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SallyS
07-29-2017, 03:29 AM
Having just had an entire week to myself I was lucky to have spent at least 70% of my time as a women. This is the first time EVER I have had this wonderful opportunity and although my time is over, it was a good experience for me.

To cap it off I got the 'one' shot that has eluded me for years. An external projection of the woman I wish I had been in reality. Its not a vanity thing, or self gratification it is how my inner self would have wanted to have been seen by the outside world. Alas its just a fantasy, an illusion of my perception of the women inside. Of course its not the sort of outfit I'd be washing the dishes in, but would for a 'girls' night out ;)

Anyway, with a touch of sadness, I must put my female side to the back of my mind for now (not easy) and deal with my own reality..... boring, drab and colourless 'mans' world ! (I'll be back in Autumn)

Sally x280237

Alison Bellis
07-29-2017, 04:06 AM
Bitter/Sweet. But you look lovely.

Alison x

BarbaraGurl
07-29-2017, 04:15 AM
You are beautiful Sally. I have been living as a woman most of the time for a month now. I'm a Plain Jane and dress casually but it's been wonderful. Being a gurl is relaxing and I slipped into femininity and it felt quite natural. Hope you have more opportunities in the future.

Cheers,

Barbara

DIANEF
07-29-2017, 05:49 AM
I've had weeks to myself in the past, what I'd give for another one...Love the dress, tights, heels, the whole look really.

Stephanie Nicole
07-29-2017, 06:41 AM
Sally, first let me say how gorgeous you look and how envious I am of you that you were able to do this. Hopefully next spring or something, I can arrange some time away for a few days where Stephanie can get some real time out.

Crystal 42
07-29-2017, 06:46 AM
You look amazing Sally. That dress is really gorgeous and suits you so well. :) Fabulous pictures like this one are making me think about reevaluating my wardrobe.

GretchenM
07-29-2017, 06:50 AM
Very pretty indeed. Just keep in mind, just because you put the clothes away and go back to drab does not mean the girl in you is gone. She is still there and very likely a sizeable bit of who you are as a male. I really don't think that a male could look that feminine without have a complementary girl to share the ride of Life.

alwayshave
07-29-2017, 07:12 AM
Sally, glad you had some time to her self. Beautiful picture.

Anne K
07-29-2017, 07:17 AM
You look wonderful and happy! Enjoy the moments you have as Sally.

Angie G
07-29-2017, 07:28 AM
What a good looking woman you make Sally. And great legs hun.:hugs:
Angie

Jean 103
07-29-2017, 07:47 AM
Mixed feelings. I remember these times and I'm happy for you. Being able to be yourself and dress as you like only when the opportunity arises. You are beautiful. Everyone has their own path, best of luck.

Stacy Darling
07-29-2017, 07:48 AM
You look Happy and Content Sally, very Happy!

So you can no longer say "The Woman I never was!" as you now have.

Nice dress also!

Stacy!

debbienraleigh
07-29-2017, 08:23 AM
Agree with Stacy - you look so happy and I also agree with others as you are a beautiful woman. I just love your classy look, fashion style, and how feminine you look.

Karen RHT
07-29-2017, 08:34 AM
I agree with the others about how happy, content, and stylish you look. I feel your pain about needing to push it all back in order to maintain balance in your life.


Karen

rockerreds
07-29-2017, 09:25 AM
Very nice.

docrobbysherry
07-29-2017, 09:38 AM
U look great, Sally. I hope to get to wear that dress on a nite out with the "girls"!:battingeyelashes:

Samm
07-29-2017, 09:38 AM
All I can say is wow! You look great. I get a couple of hours every week or two, which is fine. But I'd love for a whole day of girl time. Someday.

Jane G
07-29-2017, 10:09 AM
Ouch, I can so relate to your post. Life goes on though, make the most of it. Dressing, enjoying our inner feminine side, is a huge part of it, but for many of us, there are other things that we put first.

CarlaWestin
07-29-2017, 11:04 AM
........I got the 'one' shot that has eluded me for years.

Great picture! It's always that one shot, isn't it?

Lana Mae
07-29-2017, 11:05 AM
You look lovely, Sally! Glad you got Sally time! Sorry you must put her away for so long! She will be with you always though! Some of us sometimes must do the male thing! Carry on and be comfortable on your journey! Hugs Lana Mae (as has been said you can't say never anymore!)

paulaprimo
07-29-2017, 11:34 AM
you look wonderful SALLY!
i love the dress and heels... a very classy look!
the smile on your face says it all. :)

JenniferZ
07-29-2017, 11:36 AM
Absolutely love the look. Thanks for sharing and here is hoping you get more time.

Jennifer

Alice Torn
07-29-2017, 12:31 PM
I sure know the feelings!! Being the outer lady, for a short time, then back to my painful lonely male life, but slowly accepting him, too. Looking fab!

Barbara Black
07-30-2017, 08:41 AM
About not doing dishes in that dress (which is very nice by the way). You are in the wrong time period, June Cleaver (Beaver's Mom), was always doing dishes in her finest dresses. Hmm? Now that I think about it, I think she inspired me to wear dresses...

kimdl93
07-30-2017, 09:03 AM
Sally, you certainly hit the sweet spot. Of course you always look great. Everything just seems to have come together again for you!

Tina Davis
07-31-2017, 12:41 PM
Sally, this picture is so perfect and feminine. I totally understand the sadness after multiple days of being your female self. But I know that the next time, you will find that woman again within yourself. :hugs:

Teresa
07-31-2017, 01:31 PM
Hi Sally,
Great to meet another UK member.

It's a shame sally has to be packed away, when she looks so good.
I'm hoping that situation is going to change for me, and I'll be able to dress as much as I like, in my own home, in the near future.

josie_S
08-01-2017, 11:25 AM
you look beautiful and it's great to see what you feel inside..thanks for sharing it with us!

Debra Russell
08-01-2017, 11:50 AM
You looked lovely in that dress and I understand totally having to put "her" away.................................Debra

Beverley Sims
08-01-2017, 02:38 PM
Sally,
You should do it more often.

Jaylyn
08-01-2017, 03:04 PM
You look lovely and really glow with the female coming out from the time spent dressing. It will return when you get the next chance for a period of time.

Becky Blue
08-01-2017, 11:55 PM
Firstly Sally you look fantastic in that pic... isn't it great to have that one picture that just captures everything we feel just perfectly. Also totally get the bittersweet feeling of sadness knowing that an incredible experience is now over but that we are going to be left with amazing memories.

Marie-Jo
08-02-2017, 01:26 AM
Nice dress on a beautiful person. You look really happy too.
Makes me long for both a dress and a couple of days to wear it without interruptions, to get the same happy smile!

DianeT
08-02-2017, 07:37 AM
Congratulations Sally. This is a beautiful picture of a beautiful person.

ronda
08-02-2017, 10:18 AM
you look fantastic nice dress till the next time and it will come

Dana44
08-02-2017, 10:22 AM
Sally, you look great and hope you will have time in the future to be the woman you are.

Sarah Doepner
08-02-2017, 11:29 AM
Those extended periods when we can explore more than just the superficial aspect of our female aspect can be amazing, challenging, rewarding and frustrating. I'm glad to see you had the time and seemed to use it well. Best wishes for your autumn return!

Stephanie47
08-02-2017, 11:36 AM
You look lovely in that dress. You wear it well. When our daughter lived in the midwest my wife would go to visit her every year for seven to ten days. That gave me ample time to hang dresses and slips in the closet; line heels up under the dresses; and, empty my boy undergarments into a box and replace them with panties, bras, hosiery. Alas, our daughter has moved thirty miles away from us. My wife on occasion has gone to visit a cousin in the southwest for a week. I sure wish she resumes those visits.

NewBrendaLee
08-02-2017, 11:39 PM
Sally, Sweetie you look great. I too wish that in reality I was a female.