Wearing Panties -V- Being Bi-Curious

[annekathleen]

Ive seen this topic discussed in many chat rooms.
I've asked a two part question:
a) Are most panty wearing guys bi or bi curious?
b) Do most bi or bi curious guys wear panties?

I started out as a panty wearing guy,
I guess I evolved into a bi guy,
And eventually expanded my curiousity to cross dressing
where Im wearing wigs and fake silicone breasts and
shaving my arm pits.
I have not gotten to the make up and jewelery stage yet.

[Annaliese]

I don't know about it being true for every one but for me it is true also.

I love my wife and I have not acted on it, but because it would be cheating on her. Whether it is with a woman or a man it is still cheating, I read one forum that if it with a man it is not cheating but it is.

I know this was not part of your thread, I just need to add it.

Anna

[annekathleen]

I agree with you. When you are in a steady relationship, and you stray outside of that relationship, either hetero or bi, cheating is cheating.
Since my divorce, ( single again ) I've explored my bi sexual side.
Talk about guilt and issues. Did a lot of soul searching, figured out what I want to do to make me happy, I remain discrete, don't want the family to ever find out, and I discretely fool around with a few close friends that I've come to meet and know.

[Julie York]

You need to separate dressing from sexuality to understand. They are two different ways of thinking that overlap but are not directly related. People dress and are totally straight. People are Bi and wouldn't dream of wearing women's clothing. They do not come together by default. A Bi crossdresser is just one of the many facets. Being one does not mean by default that you also are the other.

[maria]

I have been dressing for 20 years and always considered myself 100% hetero but recently my fantasies have involved me as a woman pleasing a man. I would never go through with it but does that make me 'bi-curious'?

I agree that one does not lead to the other and vice versa but this is how i am beginning to feel, am I beginning a new chapter in my dressing?

[annekathleen]

They are not "always" related,
But they can "sometimes" be very related

[Jenny Warren]

Ive seen this topic discussed in many chat rooms.
I've asked a two part question:
a) Are most panty wearing guys bi or bi curious?
b) Do most bi or bi curious guys wear panties?

I started out as a panty wearing guy,
I guess I evolved into a bi guy,
And eventually expanded my curiousity to cross dressing
where Im wearing wigs and fake silicone breasts and
shaving my arm pits.
I have not gotten to the make up and jewelery stage yet.

I ONLY wear female underwear when I am in female mode.

I ONLY wear male underwear when I am in male mode.

I ONLY wear make up and jewellery when I am in female mode.

I am NOT bi-curious.

I know plenty of guys who wear panties who are not bi-curious

I know plenty of guys who might be interested in another male but they don't wear panties.

Jenny

[connie rotten]

I wear panties becauce I crossdress. As for my being bi-curious: I am not. I am other crossdresser curious. I have no desire to be involved with guys as guys.My intrest in other guys in panties being girls while I'm in panties being a girl I find to be a whole other thing.:dom:

[calliekat]

I wear panties all the time. About 95% of the time, mostly under my mans clothes. I find it more comfortable.
Am I Gay? Hell no.
Am I Bi? Hell no.

[tvgirl4fun]

I started out wearing lingerie (not just panties).

That evolved to being bi-curious.

That evolved to "full" crossdressing.

I'm only sexually interested in guys (or other CDs, not panty wearing guys) when I crossdress.

When I crossdress, it isn't always for sexual fun. I do a lot of "regular" things when I crossdress (PO, grocery shopping, movies, dining out, being a tourist when I travel, etc.)

To answer your two-part question:

a) "most", not necessarily;
b) see "a)".

Jaie

[Lisa Baby]

I agree with you. When you are in a steady relationship, and you stray outside of that relationship, either hetero or bi, cheating is cheating.
Since my divorce, ( single again ) I've explored my bi sexual side.
Talk about guilt and issues. Did a lot of soul searching, figured out what I want to do to make me happy, I remain discrete, don't want the family to ever find out, and I discretely fool around with a few close friends that I've come to meet and know.

So long as you are single, you should feel free to try ANYTHING at least once.

As someone pointed out in a previous thread, you may want to make your approach to any man in a SAFE enviroment. She recomended that a girl might go to a gay or CD bar where a man would not :eek: when you revealed the secret between your thighs.

THINK about what you want, and then GO GET IT!

I met my MAN after several months of excangeing E-Mail messages. We discussed many things about ourselves before HE brought up a possible meeting.

We met, ;) and have been very happy in our relationship. I get to be the person I am, satsfying my inner desires, and he gets the attention he craves.

Lisa

[Jennaie]

I have mixed feelings on this issue. I have found myself thinking of being with a man, mysellf being the female. The times that I have these thoughts are when I have had very close male friends that I felt a deep emotional attachment to. Although I have never realized or pursued my interest in this, I would not say that it is something that I would not do. But I doubt that it will ever happen.

I suppose the reason I am responding to this post is because I have had these thoughts quite a bit recently and have had a difficult time dealing with what they are all about. Yes, I currently have a very close friend that I feel a deep emotional attachment to, but hell, he is just guy, and it's just male bonding, right?

Well, there must be more to it than that, because I can't stop thinking of how much pleasure it would bring to me to give myself to hiim.

Then on the other hand, perhaps if I currently had an SO, I would not be thinking of him at all. I just don't know.

[Kitty Sue]

I am a bi CD but I do not believe being one automaticly makes you the other.

I am usually only interested in guys when I am in femme.

[Simmone]

I am sure I read somewhere that a huge proportion of all men have gay fantasies, I think it was over half - does anyone know that statistic?

For my part my CDing is more aligned to my preference to being submissive in the bedroom; both in my gay fantasies (not something I ever want to turn into reality) and in my sexual encounters with ladies (a reality I'd like to see more of).

Oh for a dominant lady with a preference for CDing men! Anyone know where I can find one?

[GypsyKaren]

Wearing panties doesn't mean you're gay...getting caught in bed with a Brazilian soccer player named "Rolph", however, probably does.

Karen

[AnnaMaria]

I would have to say that just because you are one does not make you the other. I have been wearing panties exclusively for about three yrs now and I am by no means bi or curious. I don't see any real way to connect the two in any way. Now I do agree that there are those of us who are bi or curious but I believe that they would be wheather they wore panties or not.Though I have to admit that I have met a few girls who say that they only feel attracted to men when dressed and have no attraction to men otherwise. That said I just don't think that the panties have anything to do with it, I think that for most who feel that way it probably has something to do with the idea that they feel free to explore their fem side more openly when dressed. I am by no means a doctor so I have no real basis for this belief but it just seems to fit the situation from my point of view.

I know that when I am dressed I feel more free to express my inner feelings than I do when I am not, maybe because most of the feelings that I tend to express are more fem and I am afraid to express them otherwise for fear of being outed. Who knows for sure.

anna

[SexxxyBrianna]

I wear panties becauce I crossdress. As for my being bi-curious: I am not. I am other crossdresser curious. I have no desire to be involved with guys as guys.My intrest in other guys in panties being girls while I'm in panties being a girl I find to be a whole other thing.:dom:

I have recently felt like you Connie. I have no feelings for other men, period. I do however have fantasys of possibly being with my SO/GG, and a passable TG.
I read an article on the question of if a man has relations with a TG does that make him gay? The answer given was that if you see the TG as a woman, than it is not considered gay, if you view the TG as a man in womans clothes, than you may have gay tendences. It all depends on how you personaly view the situation. I don't know how accurate that is, but I like it :happy:

Brianna