turn wrong just hang up. Does your cell phone have that button you make your number now show? You definitely don't want a stalker or under aged girl chasing you. Flattering but then illegal....

[kimdl93]

Tracii,
I believe you handled it correctly, too many succumb to needless temptation and get their fingers burnt.

Oh heck, Beverly, I've had my fingers burned a few times....they heal ;)

[natalie edwards]

"She could be into trannies..who knows?"
Maybe she's trans.....

[Allisa]

HMMMMM, quite the conundrum. I often get compliments about my hair and/or jewelry and sometimes my clothes depending on how far to the femme side I'm dressed but always by "older" females. Maybe she thought you were younger and wants to pick your brain about style and is just curious as to "who" you are. Yes kind of an iffy thing about age difference but who knows maybe you can be a mentor for a young lady. As always caution is needed. Good luck in what ever path you decide.

[Stephanie47]

I wouldn't call her. Whatever her motives may be, which are probably innocent, the age difference strikes me as weird. As a cross dresser I really do not adhere to society's social norms and expectations, but, getting involved at any level with a girl/woman who qualifies as almost a granddaughter also requires the ability to extricate oneself from a situation. You handled it well.

[Taylor186]

She said I really like your outfit and you don't see many guys wearing girls stuff and wear it tastefully. Your hair is really awesome too.

Great compliments. Am I the only one that wants to know what you were wearing? Please tell us.

[Aunt Kelly]

The age difference is only a thing if either individual is considering something other than a simple social friendship. I wasn't there, but from the description, this does not sound like anything more than that. Any time a young person, particularly one I don't know, indicates that they would like my attention, I give it if I can. Might be a kid I don't know from Adam, wanting to tell me a story when we cross paths in the park. Or it might be a young waitress who's heard about transgendered people but never met one in person and is dying of curiosity. In both cases, one should keep in mind the rules of propriety - look around for the kid's minder, make eye contact, nod and smile before engaging the kid further, or smile back at the waitress and just ask her what is on her mind. If her reasons seem, well... reasonable, offer to do as she asks. Call and set up a time to meet, at an appropriate venue, and talk. Friends are good to have. Don't pass up an opportunity to make a new one.

[Allison Chaynes]

I have a friend, non CD, whose family hosted an exchange student. One night, he foolishly allowed her to have an adult beverage. His wife was not home. She got buzzed and came on to him. He told her no, and nothing happened... until the nect day, when the student went to the police and made up a story about sleeping with him. He's lost his job, has a pending misdemeanor charge against him, but fortunately his wife believes he didn't cheat. I know Tracii is smart enough to know this, but in case anyone else gets too much pink fog and isn't thinking clearly, DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN A SITUATION WHERE EVEN THE APPEARANCE OF IMPROPRIETY CAN BE ASSUMED! Especially with an underage kid!

[Tracii G]

Allison I am no dummy and there is absolutely no way I would get tangled up with her in any way shape or form.
Her trans??? Being trans myself I'm pretty sure I know all the signs of which she had none so MtF trans no.If she were FtM she would have had those tell tale signs which are guy clothes and no make up and a buzz hair cur,none of those indicators.
Super curvy body and very nice boobs (well endowed) for what I'm guessing for being approx a 21 year old girl. Lets just say she had a very young looking face thats why I said 15 LOL.
The impropriety factor is somewhere I don't want to go.
Kind of sorry I even mentioned it now. Some of Y'all sound like you would call her and that to me is creepy.

[kimdl93]

Nah, I wouldn't call. Ive had a couple past encounters of a comparable nature...never followed through, even though I was flattered by the attention.

[Tracii G]

Kim I tend to forget most of the people here are horny men so I can see why they answer the way they do.

[kimdl93]

traci, try as we might, everyone indulges in fantasies. But in reality, as a parent and grand parent...there is a decided creepiness factor. And as I get older, that lower threshold keeps moving up. Anyone less than 50 could be my kid!!!

[Tracii G]

Yeah I think being a parent and grand parent has a lot to do with it.
I would have acted differently if it had been a handsome man in his 20's LOL

[jjjjohanne]

Tracii, I hear you! Recently, a server put her hand on my shoulder when she gave me the check and said her good-bye. I'll never go back to that restaurant. I was in guy-mode. She might have been trying to use sex get a tip out of me. I don't like girls any more, I'm married! I just like one woman!!

[Tracii G]

Joanne when a woman feels inclined to touch a man she doesn't know she wants something LOL

[kimdl93]

I'm not so rigid as to object to a casual touch...if the service was good, I'll consider the touch dessert, leave a generous tip (I always do) and be back next week.

[Teresa]

Traccii,
I would be too intrigued to know why she gave you her number. OK perhaps I wouldn't call her but if I was passing that new complex again I would pop in and see if she's working and ask her if there was something I could help her with. Who knows maybe she has a member of her family or a close friend who is TG and she wants to talk about it, she hasn't a forum to turn to .

AS for age difference, being dressed appears to blow that out of the water, I have had fun with some SAs young enough to be my daughters they just don't give age a thought , we mostly intrigue them . As for the creepy aspect , she wouldn't have approached you if she felt like that about you .

[kimdl93]

As Bailey said in "Mystery, Alaska" (a greatly underappreciated masterpiece in my opinion), " Two things we've always had in Mystery: Our dignity and our illusions. I suggest we cling to both."

as we age, we do tend to cling to our illusions. (BTW, Bailey in MA may be recognizable from his role in Dances with Wolves)

[Jodie_Lynn]

Tracii, I feel as you do on this: the age factor.

That being said however, if it were I, I would visit that restaurant again sometime. Simply to satisfy my own curiosity. Not knowing another's life story, perhaps she knows someone who is trans, or cross-dresses and she is simply looking for information.

Aside from romantic or sexual liaisons, I would go crazy trying to figure out the why. In my mind, allowing for further connection ( in the eatery) would help my to process the encounter.

[Rogina B]

Tracii,For ONCE,I agree with Teresa ! And perhaps your independence from the "gender binary" in presentation..IMPRESSED her ! And if she were to ever know about your musical talents,she would be more impressed! I am sure she just wants a friend and needs someone to talk to..How difficult is that?

[Di]

I had been out all day in my normal 50 /50 mode today and was headed home when I thought well maybe I will stop and get dinner in a new shopping area.
Had rolled my hair last night and slept on it so my hair was super wavy and in a very femme style.
This shopping area is new so I didn't know what was in there. As I cruised around it was like I had been transported in a small village and it was unlike any shopping area I had ever been in.
Really cute and homey and when all the stores are done I will go back, clothing stores make up boutiques lots of interesting shops.
Anyway I decided to try a BBQ place.
.

I totally agree with you too young ect ect

But had to comment that area you found sounds soooo cool!

Anyhoo love reading what cha doing .

[AngelaYVR]

Ok, I think I can answer this as I've had lots of experience with it.

Some young women today (the millennials) are waaay more liberal with their regard to gender and are very interested in those of us who straddle the middle ground and beyond. I have had to rebuff a fair number of 20-somethings who are looking for that next experimental encounter. I have danced/chatted with many of them but when it was obvious things were going to get heavy I had to let them down. Not easy! It's NOT just guys who fantasize about us.

It's a little different to older women (50 plus) who may have a similar fascination, I think because we have a gentler side that they find comforting. Either way, if I wasn't married I would not be lonely.

[Tracii G]

Teresa made some valid points and I will no doubt go back there with friends eventually.
She could very well have a family member or a friend that is trans so maybe I read her wrong.
I'm not an absolute expert on anything so Rogina I agree with you both.
Di this shopping are is so friendly and inviting I can't wait to go back.
Its almost like you are going back in time to a old narrow street village.
You can walk the whole thing once you find a place to park its not all spread out like some places.
Looks like there are several make up boutiques some nice upscale clothing stores and some that look to be mid range clothing stores but very intimate and not huge.
I pull into a parking spot got out and looked around and said wow this place is too cute as I was talking on my phone.
Two guys were walking past and they just looked at me like OK it looks like a girl but talks like a guy run away !!!!!

[Jodie_Lynn]

LOL a pair of sissies! What? Did they think you were gonna jump them?

Wait, were they cute? WERE you going to jump them? :)

[Leslie Langford]

Hmmm...sounds to me as if your new-found friend is a devotee of the Carly Rae Jepson "Call Me Maybe" school of how to approach strangers and ingratiate themselves with them... ;)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWNaR-rxAic

[Tracii G]

Jodie those two guys looked like hipsters so OMG not into those types.LOL

[paulaprimo]

OMG Leslie, i loved that video! it's a riot!! :)

[Vickie_CDTV]

If this girl was a fully legal adult, I don't see why it would be "creepy". Having a GG interested in a dresser isn't something that happens often. Could you blame someone for calling her (if she was a legal adult of course)?

[Tracii G]

I'm sure she is "legal" as you put it but that doesn't change the creepy old man and young girl combination.
Even if were friends the factor of impropriety weather factual or not would still be present in the minds of many people.
Before I came out and explained I was gay I dated a girl that was 23 and I was 52 at the time.
You would not believe the looks we got out at different clubs and venues.
I got called a dirty old man and cradle robber as well as pervert and trust me that was not a nice feeling.
When my youngest daughter saw us out eating dinner she was disgusted. Mostly because my date was younger than she was.
My son in law gave me the thumbs up tho because this girl was smokin hot.
We were just friends and not a couple as in being in a sexual relationship. She liked older guys and that was her thing.
She also thought clowns were erotic so yeah she was different.

[Ressie]

So this creepy thing has more to do with what other people think is that correct? Because I don't see anything wrong with having a friend that's decades younger or older. You might learn a lot from each other. But I would be careful because she might be wacky. You don't need any extra drama in your life.

[Tracii G]

Ressie I have lots of male and female friends that are decades younger than me but we enjoy the same outdoor activities so I'm not against the proposition of having younger friends thats not the point.
Having a 19-20 year old girl pass me her phone number is very odd is it not? What are her intentions? What is she looking for?
It does make you step back and wonder.

[Ressie]

I guess you just have to ask her why Tracii. It isn't the kind of thing that normally happens.

[Scarlett398]

Paula, you are absolutely hilarious. I mean that extra kind of funny that really makes me laugh. I bet you are a real hoot to hang out with. I won't ever be able to get to New York by myself without my wife, but if I ever did, I would love to do dinner with you with me dressed as Scarlett and us just sit there and eat and laugh and tell stories until the place closed.

Keep those replies coming girl friend. If I ever decide to go shopping or hit the town with a girl from this site, you would be at the very top of my list!

Love ya girl friend and you know I am as straight and as happily married to one of the sexiest redheads in the world, but hanging out with you one night with me being Scarlett would be at the top of my bucket list!

XOXOXO Scarlett :love:

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Hi Tracii with two "iis", it's Scarlett. After reading all of the replies and your replies to their replies, I'm glad you are considering going back another time with maybe a couple of pals. I think that would be the way to roll with this thing. I would make the girl feel very comfortable in asking any questions about you and you about her or her intentions.

You and I, Tracii, are probably about the same age but look no wear near our age when we are all dolled up. I know, based on the comments I receive from the other girls on this site, if I went into a bar or restaurant and stayed there for a while, I would more than likely have some guys hitting on me or gay girls hitting on me. I would find it quite flattering and have to tell them how much I appreciated their attention and/or compliments but then let them know in a very kind way that I was extremely happily married to a gorgeous girl and that I'm just a guy who loves to get dressed up as a pretty girl by the name of Scarlett.

That place you landed in, Tracii, sounds really cool. We have one or two of those places right here were I live. They are really special places to visit and shop and just sit there on a bench and people watch.

By the way, Tracii, I am a horny handsome man but only towards my wife. I could make love to her for hours every single night of the week if she let me have my way with her that often. But that ain't gonna happen because her sex drive will never match up to mine. I swear, I think most wives are like camels with water, they could get their fill in one night and then go weeks without sex! Based on input from all my buddies, that situation is quite common. I think I am a very handsome guy and if I were my wife, I would want a roll in the hay with me every single night!

By the way, GF, if you are as anything close to as gorgeous as you are in your Avatar photo, I can understand why anyone would hit on you. I wish you would send us more photos of you all girled up in The Photo Gallery. How come you don't post any photos of yourself in there. All of mine get a lot of attention and all of them are from last week or up to 4 or 5 months ago. None of them are from a year or longer ago. So still at my age I guess I clean up well as Scarlett or even as my guy self especially if I'm wearing one of those 12 slim cut suits from Joseph A. Banks I have in my closet to wear to semi formal events that I attend with my wife or when am at church on Sundays. I one of the few guys in Florida who loves to dress up and look really sharp as a guy or girl. It's just as a girl it takes me about two hours to get it all together and as a guy, I can get really really model like handsome in about 30 minutes and that, Tracii, includes the shower, shave, and donning the suit and rest of the clothes and footwear.

Every time I read your posts I am always intrigued by your transformation. You're really pretty. I wonder how long did the entire process take, how much did it cost, how was it received by all who knew you, where you glad you did it, how far have you gone with surgery, are you still glad you went through with it, do you ever have second thoughts of doing it. I have many other questions because there are no trans in this area of the country and I have never been able to sit across the table from a pretty trans and ask her all of these questions in person. If you don't want to answer any of these questions in a private message, I can understand your need to keep answers to these questions private.

Anyway, thanks for sharing your dinner story with us Tracii. Your post and the replies made for fascinating reading. I read every single note!

Take care GF and thanks for always sending me a note in reply of my photo posts. They are always short, sweet, and right to the point.

Sincerely Scarlett XOXOXO :love:

[Gabby6790]

One of my best friends, I mean literally I spend 10x more time with him than anyone else is 72 and I am 40. That friendship has nothing to do with CDing (although I think he might know). Point is I would think we of all people should be aware that stigmas like this can hold us back from enjoying life.

People are people, age, orientation, gender identity, religion, ethnicity, are all just labels.

[greeneyes]

Maybe she knows another crossdresser that could use a friend! Maybe a family member of hers is struggling alone, and she is looking to help them out.
or....she could be adventurist and want a night of fun with a crossdresser.

[Dana44]

Actually my Daughters Called me a few years ago when I was dating. They wanted to meet for dinner and I met them and bought dinner. They then told me that they did not want me to date any girls younger than them. LOL. I was dating girls from about 25 to 35 and some of them were pretty good. Well I did marry a young 34 year old and it did not go well. My Last girlfriend with me was 40 a tad younger than my daughters. That went well for a long time. Now my GF is twelve years younger than me. But I look younger than her and when we are out we look like an aging couple. So age is irrelevant as some girls like older men who have more money. I would talk to this gal to find out what she really wants and t could be that she wanted to ask about someone in her family that crossdress.

[Julie Gaum]

Tracii - You said it all. No way, no how. Asking for trouble eventually. Unless you want to adopt her.
Julie

[Lauri K]

Tracii,

I wonder if that freaking huge purse you carry around stuffed full of condoms got her attention, just saying............did she see it

She probably is just lonely and wanted someone to chat with, but if you don't call her you will never know and neither will any of us

I would probably not call her up either for reasons stated, but out of curiosity I would be tempted too just because I cannot leave well enough alone

This is like mystery and we will never know unless you make the call..........

Standing by for updates from YOU

[Meghan4now]

Tracii,

You are far wiser than you give yourself credit for. I guarantee you made the right decision. Too much, too fast, too many warning signs.

Of course, it is flattering, and more half the board was drooling after your description. In fact, you could have started the post with "dear penthouse, this never happens to me, but...."

However, in the long run you probably dodged a bullet. Starts off great, but then obsession sets in. And you can't shake it.

[suzanne]

Something like that happened recently to me. I was in a mall, having just left the Lane Bryant, wearing a plaid skirt my favorite black wedges and a dark blue short sleeved top, but otherwise a guy trying his best to be presentable. I was heading out toward the exit when I heard a voice and footsteps coming up quickly behind me. A young female voice said "Excuse me." I stopped, not knowing whether this would be a good or bad encounter. "I just want to say you look really, really, really nice." I smiled and thanked her, but didn't know what to say next, so I continued on my way. I hadn't gotten such a positive response from any non-SA before, not even my wife, so it really made my evening. I'm just glad she didn't offer me her phone number. She seemed younger than my own daughter.

[Tracii G]

Meghan the girl was super cute but really young looking for her age I'm guessing 21 out of the blue but could pass for 16 17 with the right clothes.
I think you know what I mean at least I hope so.
Very slim tight and curvy with monster boobs for he size. I mean all the guys in the place were transfixed on the butt and boobs.
It makes me wonder if she isn't full of it and passed her number on to several men I just don't know for sure.
I will go back and be cordial and try to figure out just where she is coming from.


Lauri K I didn't have my purse with me at the time so I know she didn't see any massive condom carrier on my person.
I'm not sure what you are suggesting Miss Thing but sex with a girl?? Oh ewww now you have crossed the line LOLOL

Scarlett there are plenty of pics of me in the Boy VS Girl thread in the photo gallery you would have to search thru them to find me.
I don't post a large amount of pics because its not all about me or the clothes and all that stuff.
I keep things simple and from the heart and not in it for glory and accolades.
I'm 64 going on 35 and try to live life honestly as best I can.
It takes me a few hours to go from gay guy to 100% female mode just for the record sometimes more sometimes less.

[Jodie_Lynn]

A huge purse full of condoms?????? Are you the condom fairy? LOL

[Tracii G]

Jodie that darn Lauri K accused me of filling my large purse with condoms so maybe I am the condom fairy.
I should get extra pay here then if thats the case.
Where is that raise Lauri K?

[Becky Blue]

Tracii great story and thanks for sharing it, I guess you will never know what her agender was. It is always nice when we have pleasant encounters.

[Tracii G]

I love encounters and I am sure there is nothing to it I just have never had one quite like that.
Kind of a surprise more than anything.

[Jodie_Lynn]

Tracii, what if it had been a male? A cute 20-something hottie with a killer smile ( and a tight little butt)?

Just curious

[Tracii G]

Jodie I would have had him fill out an application and schedule an interview.LOLOL
I would have already called I'm sure.

[Anne K]

Tracii, I'd give her a call and see where it goes. Adventures like this make for great stories and possibly friendships.

[Jodie_Lynn]

Jodie I would have had him fill out an application and schedule an interview.LOLOL
I would have already called I'm sure.

UHM, if that theoretical hottie fails the audition, maybe you could hypothetically throw him my way? >blushes<

[Tracii G]

Joyce P. I have female friends to go do things with so adding one or losing one wont be a crucial thing.
Plus they are either close to my age or 20 years younger. 40 years difference now thats different IMO.
Went back to that shopping area again last evening and ate at Ted's Montana Grill and had a lovely Bison burger.
The one I had was the Red Rock burger BTW it was fantastic.

[Vickie_CDTV]

I was involved on and off with a woman who is 31 years my senior. I never really cared if people noticed or what they thought... granted both of us are pretty weird to begin with and something we were used to. If people thought it was creepy... whatever. We were consenting adults. There are practical matters that are more of an issue, as I enter middle age she is preparing for "end of life"... and that is really upsetting and disturbing to me :sad:

[Bobbi46]

Tracii,
What an amazing experience but I can see where you are coming from, I just love your comments.

[Tracii G]

Thanks Bobbi.
I don't know if people can sense something different in people(or me) so they come up and make contact for whatever reason, its interesting to say the least.

[Angie G]

May be all well and good but I'd leave it alone being that young. Besides I don't think my wife would approve. Heck I've got granddaughters older them that.:hugs:
Angie

[Rhonda Jean]

How about texting her? Just tell her the curiosity is killing you. I suspect she has a relative who is trans and is curious about life as a trans person.

I was at a dept. store several years ago and noticed this mom and two girls looking at me. First thought is I guess I wasn't passing as well as I thought. The the youngest one came up to me and said she was writing a school paper on "transexuals" an d wondered if she could interview me. Said we could do it there or go to a restaurant or something. I didn't believe she just happened to be writing such a paper and figured something else was going on, but I didn't know what. I figure she/they were just curious and found some somewhat plausible way of asking me questions. I declined, but afterward thought I should've. What could it hurt? I've said a million times on here I'm no activist, but I don't think I should have run away from enlightening them even a little. The possibility exists that they were just out to have a laugh at my expense, but I don't think so. Besides if they did that wouldn't be the first time. The possibility also exists that she was writing a paper. I'll never know now.

I hope you call her, text her, go by the restaurant again... something! I'm dying to know what that's all about!

[Bobbi46]

Tracii. Its your magnetic personality! carry on pulling, enjoy! LoL

[Tracii G]

Yeah thats it Bobbi LOLOL.
I have tried a few other eating spots in that shopping area and I will go try that BBQ place again and hope to see her again and take a pic with her or something.

Dinning tip : if there is a Blaze pizza place in your area go try it its really good. Ted's Montana Grill is excellent too.

[Sherrii]

You had better find out how old she really is before you do anything, even go shopping. Even if she is young (but still over 18) for you it could be fun doing some things with her. Sherrii

[LeannS]

Tracii

Oh my what a thread you started about 2900 views and 73 replies in a week.

You do what ever pleases you Tracii

Leann

[Bobbi46]

But don't go into a sea food restaurant, you may pull a MUSSEL!!! LoL

[Rebecca W.]

Hi Tracii,

I like your strong personality, and your cautious approach towards this young lady. I agree with you on only approaching her in the confines of a public place like the restaurant that she works in. My feeling is that she admires your strength to expose your femininity even when you are dressed casually.
I wish you all the best in this interesting encounter with a curious, young lady.

Take Care,

Rebecca

[Tracii G]

Going to hang out with a guy friend later this afternoon (semi Date woo hoo) and we planned on going there for dinner.
I have no idea if the young lady will be there but if so I'll just come out and ask her the reason she gave me her phone number.
At least having Ramone with me I won't feel too awkward.

[Bobbi46]

Go for it Tracii, sounds as though this working out well for you, a bit of moral support together with the possibility of finding out what is going on at the same time.

[Tracii G]

Here is the low down for y'all.
Handsome Mr Ramone S. and I did have dinner there and yes the young lady was there doing her hostess thing like last time.
My guess is she is the best looking of the female workers so thats why she is the hostess. The girls behind the counter look like they couldn't pass a drug test for crack seriously.
Anyway my guess this young girl is either a nymphomaniac or a hooker because she passed a note to one guy sitting fairly close to us.
I did not see the need to proceed any further.

[Lana Mae]

Wise choice! Hugs Lana Mae

[Lauri K]

I wonder if the note she passed along had a note written on it like look at the gay trans chick over in booth 69 w/ cute guy................I glanced down at her purse and OMG what a stash she has

Have a great evening and get ready to go to Waverly #502 this fall

[Tracii G]

Thanks Lana Mae.
Lauri you are hell bent on having me pee myself and scream like a little girl aren't you?
Waverly is soooo freaking creepy.
Oh @ I'll bring the condoms.

[ReineD]

She’s just really young. She is still learning and so she is curious, IMO. And trusting. But she hasn’t yet learned of the dangers of giving out personal information to strangers. She likely feels indestructible. I was like that, at that age.

[Tracii G]

Thats quite possible Reine.
I was like that too at that age and consequences didn't matter.